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Mango Chutney

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This man was my fiancé for almost 2 years. He’s a 30 year old member of the BAT Police. I overlooked many things that I shouldn’t have. I noticed that he had several posts about Canada. I asked him about it and he said that he loved my country.

I truly loved this man. But I couldn’t deal with him adding his random women especially teenaged girls. We actually had this discussion previously. That’s what ended our relationship. He added a teenaged girl from my city. He had plans to come here to Canada. I assumed that he wasn’t coming to see me. He also would get mad if I questioned him about adding his randoms. He called me insane and crazy and told me to go see a doctor. I think that he should see one. He has a Jekyll and Hyde personality. He’s a different person when he’s angry. My biggest concern was that I had teenaged daughters of my own. He claimed that he loved them like a father. I just didn’t feel comfortable having him around my daughters after that.

I struggled with him telling me about how he hated his job. He said that he wanted to die. I couldn’t deal with all of that. I couldn’t handle his threats. He told me that no one would believe me if I told anyone. He told me that we will see who will lose and that no one can stand against him. He said that he knew all of my secrets. He never felt that he did anything wrong. He always blamed me for everything. It’s my fault that he used bad words. It’s my fault that our relationship didn’t work. I’m just glad everything happened now. I was supposed to marry him this year. Thank God for opening my eyes.
Hello, Canadian N8tive....welcome to the forum :)
What is BAT police please?
How old is this rat? He looks ancient! We seem to be getting a few older rats now.
What part of Tunisia is he from?

They all add young girls, often indulge in webcam activities with them. My rat had underage kids on his :Evil:

With regards to it all being your fault, you are crazy in the head, getting angry when you ask questions, blah blah....these are typical rat words and behaviours :rolleyes:

How many times did you meet him? I'm so happy you didn't marry him :)
Did you meet online or on holiday?

Who is the girl in the photo? If she is not part of his scam, it's worth removing the pic of her :)
 

Going for the limit

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Hi and welcome :) I am sure some one will correct me if I am wrong but I am 90% sure police cannot marry a non Tunisian without special permission from the government .
Did he get this permission which would seem very unlikely as you both havnt met?
Not only is it concerning that he seems to be adding young girls to his accounts but the fact he is doing it whilst he is a police man is astonishing.
I think I would be reporting him for that alone to be honest.
 

Snuggle

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Dear Canadian n8tive, I am happy that you got out this toxic relationship in time.
He sounds like my rat adding young girls and saying he is doing nothing wrong.
Did he tell you how he was coming in May ? I presume they need a visa for Canada.
Take care xxx
 

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Welcome @Canadian_N8tive

Well apparently you are in company; we are all supposed to be crazy, insane paranoid women here! It’s the default line when they are rumbled! Thankfully you didn’t make a huge mistake by marrying him. You followed your gut instinct and he showed that he’s just the same. They love the idea of Canada. They often need someone who is older, more financially settled to provide the exit route for them and then hey presto either look for a younger woman or bring a patiently waiting fiancé to join them.

It’s very concerning that someone in his position is behaving this way, but not a surprise. They have an ego way beyond their intelligence or ability. Before you delete him completely take some screen shots of his Facebook friends. You may be able to warn others.

Expect him to return though, either with insincere apologies, due to his “stress” and unhappiness, which only you (as his true habibi) can apparently save him from. After investing two years in his plan he won’t let you go lightly. Well done for following your instinct and finding us.
 

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This man was my fiancé for almost 2 years. He’s a 30 year old member of the BAT Police. I overlooked many things that I shouldn’t have. I noticed that he had several posts about Canada. I asked him about it and he said that he loved my country.

I truly loved this man. But I couldn’t deal with him adding his random women especially teenaged girls. We actually had this discussion previously. That’s what ended our relationship. He added a teenaged girl from my city. He had plans to come here to Canada. I assumed that he wasn’t coming to see me. He also would get mad if I questioned him about adding his randoms. He called me insane and crazy and told me to go see a doctor. I think that he should see one. He has a Jekyll and Hyde personality. He’s a different person when he’s angry. My biggest concern was that I had teenaged daughters of my own. He claimed that he loved them like a father. I just didn’t feel comfortable having him around my daughters after that.

I struggled with him telling me about how he hated his job. He said that he wanted to die. I couldn’t deal with all of that. I couldn’t handle his threats. He told me that no one would believe me if I told anyone. He told me that we will see who will lose and that no one can stand against him. He said that he knew all of my secrets. He never felt that he did anything wrong. He always blamed me for everything. It’s my fault that he used bad words. It’s my fault that our relationship didn’t work. I’m just glad everything happened now. I was supposed to marry him this year. Thank God for opening my eyes.
It’s the curse of the tongue again... and what is wrong with his eyebrow!
 

