NO, that is not at all what i am saying. Sometimes emotional issues can be from many events happening in our lives, or much more deep seeded. They are not always just so black and white. I wish her all the best, i hope she finds the happiness in life she is looking for.
and now for the other thing, i am not deflecting from the fact that he moved to the city, He needed to work. When her contract ended Heidi herself could not find a job in that small town, so how was he suppose to? Had he not been working he could have not helped her financially at all, this is better you think?
Now, you ladies can take what i have said and twist anyway you want.
have a good day