let's spend a week together

naike

Well-Known Member
My friends,l would love to get your opinion on following situation. I got an "invitation" from Tunisian man,30 years old,that suggested me to spend a week together in Tunisia. He said it straight that he is not looking for a relationship and after September he is leaving Tunisia and go back to France,where he lived for 8 years. So far so good. BUT: he wants me to pay for the apartment costs,probably for rent a car and etc. Meanwhile he needed money for rent /80 eur and for fixing his phone/70 EUR. After my bad experience with Tunisian boyfriend(read thread Age is just a number),my ALARM has turned on,because l don't trust him. I am afraid to travel,because what if he doesn't even show up ? He wants me to send half of money for the apartment in advance. I must admit that he is nothing like other guys that write me on Instagram. He is polite and not annoying. But l saw his profile....he only has women following him. When we speak l have a good feeling,but just too many doubts. I told him about my bad experience and he said that he wish that would never happen to me. So is it common for a woman to pay for such a holidays ? l would cover my costs of course. By the way,he has a job in casino. Thank you for your opinions.
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
omg is really everyone fake down there
Yes if they are asking you for money - I can also guarantee he will have inflated the apartments rent.

Please please stop and think before plundering into an almighty catastrophe not only your mental wellbeing but your finances, friends and family will all be effected.

I really hope you listen to all the advice and also read further on bezness and even deeper into Tunisian culture.

MH x
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
Please do not mind him @naike
Who can tell you come but pay?!
Why he didn’t invited you to France?! If he can afford life in France he doesn’t need money from you to fix a phone. Even if he did!! He has family and friends why his date has to solve?!
Here we have had some “polite” at the beginning rats, big fat rats. Very articulated, that sound educated but are big fat rats ex: Kalhed Akrout and Ahmed Ben Selma. They start all cute and charming, eloquent, nice conversation and pum! Filthy mouth all over the place.
Please do not expose yourself, read arround , some cases that have even ended in rape!
Do not trust online strangers or someone that sets a sweet smile and few nice words those are wolves in sheep clothing.... xx read about Tunisian culture, this way this man is acting is a definite NO. Xx
 

naike

Well-Known Member
No, not everyone. Just a nice decent Tunisian-Muslim man wouldn’t contact you that way, asked you to stay in an apartment (payed by you and it is illegal if not married) this is not a man worth meeting nor making plans with.
 

Croydon girl

Well-Known Member
My friends,l would love to get your opinion on following situation. I got an "invitation" from Tunisian man,30 years old,that suggested me to spend a week together in Tunisia. He said it straight that he is not looking for a relationship and after September he is leaving Tunisia and go back to France,where he lived for 8 years. So far so good. BUT: he wants me to pay for the apartment costs,probably for rent a car and etc. Meanwhile he needed money for rent /80 eur and for fixing his phone/70 EUR. After my bad experience with Tunisian boyfriend(read thread Age is just a number),my ALARM has turned on,because l don't trust him. I am afraid to travel,because what if he doesn't even show up ? He wants me to send half of money for the apartment in advance. I must admit that he is nothing like other guys that write me on Instagram. He is polite and not annoying. But l saw his profile....he only has women following him. When we speak l have a good feeling,but just too many doubts. I told him about my bad experience and he said that he wish that would never happen to me. So is it common for a woman to pay for such a holidays ? l would cover my costs of course. By the way,he has a job in casino. Thank you for your opinions.
Why were even considering going to see some 30 year old bloke in another country that you don't know, never met and know nothing about? All he has done is talk about you giving him money! It says in your profile you are 51, I'm dumfounded! Jeez!!
 

