Mohamed Amine Chebel - Mahdia

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  1. FoolInLove

    FoolInLove Well-Known Member

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    Magic you need sleep :D
    You got help from MH to post him here, and help to put him in the gallery.
    No other victims in this thread but you as i see it.
    Don´t let him minipulate you. Block and delete and GET SOME SLEEP :love:
     
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  2. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    Im at the point of hate now.wat do udo with that.im drinking again cos of him.why hasnt anyone cm forward ???? Hes clearly a rat shit
     
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  3. rose711

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    What do you need? How can we help you?
     
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  4. Big Bang Theory

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    It can take a long time for someone else to come forward:
    Sometimes they don't realise it was Bezness, they just think it was a bad relationship.
    Sometimes they just never find this site.
    Maybe other victims don't speak English so they might have written about him on another language site.
    Many are to embarrassed/confused etc. to write but they are reading here (many many members join and regularly log on but never write anything)
    Many many many feel 'guilt' and this is why they don't come forward.
    Many continue to be manipulated by the rat.
    The list goes on........

    But be assured that your posts are helping/will help other victims even if they never let you know :(

    And please stop drinking, don't let him harm you any more, he's not worth it, your life is too precious.

    Big hugs xx
     
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  5. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Dear Magic, please don´t start drinking, You yourself are responsible for your health and wellbeing. Don´t blame someone else. Get help and don´t fall of the wagon :)

    You remind me a little bit of a little child, who says

    "Serves my parents right, that I have a belly ache, why did they let me eat so much ice cream"
     
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  6. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    Im not blaming anyone for my behaviour but simply that there is a trigger for my drinking...him
     
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  7. MH007

    MH007 Moderator Staff Member

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    @magic

    I understand you drinking and will not judge you for it - to do that would only make you drink more.

    Think about your children - I too drank a lot, too much! But when I realised my son noticed it horrified me....it isn't easy I know that but it isn't the answer. I know you cannot sleep at night, at least you can't unless you have consumed a bottle or two of wine. It will take some time but each day you wake you will feel more alive, more you and more importantly less him!

    We are here - you can have drunken rambles we understand but ultimitely you will get over this and move on, drink is numbing things and allowing you to sleep but its eventually going to lead to worse things.

    Keep coming on here, we accept drunken ramblings lol been guilty of them myself but eventually perhaps get councilling?

    My heart goes out to you and we are here.

    xxxxxxxxxx
     
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  8. rose711

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    @magic. I am very concerned for your welfare.
    What sort of support system do you have?
    You are talking about drinking and overdosing. You can cope with this without being self destructive.

    I don't understand what is happening with you right now.

    Did he leave you or you broke up with him?
     
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  9. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    Alcohol: the woman takes a drink, the drink takes a drink, the drink takes the woman. So so easy to try and find solace in alcohol but it's so destructive. When you need to have your wits about you and be alert and in control then alcohol is not a friend. All it does is aid irrational and impulsive thinking, causes depression and self loathing. People are more likely to make bad decisions when they are drinking. Taking pills with alcohol is an absolute No, it's very dangerous. Alcohol increases the effects of medication, so even a few seemingly innocuous tablets can be very dangerous.
     
  10. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    I am ok thank you everyone x i am a binge drinker but i am getting better everyday.i had lots of issues before ! So this has added to them ! He has hurt me..but i wont let him win
     
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  11. cloud

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    Head up high.....you are magic:love:
     
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  12. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    Thanks cloud but why hasnt anyone come forward !!!!!
     
  13. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth

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    You have to be patient. Some users only come here from time to time.
    I guess a lot of women are not interested in looking back and that´s the right track. They have fought their battle and move on.
    The ones who are still in the scam, might still believe him or are afraid to name him.
    Btw, it does not help when you write in the gallery
    " Come forward u idiots " 24.gif
     
  14. FoolInLove

    FoolInLove Well-Known Member

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    Maybe no one will ever come forward, but that does not mean he is not a rat..
    Stay calm, and try to focus on some good things in your life.
    xx
     
  15. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    Can someone please put his other names on the thread as they may not recognise this name.mido engel.hamma chbilo.momo chbilo.amino chbilo.mido chbilo etc.thanks xxx
     
  16. MH007

    MH007 Moderator Staff Member

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    They are already on here @magic x
     
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  17. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    I just thought on the page it says his proper name and people might not recognise this and not look any further xxx
     
  18. Amina

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    Hi magic can i see a picture of him
     
  19. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    Yes he is in gallery xx
     
  20. WitchHazel

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    So ridiculous that these mother-fu_____ have so many names/alias. They really underestimate Western women......douchebags
     
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  21. MH007

    MH007 Moderator Staff Member

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    Unfortunately it's more like Westerners underestimate the rats :(
     
  22. crystal

    crystal The Punchy Scot

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    certainly we do not estimate correctly their deviousness, lies scams and cold arted actions... our brains do not think like that:sneaky:
     
  23. keepsmiling

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    lots of rats in Mahdia be very careful some of them work in family groups hope you find yours and expose him 4 what he is
     
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  24. magic

    magic Well-Known Member

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    Oh im trying to be patient but if i do find out smthing i will only want to go over and wring his ratty neck.how can being engaged..married..mean jack shit to them
     
  25. Big Bang Theory

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    It doesn't mean 'jack shit' to them, it means everything to them because it means they can get a visa :thumbsup:
     
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