Lucky escape thanks to this site

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  1. Mystery

    Mystery Well-Known Member

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    Oh and another thing I said towards the end.. to test him was to ask him to put it on facebook that we were in a relationship as I was apparently his "woman"
    He said Facebook isn't my life...hahahaha really? He was online all day. Well, when he wasn't sleeping
     
  3. Mystery

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    He was hiding you. He is a big fat male prostitute.
     
  4. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Mine had me all over two of his FB accounts....he moved his other victims to different FB accounts, after telling them I was his jealous ex, I'd hacked his accounts and was using old photos.....I was freakin living with him :rolleyes:

    Before putting my pic all over his accounts, he had one of his other big fishes on the same two accounts as me, plus multiple smaller fish......his posts were all customised....I discovered this on his phone....none of us could see songs and stuff that he posted for each of us :thumbsup:

    There is no comfort to be had from seeing yourself on his profile and his declaring the relationship....he will do exactly what mine did.
     
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    Hey let’s start a betting pool. When will he call, how much will he ask for, and what excuse will he give. You’re right it’s like they have the same playbook.
     
  6. Bebby

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    Wow. They clearly know what theyre doing. Mango, how long ago did you first meet your rat?
     
  7. Bebby

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    I don't think he will ever call. I have been winding him up for a while now. I know I shouldn't but I just can't help myself
     
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    Badoo it is a page for bad guys sure about that :rolleyes:
     
  9. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    A while back now. I have been rat free for almost two and a half years, was with him for almost two years....four and a half wasted years of my life, with him and recovering :thumbsup:
     
  10. Bebby

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    Well at least your doing something positive with your experience. If it wasn't for this site and members like yourself telling their stories, I would have been on a flight in two days time to Tunisia. Thank heavens I found this site.
     
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    The best thing you can do is block block block...they hate that. Sure he will keep trying but nothing drives them nuts more than the blocking...trust me
     
  12. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    It's people like you that make it all worthwhile.
    I got an education the hard way.....so this site is a way of turning my negative experience into a positive.....by helping to educate others, and in a kinder manner than the way I learned :)
     
  13. Amira

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    On these dating sites, there are many bad men but some of them are good at hiding it but you should be aware that these men often help each other. Often both brother and cousin are on these pages because they want to help their own out of poverty even though these boys have relatives who live in Europe so they are looking for a naive lady who can feed one of their own so that they don't have to spend money on visa or other documents. Because if one of their relatives helps their cousin out of ex-Tunisia then the person taking this person to Europe must also stand as financially responsible therefore they look for a naive lady. They are sneaky so it stays
     
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    He will just give him time
     
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    Well watch this space! I will indeed keep you all updated
     
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    Just wish there was a way of letting more people know about this site, and bezness etc. Honestly wish I had seen this site before I went
     
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    Is this not also a bit weird? Amir's brothers Facebook. Pictures of bin laden etc??!!
     

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    Is this not also a bit weird? Amir's brothers Facebook. Pictures of bin laden etc??!!
     

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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    . Very welcome Bebby. We can bet there will be a lot more to know about him wich indeed will make easier for you to detach. You’ll start to
    oh mine said no cause of evil eye lol but he is still trying to find a sponsor..
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Many rats are radical sympathizers
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Not only weird but people to be aware of. Better away from you and your family.
     
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    Jeepers, sorry Bebby but he fell out of the ugly tree! :D
     
  23. Bebby

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    And hit every branch on the way down. What was I thinking
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    He will call... maybe not today or tomorrow but as long as he is able to contact you he will.
     
  25. Mango Chutney

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    Blimey....there's one I haven't heard before!
    Hahaha....he dug deep into the excuses bucket for that one :D
     

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