is there a signal that it is rat

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  1. scipio

    scipio Member

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    I DO NOT KNOW THIS I WANT TO READ OUT
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    Did she goto Morocco to meet him before he came to Bulgaria?

    He moved very fast if he is already living now in Bulgaria.

    Does he work in Bulgaria now or does she pay for his expenses?
     
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  3. scipio

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    MULTIPLE ROMANTIC IS NOT SUPERIOR
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    @scipio could you start telling your story having these questions as guide. We are getting confused. It’s necessary to know if they meet in flesh or if it’s only a FB relationship.
     
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    He doesn’t have pictures of your ex girlfriend on FB? Does he have other Facebook accounts?

    Why did he visit China?
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    I think he is now in Bulgaria with her.
     
  7. scipio

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    FROM ONE MONTH LIVING TOGETHER IT DOES NOT HAPPEN
     
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  8. scipio

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    NO RIGHT TO WORK in Bulgaria
     
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  9. scipio

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    YES HE IS YOU Bulgaria
     
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    Yes, it’s very possible he is a Rat and he uses her for a visa. He cannot work so she must pay all his living expenses.

    He is a Muslim man and cannot live with a woman before he is married.

    It’s a bad sign, but she is beguiled by him. Maybe if they marry he can work there.

    He travelled already to China. How did he do this. He is a waiter she does not earn much money. Maybe someone paid for him to go there? Another woman maybe?

    You are right to be concerned. But I think she won’t listen to you, she is sure he loves her and wants to be with her. It’s difficult for you if you still have feelings for her.

    Perhaps her family and friends are also doubting him?
     
  11. scipio

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    Maybe someone can contact her on facebook delicately to explain why he is in danger.In eastern Europe, fraud now enters and people are very excited here-there is no one to help
     
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    It’s not something we can do. There is no evidence he is a rat or used her for a visa.

    All you can do is tell her to be careful. You could send her a link to TLR so she can read here.

    They did nothing wrong, she is unwise maybe but people often make bad choices. She is an adult and can make her own decisions. All you can do is warn her.
     
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    You ask if he's a love rat? This guy is on the internet and probably he is very active on maybe different dating sites. I like Moroccans because they are quiet by nature and there is no bustle in Morocco but I would have kept far away from both Tunisians and Moroccans because of the danger of being exploited in the form of bezness but who can trust anyone
     
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    Can't understand why he moved to Bulgaria? Sorry but I think he will probably try to get a visa to other countries via Bulgaria because Bulgaria is in the shengen.
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Hi, to put some reason into that girl, you got to bring her or a good friend of her here to TLR. His fb says that he lives in China. The last 6 years he says on linkedin that he is a head waiter in an italian restaurant in Qatar, which I think closed in 2016. You got to find out what he told her and if he is lying to her too ;)
     
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    лошото няма контакт с нея или с приятели, то е изолирано от всички
    никой не иска да помогне, не ми вярват за съществуването на bezness
     
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    Translation:
    bad has no contact with her or friends, it is isolated from everyone
    no one wants to help, they do not believe me for the existence of bezness

    :(
     
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    badly no contact with her or friends, she is isolated from everyone
    no one wants to help, they do not trust me Bezness
     
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    Maybe you can try to give her this page or send the link anonymously to avoid getting trouble yourself
     
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    I sent a video and a forum hope to see them
     
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    Don't they think of bezness? It's strange because Bulgaria doesn't have the best rumor about fraud? Thought that Bulgarians were more skeptical of immigrants and especially Muslim men? Bezness is no joke believe that there are large numbers of darkness around the world regarding bezness. But when women are in love there are many who only look with a pink veil in front of their eyes they can't see how person is
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    There is bezness in Bulgaria, but like many women in the western world, she might not have heard about it ;)
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    He already isolated her. :Evil: It’s typical, “just you and me my love” “wo need to make life easy”
     
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    Just have to say that you are a kind ex who wants to help her is surprised that there are exs who want to help. Nothing negative meant
     
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    They know what they are doing and they are sneaky. They are good actors
     
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