PSA: Calling all possible victims, rat groupies, unsure victims and anything in between. I haven't posted my rat YET (personal reasons). I will post him soon. But I wanted to show you a glimpse of what i dealt with. Why I posted this? The mind games, subliminal, passive aggressive, narcissistic, indirect, subtle bullcrap they will put you through is NOT worth your sanity. Im still trying to find my strength some days. This will be your life if you even attempt to speak to a rat on a friendship level. They will suck you in. You will find yourself trying to decipher and decode their messages and who they are like an FBI Agent. Do you really want that? Few things you need to know: 1. You are not crazy, you will feel like it though. You are NOT. 2. He will promise you the world and possibly promise to buy you a country that doesn't even exist (like Wakanda). 3. Your gut instinct is right. If you have any doubt do not suppress it. IT IS RIGHT!! 4. These women on this forum have no reason to lie and nothing to gain. They lost it all already. They are helping others while still putting the pieces back together. Some strength they have. 5. His family does not care for you. Oh, their son is always right, even if he is scamming you. They are all a package deal. 6. Read the religion and culture. Their behavior, mannerisms, etc. It will answer most of your questions. 7. Its abuse. Link up with a professional or someone you know to understand terms like Ghosting, Love Bombing, Narcissism, etc. 8. Those nice beach images they send you. GOOGLE MAP can dispute that. Takes 5 minutes of your time. Its just an illusion. Yes, some areas nice, but have you ever seen a rat in a mansion in Tunisia. They use those nice areas to reel you in. I like blue water too. 9. Remember we talking about rats, NOT all Tunisian men (small disclaimer). 10. You are NOT special. They are talking to other women (sorry to be the barrier of bad news). 11. They don't all ask for money. Some don't ask for anything. BUT their is a motive. You'll find it out, trust me. 12. Their patience cant be matched. They will wait it out for years to get what they want. Time means nothing. 13. Closed currency country. You already spend money for your trip. DONT spend money on a rat, cus he won't spend any on you. Well, wait, he will cover coffee, water and small things. Possibly with the other victims money. Yes, it happens. 14. If you are still with a rat and wants to be hard-headed after ignoring the signs. Please have the psychologist on speed dial. We will be here for you as well. 15. Protect your children. They don't care who they use. Children are like sponges. They absorb everything, so don't subject them to this. 16. Yes they are religious and they love Allah. They are very committed to their religion. But they are NOT committed to you. You are an infidel, k*ffar (offensive word for non-believer). 17. They can potentially be married already. Or in line to be married. Don't be a side-chic like me. Cus thats what you'll be to a rat. 18. Their women are "property." Again, you aint special (sorry). There is no Cinderella ending. They cant treat their own women right. Again talking rats. 19. An animator is NOT your friend. He is a bezness man. His job is NOT to fall in love, BUT to entertain you at the resort and off. 20. Stop being condescending to other women cus your rat got your head in the clouds. Won't be fun when the rabbits got the gun. Please think. 21. Women can be rats too. Also, for the men rats, his woman scamming you too. Who else gone buy her that fake Tommy Hilfiger purse. Your money. At this point, you're a bank for them. 22. No, your rat is NOT different. He just finesse differently is all. Bezness is a job for them. You really think he is different. Come onnnnn. If you do, send me a message, I'll sell you the White House for $1.00 (USD) and ya'll can live there happily ever after. 23. IF YOU ARE READING THIS FORUM, Googled your man.... you done caught yourself a rat. Something prompt you to seek answers. Where there is smoke, there is fire. Last, enough women have shared their stories. Read and prevent. Disclaimer: We are talking rats for the ones who cant decipher or seem to grasp the concept that we are not lumping as a whole. See messages from my rat. Well a short version. I don't understand a word. But this is a small glimpse. Wait til I put him in gallery when I can recover my messages. You'll think he was an amazing man. He is the cousin of medusa and nephew of satan. Awful he is.