- Feb 28, 2018
Sometimes I had to think about what the rat was saying to me and I would see holes in the story. He sould imply without asking or lying. If he would word it right, it’s not a lie, just a collection of true facts presented to give an alternate picture of the situation. It’s very crafty.If you decide that the angel is winning, just remember that money is only a temporary help. If his family has disowned him he needs to figure it out on his own. It’s part of being a man.
Funding his inability to care for himself is not helping him! It’s enabling him!
Best to stay clear of his problems and not send him anything. If he’s honest or not, it’s not good to offer money.
He has to make peace with his family. If there is an ounce of truth to what he tells you.
I help people a lot in my church and we try not to just push money at problems, rather to help and advise people on how to get through their problems.
So I tend to come up with an ‘angel’ way around the rat problems by default.
I never offered to send money.