Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
For sure, didn’t realize it at the time all the pressure they put on the woman as if it was my fault and I could hurry things up!
Is my friend being scammed?
- Thread starter pingle2093
- Start date
Nothing is perfect
I have told some off my story but there's lots more to tell
Off all the tricks they pull
Off all the lies they tell
Off all the abuse violence they do
I wish I knew how to send a voice message to this site only for admin
Its in Arabic but I had it translated from a few different sources
What was said in that voice message by ratty and his friends is shocking !!
Deleted Member 002
Major Ratslayer
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Deleted Member 002
Major Ratslayer
Truuth
When u expose the rats I advise you never to back to Tunisia unless its at the other end off Tunisia
Ur life could be in danger
They can do whatever they want scam u violently assault you rape u beat u steal from u
But if u dare expose them your life is threatened
Don't worry even though they all knew he did this to u
U can't tell the world
Because telling the truth on a Tunisian rat
Your telling the truth about all rats
And they don't like that
So not only will your rat be angry but all other rats
The rat himself will try to get u to come back to him come back to Tunisia
Because they want u to delete it all and then they know they can do whatever he wants to u because ur on his turf then
Then off they go to tell other rats u deleted because your crazy and a liar
Once u say the truth never go back to where the rat is!!!
Deleted Member 002
Major Ratslayer
I will never go back to Tunisia,i have no idea where the rat is now. He can be all over the world. But i know he sent me an sms about 2 years ago,if he could call me,but i blocked and never talked to him. Not after all he did to me,and all he told the other wimen about me. Gone is gone,finish is finish,no way back
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
It takes a while for that to sink into their tiny brain!
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
Hi @Broken soul rats are cruel men who have the ability to wear you down because we women are in this relationship with love. Rats don't. They are with us for other reasons and it destroys you.
All they want is a visa to bring over their tunisian bride.
It's a cruel game they are playing and it takes time and alot of energy to come to terms with the fact he just used and abused you.
I'm sorry you are going through this @Broken soul we all know what you are feeling
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
She's in the amiga stage now and her rat will do all he can to make her feel loved and adored. Untill he stuffs up and she discovers lies there's not much you can do for her than to be there for her. She's looking through rose tinted glasses and she is in love.
It's hard to watch her fall into the hands of this rat, hopefully he will feed her obvious lies so she opens her eyes and starts to investigate.
The rats will never leave u alone even years later they pop up
They will still think they can Control u even though u have finished the relationship
Mine called me I accidently answered it was new number
I told him sorry I can't talk I'm going out
He said where will u go
I said out
He said we will see if u go out
Wtf I never laughed as much
I said bye bye I really have to go I'm late already
And cut the call
He messaged with u cut the fucking call see what I do now and u will not go out
I replied do ur fucking best with a laughing emoji
I Blocked him again hahah
They will still think they can Control u even though u have finished the relationship
Mine called me I accidently answered it was new number
I told him sorry I can't talk I'm going out
He said where will u go
I said out
He said we will see if u go out
Wtf I never laughed as much
I said bye bye I really have to go I'm late already
And cut the call
He messaged with u cut the fucking call see what I do now and u will not go out
I replied do ur fucking best with a laughing emoji
I Blocked him again hahah
Astarisborn
Major Ratslayer
I changed my number after ending it, that way even if the rat got a new number he could never call.
the best freedom in the world
the rat's think they are running a mafia, like watch me do what I want now
and there is absolutely nothing the rat can do about it haha
Mafia ong I'm in stitches laughing
Here comes the tubi4suan rat mafia really hahaha
Omg throw em some cheeses ffs
Even allowing him to think that she can only be used as a last resort is the green light for him - of course it is going to be the last resort because that is what he will convince her to think.
They will stoop to any level to gain money, gifts and a visa.
You are right in not confronting her with your doubts now as she will immediately feel defensive of him, he will tell her that you are just jealous......slowly but surely he will isolate her as much as possible - it is a very common method to ensure victory for him!
I would just try to pretend to be genuinely interested about him and his culture, let her believe you are not judging but slowly plant seeds and hopefully she will discover the truth herself.
Once she believes that you approve then I would mention that you stumbled across TLR when you were googling their culture to understand how to help him settle in your country and hopefully she will come and read our stories and experiences and what is NOT acceptable of genuine Tunisians, we are inquisitive by nature.
MH x
pingle2093
Well-Known Member
I will try, but I think it's already way too late. Not much I can do I think, without coming across as trying to take happiness away.
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
How is everything going with your friend @pingle2093 ?
pingle2093
Well-Known Member
She's good, all seems ok, they're just waiting for the visa to be approved and it should be soon.
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
When his visa is approved he can soon come to her. Let's hope he's a decent man.
You are aware now to look out for rat signs and I suppose she's still all loved up and happy. Fingers crossed she doesn't get hurt
also marrying dead quick .probably telling her that u can't stay in hotels r apts.unless their married cost they can b jailed which is true .also probably saying too he didn't want his wife to b frowned upon cos he loves her so much
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
I feel very fortunate reading these stories about the jail thing sharing an apartment! My rat did tell me about the hotel thing but never mentioned the sharing of apartment! I think I would’ve thought twice about it if so. The first time going over , there are so many red flags looking back! Guess this is one way of forcing marriage On the women simply because we do not know! And then all they talk about is the visa and being together and I will take care of you blah blah, when the truth is you will be taking care of them! The lengths they got to!!
pingle2093
Well-Known Member
My friend's husband has been here for a few weeks now. I've met him and he is a nice man I think, is working and learning english, so nothing to worry and I'm happy for them.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Hope it works out.
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
I have to add by the time of his interview I had sent some info to embassy that might have done him more harm.. But it was true and he posted me off