magic

Junior Rat Expert
My friends,l would love to get your opinion on following situation. I got an "invitation" from Tunisian man,30 years old,that suggested me to spend a week together in Tunisia. He said it straight that he is not looking for a relationship and after September he is leaving Tunisia and go back to France,where he lived for 8 years. So far so good. BUT: he wants me to pay for the apartment costs,probably for rent a car and etc. Meanwhile he needed money for rent /80 eur and for fixing his phone/70 EUR. After my bad experience with Tunisian boyfriend(read thread Age is just a number),my ALARM has turned on,because l don't trust him. I am afraid to travel,because what if he doesn't even show up ? He wants me to send half of money for the apartment in advance. I must admit that he is nothing like other guys that write me on Instagram. He is polite and not annoying. But l saw his profile....he only has women following him. When we speak l have a good feeling,but just too many doubts. I told him about my bad experience and he said that he wish that would never happen to me. So is it common for a woman to pay for such a holidays ? l would cover my costs of course. By the way,he has a job in casino. Thank you for your opinions.
Are you serious? He’s asking you for money,money and more money! And virtually saying he wants sex ,not a relationship. What are you unsure about?? He isn’t even bothering with sweet talk because he thinks you’re so easy! He doesn’t want you to have another bad experience,he IS another bad experience. Run...and get this idiot out of your life
 

Croydon girl

Well-Known Member
Are you serious? He’s asking you for money,money and more money! And virtually saying he wants sex ,not a relationship. What are you unsure about?? He isn’t even bothering with sweet talk because he thinks you’re so easy! He doesn’t want you to have another bad experience,he IS another bad experience. Run...and get this idiot out of your life
Magic, i was waiting for you to post on this! Love your posts, i entirely agree with you!
 

simple

Ratslayer
Head for the hills,,Actually tell him youve decided to go on a shopping spree ,to Rome as youve decided you need new Prada sunglasses and Versace jeans and Armani belts and ,Gucci trainers and Dolche Gabanna hand bags ..as that would be cheaper than spending a week with him.
 
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Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
omg is really everyone fake down there
They are not all fake there. The real normal people do not flirt or make friends with foreigners on the internet. It only seems they are all scammers because that is the only side if their country they show us.
He sounds like a scammer. Don't go.

A good Muslim man would not expect or ask you to give him money. They also do not believe in sex before marriage so a week together sounds bad. It is against the law there to stay with a man if you are not married. You could be arrested if you are caught. Or he will get you to provide the cash for the bribe.
 

Tiger

Junior Rat Expert
@naike Tiger here. You have just make your best desisson ever by not go to Tunisia. This man treat you with no respect what so ever. Like all the women here say, no good man , not in Tunisia and other place in the world would dream about asking you for this.
I know tunisian culture very Well. I can tell you for sure this guy have never set foot outside Tunisia. It is plane simple Rat behavior he put up here. His phone, you pay for a room are just the start. Would you do this for a man in your country? I guess not. He is acting like a cheep prostitude. And i will give you one advise. Cut all comunication with this scamer. Coz that is the naked truth about him. Dont let a Rat destroy your life.
 

Croydon girl

Well-Known Member
@naike Tiger here. You have just make your best desisson ever by not go to Tunisia. This man treat you with no respect what so ever. Like all the women here say, no good man , not in Tunisia and other place in the world would dream about asking you for this.
I know tunisian culture very Well. I can tell you for sure this guy have never set foot outside Tunisia. It is plane simple Rat behavior he put up here. His phone, you pay for a room are just the start. Would you do this for a man in your country? I guess not. He is acting like a cheep prostitude. And i will give you one advise. Cut all comunication with this scamer. Coz that is the naked truth about him. Dont let a Rat destroy your life.
Well said Tiger!
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
@naike Tiger here. You have just make your best desisson ever by not go to Tunisia. This man treat you with no respect what so ever. Like all the women here say, no good man , not in Tunisia and other place in the world would dream about asking you for this.
I know tunisian culture very Well. I can tell you for sure this guy have never set foot outside Tunisia. It is plane simple Rat behavior he put up here. His phone, you pay for a room are just the start. Would you do this for a man in your country? I guess not. He is acting like a cheep prostitude. And i will give you one advise. Cut all comunication with this scamer. Coz that is the naked truth about him. Dont let a Rat destroy your life.
This is very true!
You will never read that a woman wanted to stay with her [rat] because he was so good at sex and is such a caring and giving person. I have not heard that anywhere. What I do hear is about his talk. He talks her into staying. He uses guilt and emotion to convince her of his love for her until he doesn’t need her anymore. There is nothing tangible from him. It is only words. She can’t see it at the time, but in the end it becomes clear. It is her that is giving to him. Phones, gifts, money transfers, and/or a visa to her country.
It is a scam. This scam is not unique to Tunisia, but the Tunisians have their own twist. They brainwash. It is the brainwashing that makes it so hard to leave them. But they can leave at any time. No feelings on their side what so ever. For them, the foreign woman is just a job.

