Hello everybody! I want to apologize for my very poor and bad english in advance ( i am from russia) and for lots of unnesessary information. I wanna tell my stupid story and ask about advice. In 2017 me and my friend were in Tunusia and i met guy from hotel stuff. He was waiter. After my trip we were in touch about 8 months. He sended me messages and called everyday. Always said how much he loves me and wants to be with me ( familiar words for everybody here). After couple of months i found this forum. I read a lot of threads here and I was terrified because so many stories began exactly like mine, but at the same time there were many things in which my boyfriend did not look like a Tunisian rat. I was very confused. - He never asked me for money. Maybe because I said him I have no money?. I had no money even to come to Tunisia one more time, earlier than in a year; - I am two years younger than him( he is 26) - He had many our photos on facebook ( it was his old and main account with his real name, with all reltives and friends and with many friends from other countries) There was another side: -After his "good night" he was online until the morning; -He didnt work in winter and spring, but bought new clothes, drank coffee every day and so on; -He closed his instagram from me; -He said his mother loves me and i will meet her if i come; -Sometimes he asked me to make him an invitation (but I didnt have an opportunity, because I live with my parents ... He didnt want to live in a hotel); -He complained life in Tunisia is bad, women in Tunisia are bad . A lot of things showed me he is a rat. But i didnt want to believe that it can be true. I am not big victim, but all months have been very difficult psychologically. I felt he didnt care about me, but his words were about love. He behaved indifferently, I felt a lie in everything, all the facts that he told me were very different from the facts that he told a few days ago.I was constantly under stress, because it seemed to me that I was the reason why we could not be together (and he even said that). I lost a lotof hair because of stress! Really a lot of hair (this is the biggest loss) and I still cant stop it.... but I so wanted to believe that I could be happy with this person. I wanted to believe till may. He told me he was going to go to work for 1 week to place where will not be internet . I was very surprised, at the first day of his "work" he blocked me everywhere! And also deleted our photos from facebook. I was broken... He returned more than a week later, unblocked me everywhere and started calling and writing messages about he missed me. I said I knew he was not at work, i know he blocked me but he said it all was only for me and I must believe him and i will understand everything in future.Then he sent me a photo of the invitation! Wow???? He asked for forgiveness for several days, then he told me stupid story how he bought the invitation ( in the beginning he said his friend made this invitation) I said i cant trust him anymore and we cant have a relationship. After he wrote me messages as a friend for about two weeks and then disappeared. Ithink he changed the phone number ...... But a few days ago, I accidentally(!) found instagram of one woman...I saw her year ago in the same hotel where I was staying.I remember seeing my “boyfriend” taking a phone number from her and they even took a photo together. But when I asked him who was this woman , he said that I had nothing to worry about because she is older than him and she has child. So, I found this woman's instagram and found out that all this time while me and my boyfriend were "together", she was his second girlfriend. She visited him in Tunisia several times and I suppose she is the one who made and brought him the invitation, because she was in Tunisia at the same time when my rat blocked me. It seems that a few days ago, my rat moved to live in Russia( this woman is from Russia) She 14 years older than him ... I am so angry! I am angry because i found it too late! I wanted to tell everything to this woman, but my friends ask me to leave them alone because this rat is not my problem anymore. They say I can not change anything and probably this woman will not believe me, because now she is happy.Maybe my friends are right and I should not tell anything, but ..... what should i do?