I debated on if I should make this thread or not. I have been allowing this man to still have power over me, even with me being in a new relationship. One of the reasons I did not write a thread on him was because I felt sorry for him, I felt I would do him wrong and I also felt as if he would feel I was doing this because I still had feelings for him. Well ENOUGH!! I don’t have feelings for him, I’m in a new relationship and I am grateful to NOT be married to a Tunisian man. Best decision of my life was giving my new man a chance. But if I can help 1 foreign woman out and save her the heartache, then I have done the world a good deed. I digress. I came here like many of you did, a Tunisian man had found me and I wanted to know about who this man really was. This forum came up. I read here for 3 months while doing all the research on Tunisian culture and their men. I saw Mohamed was helping the ladies here, so I decided to message him. After all, he was a Tunisian male himself, helping women here translate. He had been apart of this site for 3 years at that point, so I thought he was genuine. Fast forward, we message one another, he sent me the link to his Facebook and WhatsApp. On august 4, my life changed forever. We started messaging one another. He told me he had never applied for a visa, he told me that the women him knew him as a honest man. He told me he loved me on august 11. At the time he was trying to get into a school in Austria. He was using an address of another Tunisian living in Austria to accomplish this. He told me the man offered him a wife there and he declined. He explained to me that he wanted to wait to apply for a visa because if they deny him the first time, it would look bad. Well, later in our relationship, I found more than 1 visa attempt (3 to be exact, and was on his 4th). I then discovered that he was helping another victim here on the forum. He told me he only spoke with her about a few times. He sent me 4 screenshot of their conversation, she sent me over 30 screenshots. He was angry that I had spied on him at this point. But I didn’t spy on him. His answers to my questions were not making sense. So I asked someone about a post he made and found out the real truth. I was never spying. So he lied about that. I was actually defending him. He also wrote a post here called, I AM A TUNISIAN MAN HERE TO WARN YOU. I questioned that post because everything he wrote on that post, 5 of those things applied to our relationship. He told me they Heidi, and Laura forced him to write that. It was Heidis and Laura who duped him into writing such a post and he shouldn’t have done that. He said, he followed his heart with me. He fished me from TLR. And the first guy that I came here about, turned out to not be a rat, just a dummy. He has an amazing Tunisian fiancé now and actually apologized to me for even attempting to try and talk to me. Mohamed was the rat all along. Not the first guy. Well the first guy was probably a rat, but didn’t want to shame the family name, so he got his crap together and is with a cute Tunisian woman. They seem happy. Below are the screenshots of how it started and I will write more as people ask question. Ladies beware, he is a Visa Hunter. He is an engineer and doesn’t really need the money. So you will be fooled because of that. But he wants a visa. His goal is to leave Tunisia by any mean necessary. This is a dangerous kind of rat because they can fool you because they have employment. So they will never ask for money. So it can appear that he isn’t a rat. But don’t be like me and look over those little details. I actually fell for this....and I am ashamed to be honest. That I even allowed such a person in my life.