we met in , married later and he joined me after another year we have now been living together for over three years like all there have been ups and downs, but now I am starting to ask myself if its just a scam. He says our lives have many differences and maybe he should have a separate flat we work totally different hours and dont have much time together, he practises his religion, pays half the basic outgoings. We lead almost separate lives. He spend his main holiday in Tunisia for ramadan. We had 1 weeks holiday this year. Now he is talking about living separately so that for example he can get up early to pray as I then will not be there to copmlain (note I get up at 6 am in anycase 5days a week). I am wondering whats really going on any ideas?