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  1. Amira

    Amira Well-Known Member

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  2. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth - Staff Member

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    @Bebby, a picture of the rat Amir Benbli would be nice ;)
     
  3. Bebby

    Bebby Active Member

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    Here he is
     

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    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Oh my a big rat.
    :snore::snore::snore:
     
  5. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Moderator

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    Holy freakin buggery boo.....another fat bastard!!!! :eek:
    Look at the size of that! :eek:
    How the hell are these creatures affording so much food?
    Oh yeah...bezness :rolleyes:
    Ain't no way he can afford all that food alone.....definitely has another victim :thumbsup:
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth - Staff Member

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  7. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    I recognise him and i also seem to have a mutual friend with him.
    Hmmmm im gona do some digging and if its the person i am thinking of then he has a tunisian wife and child.
    Dont quote me on that just incase its not the same person.
     
  8. Bebby

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    Ooh yes pls do some digging. Would love to know!!!
     
  9. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Wish we had a puke button instead of a like..
     
  10. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth - Staff Member

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    Or he may be only able to afford cheap starchy food. Just saying.
     
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  12. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Moderator

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    They have a natural diet of fish, couscous and vegetables, the odd bit of meat....topped up with bread and harissa......only those with cash going spare can afford to eat as unhealthy as he must regularly do ;)
     
  13. Bebby

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    Mother Fu***r!!!!!
    So is Badoo a site that rats tend to use?!
     
  14. Mango Chutney

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    Yup....they use every dating site and social media you can imagine. They have multiple accounts, identities and victims on each :thumbsup:
     
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  15. Bebby

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    Amazing. And I don't know why but it has annoyed me seeing that!!! Makes me want to play some games!!!!
     
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  16. Bebby

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    I wonder if he has other FB accounts. I did try looking before, but like you say, he could have used a different name
     
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    100% he got to have spare..
     
  18. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Because you trusted him and you were honest to him, that’s why it’s annoying. He didn’t care if you have a kid or effort you had to make to take a second trip, you are one of his “endless” chances while you were giving him a real chance to become someone important in your life. :Evil:
     
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    Yes your right. But I am also annoyed with myself for being annoyed if that makes sense! Fml
     
  20. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I can relate, self blaming. How did I allow him to do this or that.. but that isn’t a shame nor a crime, having genuine intentions isn’t wrong. The only person to blame is the one who acted systematically to take advantage.
     
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    Yes we all get that feeling, you will get many more. You will cry get angry, sleep will be hard.
    Take baby steps as you find out more.
    Remember your not alone we all been there.
    Still going through it. It take time.
    You are among like minded people.
    We understand you. None of this is your fault.
    He is the Rat not you.
    I hope you can try and enjoy Christmas with your son and your mum
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I agree with Mystery, don’t allow him to steal a beautiful time with family, they love doing it. Perhaps his silent treatment was planned around this season. They love to steal happiness from special moments.
     
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    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    Guys its not who i thought.
    He looks so familiar though
     
  24. Bebby

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    Thanks guys. Your support is greatly appreciated. I don't want this to take over my life, but I just feel like I need to know more. I think it's kinda clousure I need
     
  25. Mystery

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    I wouldn't bother, he will be back. Saying you don't miss me blah blah
    The best thing is to sit tight and ignore him.
    They can't cope with it. He thinks he got you hook line and sinker. Bide your time it will be worth it honestly.
     

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