Discussion in 'Rat Behavior' started by Bebby, Dec 23, 2018.
@Bebby, a picture of the rat Amir Benbli would be nice
Here he is
Oh my a big rat.
Holy freakin buggery boo.....another fat bastard!!!!
Look at the size of that!
How the hell are these creatures affording so much food?
Ain't no way he can afford all that food alone.....definitely has another victim
Thanks, I thought so Amir Benbli
I recognise him and i also seem to have a mutual friend with him.
Hmmmm im gona do some digging and if its the person i am thinking of then he has a tunisian wife and child.
Dont quote me on that just incase its not the same person.
Ooh yes pls do some digging. Would love to know!!!
Wish we had a puke button instead of a like..
Or he may be only able to afford cheap starchy food. Just saying.
They have a natural diet of fish, couscous and vegetables, the odd bit of meat....topped up with bread and harissa......only those with cash going spare can afford to eat as unhealthy as he must regularly do
So is Badoo a site that rats tend to use?!
Yup....they use every dating site and social media you can imagine. They have multiple accounts, identities and victims on each
Amazing. And I don't know why but it has annoyed me seeing that!!! Makes me want to play some games!!!!
I wonder if he has other FB accounts. I did try looking before, but like you say, he could have used a different name
100% he got to have spare..
Because you trusted him and you were honest to him, that’s why it’s annoying. He didn’t care if you have a kid or effort you had to make to take a second trip, you are one of his “endless” chances while you were giving him a real chance to become someone important in your life.
Yes your right. But I am also annoyed with myself for being annoyed if that makes sense! Fml
I can relate, self blaming. How did I allow him to do this or that.. but that isn’t a shame nor a crime, having genuine intentions isn’t wrong. The only person to blame is the one who acted systematically to take advantage.
Yes we all get that feeling, you will get many more. You will cry get angry, sleep will be hard.
Take baby steps as you find out more.
Remember your not alone we all been there.
Still going through it. It take time.
You are among like minded people.
We understand you. None of this is your fault.
He is the Rat not you.
I hope you can try and enjoy Christmas with your son and your mum
I agree with Mystery, don’t allow him to steal a beautiful time with family, they love doing it. Perhaps his silent treatment was planned around this season. They love to steal happiness from special moments.
Guys its not who i thought.
He looks so familiar though
Thanks guys. Your support is greatly appreciated. I don't want this to take over my life, but I just feel like I need to know more. I think it's kinda clousure I need
I wouldn't bother, he will be back. Saying you don't miss me blah blah
The best thing is to sit tight and ignore him.
They can't cope with it. He thinks he got you hook line and sinker. Bide your time it will be worth it honestly.