I've been contacted on Facebook by a rat... what should I do

Discussion in 'Rat Behavior' started by beznessbitch, Apr 13, 2018.

  1. Gorgeous

    Gorgeous Well-Known Member

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    Not relevant to this post - so apologies.
    Got confirmation today my rat married 6 months ago.
    These low-lifes get exactly what they want. European nationality, permanent job, plastic virgin, big man in their home town - and life is wonderful for them.
    Now applying for bride to come here.
    Cheat, lie, scam and come up smelling of roses.
    As mentioned before she will have a life here which should could never have imagined and he has the compliant baby maker.
    Please note- this is not jealousy- I hate the sight of him- it's sheer anger at the deceit and smugness.
    Rant over.
     
  2. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    Rant away. Even when you know it’s was the master plan and you expected it, it can still churn up all kinds of horriblefeelings and memories. After 15 years offering him a good life and multiple opportunities you have every right to spit-in his eye.
     
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  3. Gorgeous

    Gorgeous Well-Known Member

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    Thank you - needed to hear that.
    Family can't really understand the anger we go through.
    I am not a vindictive person but I really hope he has a shit life and hopefully zibi won't work!
     
  4. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    I think you can be pretty sure his life will be full of screaming babies and being poor and miserable.
     
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    same shit different location:D:D:D
     
  6. Gorgeous

    Gorgeous Well-Known Member

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    Wifey will be one up on other sisters in law - all about showing off as has been mentioned previously.
    Well fu.. them all. They r all jealous of our life style and resent what we have.
    We all worked- not sleep most of the day!
    My rat is soooooo tired after 8 hours work. Big shock.
     
  7. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Well here's wishing the bride and groom a lifetime of no money, no love, no happiness, no laughter, no loyalty.....and many shitty arsed, noisy, inbred kids running rings around them!!
    The scamming bastards deserve no more :love:
     
  8. Gorgeous

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    I agree entirely and I also realise (as you have written before) they Don't really know love. Go through the motions to b a good Muslim- but no depth.
    Thanks for the reality check. Be lost without all if you- and that's genuine.
     
  9. Gorgeous

    Gorgeous Well-Known Member

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    Of not if
     
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    Forgot to mention - when they are together here - it will be wonderful - so he announced.
    Bring it on! We'll see.
     
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    It’s a shame he lives so near to you. Is he trying to stay in contact?
     
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    Myriam Well-Known Member

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    Gorgeous, let the rat have his shitty life in his shitty world, you're a thousand times better of without him! Both him and his tunisian supposed virgin belong to another universum where greed and hypocrisie rule, where all is in appearances and nothing valuable to our standards... That's all they're worth!
     
  13. Gorgeous

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    He lives 10 mins away no contact I warned him never ever contact me again.
    I saw him recently and felt nothing - absolutely nothing. So glad about that.
    Today things got to me .
    Tomorrow back to normal. Thanks
     
  14. Gorgeous

    Gorgeous Well-Known Member

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    No regrets throwing out.
     
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    Not as grotesque as some that are in the gallery
     
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    Arkady Well-Known Member

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    I know it’s tempting. Cats like to play with their prey. But no answer will speak volumes to him.
     

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