Love rat or relationship ending naturally?

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Ladies let me tell you truth ...When they get to wherever it s you live THEN THE DREAM quickly turns into a nightmare..because NOW they dont have to be nice.......Trust me the transformation even begins on the plane to your home :Cry: it really is quite unbeliavable..

So for those of you that are still dreaming of how nice it was going to be..I am here to tell you that you have been spared the biggest nightmare of your life....
Aint that the truth !!!
 

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@CUDDLE @simple yeah I'm starting to appreciate what a lucky escape I had and thankful my rat showed his true colours before it got to far, I know how heartbroken I am about it all so I can't imagine what you ladies and others are going/went throughit must of been devastating finding out the truth:(xxx
 

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He lost his phone whilst jogging
Mine did this too, mine did this tooooo!! This is the only 'Jogging incident' I've seen, other than my rat :p My rat was messaging me all night (two days before I flew back to him in June), he just randomly said "I'll be back soon, I'm just going jogging with Leopard" (his brother). It was 1am!!!!! I laughed, thought he was joking...he reappeared hours later and messaged me on FB from his brothers tablet to let me know his phone was smashed to pieces, because it fell out of his pocket as he jogged and his sims were lost. Now don't be cynical, he promised it was an accident! It was just a COINCIDENCE that it happened two days before I flew out to him :D He even showed me a broken phone, but it was different to the phone I could see in the mirror in his gym selfie (in gallery). As soon as my return flight hit the tarmac at Heathrow in July.....his phone miraculously fixed itself and the sim cards reappeared, he contacted me with them! But better than that, I looked at Viber a few days after I returned....and discovered he'd used it June 26th..while I was with him. I did query how this was possible, but he had no idea :rolleyes: He did a lot of bread runs while I was there, frequently took the rubbish out, claimed he was popping to his parents to collect stuff we needed and came back sometimes hours later....but he swears, there were no other women, online or off!
 

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Mine did this too, mine did this tooooo!! This is the only 'Jogging incident' I've seen, other than my rat :p My rat was messaging me all night (two days before I flew back to him in June), he just randomly said "I'll be back soon, I'm just going jogging with Leopard" (his brother). It was 1am!!!!! I laughed, thought he was joking...he reappeared hours later and messaged me on FB from his brothers tablet to let me know his phone was smashed to pieces, because it fell out of his pocket as he jogged and his sims were lost. Now don't be cynical, he promised it was an accident! It was just a COINCIDENCE that it happened two days before I flew out to him :D He even showed me a broken phone, but it was different to the phone I could see in the mirror in his gym selfie (in gallery). As soon as my return flight hit the tarmac at Heathrow in July.....his phone miraculously fixed itself and the sim cards reappeared, he contacted me with them! But better than that, I looked at Viber a few days after I returned....and discovered he'd used it June 26th..while I was with him. I did query how this was possible, but he had no idea :rolleyes: He did a lot of bread runs while I was there, frequently took the rubbish out, claimed he was popping to his parents to collect stuff we needed and came back sometimes hours later....but he swears, there were no other women, online or off!
Oh, shopping for bread.... that one I know! They eat a lot if bread, they buy it fresh several times a day apparently!
 

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Oh, shopping for bread.... that one I know! They eat a lot if bread, they buy it fresh several times a day apparently!
Ha, they do indeed! Sometimes, he was gone for so long....I thought he was baking it himself, but fear not.....it was because the shops were either closed or they'd sold out of bread, poor toad had to walk miles in his flip flops :rolleyes: And there was me getting suspicious, hmmmmmmm......they really do think we're daft :D

*You know, between the jogging and the bread, I'm thinking we need to update the 'Common rat quotes' section....there's a few new lies sneaking through here and there.
 

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I was reading this thread earlier and saw a comment by Cuddle about her rat losing his phone whilst jogging, so I quoted her and added my own experience because it made me laugh, Cuddles comment was the first time I've seen another comment about the phone breaking or getting lost whilst jogging! And now we have Laura and the bread too....they all use the same, shit excuses! :D
 
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I was reading this thread earlier and saw a comment by Cuddle about her rat losing his phone whilst jogging, so I quoted her and added my own experience because or made me laugh, Cuddles comment was the first time I've seen another comment about the phone breaking it getting lost whilst jogging! And now we have Laura and the bread too....they all use the same, shit excuses! :D
Yes, I am not surprised about the same tricks. Just still can't understand why did they need to say story about losing or broken phones. My ex once said he could not read sms from one phone, and he gave me another number.
 

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Yes, I am not surprised about the same tricks. Just still can't understand why did they need to say story about losing or broken phones. My ex once said he could not read sms from one phone, and he gave me another number.
Ah, well on a previous three month stay, I found all the Russian girls on his phone. After this incident, I wouldn't let him have a screenlock, I didn't trust him. I'd suspected for a number of months that he'd found another online victim and believe she visited after I left in July. He obviously couldn't risk me seeing his phone, so he lied and said he'd broken it. I knew he was going to lie, because for a couple of weeks before my visit, he kept saying his phone kept going weird, kept switching off etc, I told him that said phone must be available for me to see, so he panicked....and 'accidentally' smashed it to pieces whilst jogging at 1am, but hey.....it was just a COINCIDENCE two days before my arrival!! ;)
 

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Ah, well on a precious three month stay, I found all the Russian girls on his phone. After this incident, I wouldn't let him have a screenlock, I didn't trust him. I'd suspected for a number of months that he'd found another online victim and believe she visited after I left in July. He obviously couldn't risk me seeing his phone, so he lied and said he'd broken it. I knew he was going to lie, because for a couple of weeks before my visit, he kept saying his phone kept going weird, kept switching off etc, I told him that said phone must be available for me to see, so he panicked....and 'accidentally' smashed it to pieces whilst jogging at 1am, but hey.....it was just a COINCIDENCE two days before my arrival!! ;)
Ahhh, I have got. Thank you very much for the explanation. These guys-cowards are so boring with all their stories really.:whistle:
 

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Oh, shopping for bread.... that one I know! They eat a lot if bread, they buy it fresh several times a day apparently!
yeah the good old bread one can eat three days in a row but they are eager to run for fresh bread rolls two times per day plus one time extra for chocolate...
 

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Most Rats are sociopaths - a person who in the long run will ruin you ( psychologically and economically ) - without mercy, awerness or concionsness.

He does not even think about it/ you.

First they are too good to be true ( mirroring your needs), then they cut your heart out. When they have recived what they want they will leave you -confused, paralyzed, bleeding - continuing their " walk" and not caring at all

- and do the same to another woman.

Destroyed humans! But we should NOT feel sorry for them!

....... as we were responsible for their cheating etc... !

good point ! heard it many times '' as we were responsible for their cheating etc... !''[/QUOTE]
 
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