The best thing to do is not to get involved! Save your feelings and your soul.
Don’t visit him! Block him, ghost him, get him out of your life before he gets under your skin.
 

naike

Well-Known Member
What is wrong with me,l wonder,that l always fall for someone like this....and they find me as a propriet target ....l mean,yes,l am 51 like Croydon girl says,never in my life l have behaved like this...l have a good job,l live a normal life,but yes,sometimes l miss the adventure and adrenaline,l guess that's why l ever considered to make this trip to Tunisia. And I would,if l didn't find this site and read about those guys . And the moment he started with money,my alarm went on. So thank you all. Some of you are on this site long time,l have joined recently....so please don't judge me. There are men and women all around the world meeting on social media,l don't have a problem with that. Just in Tunisia this is a little different l see now. There are good and bad people everywhere. But l really don't want to ruin my life for a rat. And I really don't need to pay for a man to be with me.
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
What is wrong with me,l wonder,that l always fall for someone like this....and they find me as a propriet target ....l mean,yes,l am 51 like Croydon girl says,never in my life l have behaved like this...l have a good job,l live a normal life,but yes,sometimes l miss the adventure and adrenaline,l guess that's why l ever considered to make this trip to Tunisia. And I would,if l didn't find this site and read about those guys . And the moment he started with money,my alarm went on. So thank you all. Some of you are on this site long time,l have joined recently....so please don't judge me. There are men and women all around the world meeting on social media,l don't have a problem with that. Just in Tunisia this is a little different l see now. There are good and bad people everywhere. But l really don't want to ruin my life for a rat. And I really don't need to pay for a man to be with me.
Nothing is wrong with you so try to stop that thought.

They are masters at the game and that's what it is to them.

You on the other hand trusted his sweet words - if like me you enjoyed the attention because they make you feel like a queen, that's natural to loving women that allow these men into our lives.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with Internet dating so please done be ashamed. Just do it with people nearer to home and safely in public places.

MH x
 

Amira

Rat Expert
My friends,l would love to get your opinion on following situation. I got an "invitation" from Tunisian man,30 years old,that suggested me to spend a week together in Tunisia. He said it straight that he is not looking for a relationship and after September he is leaving Tunisia and go back to France,where he lived for 8 years. So far so good. BUT: he wants me to pay for the apartment costs,probably for rent a car and etc. Meanwhile he needed money for rent /80 eur and for fixing his phone/70 EUR. After my bad experience with Tunisian boyfriend(read thread Age is just a number),my ALARM has turned on,because l don't trust him. I am afraid to travel,because what if he doesn't even show up ? He wants me to send half of money for the apartment in advance. I must admit that he is nothing like other guys that write me on Instagram. He is polite and not annoying. But l saw his profile....he only has women following him. When we speak l have a good feeling,but just too many doubts. I told him about my bad experience and he said that he wish that would never happen to me. So is it common for a woman to pay for such a holidays ? l would cover my costs of course. By the way,he has a job in casino. Thank you for your opinions.
Frankly you can't trust him and after what you write you have an ex who is tunisian so you know what you are going for. You also write that you do not trust him and that he asks for money (which is a bad sign) and that you are afraid to visit him. You seem insecure and then I recommend you not to meet him. The fact that he has women who follow him is also a bad sign. He wants you to send half the money to an apartment? He knows you can't live together without being married what do you do if the police come? Likes North Africa and Tunisia very well but not this kind of men. He's fooling you. Don't jump into the same trap again
 

Amira

Rat Expert
Nothing is wrong with you so try to stop that thought.

They are masters at the game and that's what it is to them.

You on the other hand trusted his sweet words - if like me you enjoyed the attention because they make you feel like a queen, that's natural to loving women that allow these men into our lives.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with Internet dating so please done be ashamed. Just do it with people nearer to home and safely in public places.

MH x
No, but renting an apartment with a stranger is putting yourself at risk. If he was a good man then he would not have mentioned the apartment. He plays with her. She's only a job for him.
 
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