New here, been reading posts and getting some info from here for awhile. And we all know why I’m here. I’m 39 year old living in U.S and engaged currently to a 35 year old man from Tunisia. I had jump come out of a 10 year abusive relationship and had been single mom for 5 years after. When a friend introduced me to a Muslim dating site where she met her husband. And well after weeks of literally thousands of responses . I met a man that swept me off my feet. We talked and Skyped from the first day we met. He speaks perfectly good English so communicating wasn’t a problem. After about 6 months I decided to go visit and finally meet. And it was nervous and exciting meet I only stayed a week. We now have been together little over 2 years and a month ago I visited for the second time . And again I was convinced he was my soulmate. But some things still don’t add up. At the time we met he said he was living with. A Russian man “I never met” who is his roommate. He would go talk to me in the bathroom “ for privacy”? Since it was a 1 bedroom apartment and he said he slept on th couch. One day “ he was talking to me by audio of Skype and I here a woman voice say “ who are you talking too?. And he replied to her, “ my brother “and disconnected the call. He called me back about 5 min later and I asked him who she was and he said “ my roommates girlfriend. And I asked why did you tell her you were talking to your brother he said” because it’s no one business who I’m talking too” Another time again in th bathroom while we were talking I heard a women voice she first knocked on the door then said “ is everything ok?” Again he said the roommate girlfriend. After more into the relationship we shared each other Facebook and me curious I saw older women and question him and he said “ they are from a company I was trying to apply at” they are in mangagement . Well days later he hid his “ friends in fcb” . And so not to start trouble or arguments I didn’t question him. Again he’s a charmer and says he has a sweet tongue. I’m currently a single mom of 2 girls. And he welcomed them and always asks about them and there well being. I met his mother through Skype and his brother twice in person . Recently after stalking and reading stories in here. I question him about the fcb and why he hid the friends . He said that he knew I would message them and he was afraid that they would make fun of him for having a jealous girlfriend. I told him why would I message them? Unless I saw something not right then I would have cause. He said he didn’t want trouble . I know red flags everywhere. I did the research on fcb and on google and nothing comes up. Am I just being paranoid? Overthinking? He said he gave me all the answers to my questions. Btw he doesn’t live with the Roommate anymore and now living with 5 other rommamtes at a different location. Anything I’m missing? Sorry if I jumped right to the story and my story tends to jump from time to time.