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Heidi

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He’s a 30 year old member of the Police.
Ministry of the Interior (Tunisia)

BAT

The Anti-terrorist Brigade (فرقة مجابهة الارهاب) or BAT, whose members are referred to as « black tigers », is the unit of the Tunisian national police specialized in paramilitary operations during particularly serious events. According to OTAN's definition, the BAT is a special force. Its role notably includes taking action during crisis situations, such as hostage-taking on boats, aircraft, in cities etc, arresting high-risk criminals, and contributing to the fight against terrorism. The BAT is based in Tunis, at the headquarters of the intervention units at the Bouchoucha barracks, with the training and education centre located in Béjal. Joining the unit comes along with highly strict requirements, especially in terms of physical, medical, mental and psychotechnical fitness; it recruits the best people of the national police. Its motto is "Speed. Force. Effectivity".

The unit comprises 50 men divided into three sections (two operational, one headquarters). The USGN is reinforced by the National Guard Commando Company (GCGN) (French: Groupment de Commando de la Garde Nationale).[2]
 
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Canadian N8tive, please forget about this man and never turn back!!!
He's a typical rat, a narcissist of the worst kind. For a BAT member it is very very difficult (not to say impossible) to get permission to marry a foreign woman. I personally know of one case where the BAT rat just fled the country during a work mission abroad and never returned to Tunisia. Maybe that's what he is planning as well I guess.
 

Going for the limit

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Thank you everyone. I was scared to make this post. To answer your questions. Yes he told me that he needed permission from the government to marry me. He was going to ask a few months before we set the date. Yes he would also require a visa which I believe he may have already applied for. He is blocked on everything so he cannot get a hold of me. I blocked every number that he called or texted me from. I took screenshots of everything. He will be livid if he discovered that I made a post about him.
Well he shouldn't of decided to play then should he.
Sounds to me all he wanted to do was mess with your head and play.
He is a controlling and manipulative person who you are well rid of and lucky for you he showed himself for the person that he is before you married him.
 

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He will be livid if he discovered that I made a post about him.
I struggled with him telling me about how he hated his job. He said that he wanted to die. I couldn’t deal with all of that. I couldn’t handle his threats. He told me that no one would believe me if I told anyone. He told me that we will see who will lose and that no one can stand against him. He said that he knew all of my secrets. He never felt that he did anything wrong. He always blamed me for everything. It’s my fault that he used bad words. It’s my fault that our relationship didn’t work. I’m just glad everything happened now. I was supposed to marry him this year. Thank God for opening my eyes.
Threats? :Evil: Screenshot everything and report him to the Canadian authorities. He'll get no visa
 

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He is not part of BAT ( it's a counter terrorism unit, not a classic special one).
If he was from BAT and had a linkedin profile = he would have been fired instantly.
Plus this behaviour of talking to teenagers is sick, i do believe know what he is :
He do work for minister for interior, but as any rat he is looking to impress people by saying he is part of special force.

Seems that he dosent even have the physical condition of a special force (be aware, training with special forces for some time dosent make you one), look at the biceps / forearms / shoulders : too soft for a BAT member (or maybe this unit is crap).

the thing with police members in Tunisia, is most of them are rats and stupid people, those who dosent succed in school become mainly police, custom borders and that's why behave like shit.

I think you dodget a bullet, never date a man who target teenagers, EVER.

PROOF he is not a bat and is a RAT : https://fr.viadeo.com/fr/groups/detaildiscussion/?containerId=002o5o77v289lmv&forumId=0022ecvtb9yotgfj&action=messageDetail&messageId=0024pfz6gw0mxca

original message: "je suis un garde du corps au sein de la ministere de l,interieure tunisienne je cherche un travavail comme apr en europe"

Translation :
"Iam a bodyguard within the Ministry of Tunisian interior I am looking for a work like apr in Europe"
 
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Welcome Canadian N8tive,
Sorry this happened to you but you did the right thing getting away from this man, you dodged a HUGE bullet. You have taken the right steps with blocking him everywhere.
Know that he will not give up easily, they do have the tendency to try to contact you through different accounts or different numbers etc. So keep blocking for as long as you have to. He should be reported to the Canadian authorities for sure to stop him in his tracks.
 

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This man was my fiancé for almost 2 years. He’s a 30 year old member of the BAT Police. I overlooked many things that I shouldn’t have. I noticed that he had several posts about Canada. I asked him about it and he said that he loved my country.

I truly loved this man. But I couldn’t deal with him adding his random women especially teenaged girls. We actually had this discussion previously. That’s what ended our relationship. He added a teenaged girl from my city. He had plans to come here to Canada. I assumed that he wasn’t coming to see me. He also would get mad if I questioned him about adding his randoms. He called me insane and crazy and told me to go see a doctor. I think that he should see one. He has a Jekyll and Hyde personality. He’s a different person when he’s angry. My biggest concern was that I had teenaged daughters of my own. He claimed that he loved them like a father. I just didn’t feel comfortable having him around my daughters after that.

I struggled with him telling me about how he hated his job. He said that he wanted to die. I couldn’t deal with all of that. I couldn’t handle his threats. He told me that no one would believe me if I told anyone. He told me that we will see who will lose and that no one can stand against him. He said that he knew all of my secrets. He never felt that he did anything wrong. He always blamed me for everything. It’s my fault that he used bad words. It’s my fault that our relationship didn’t work. I’m just glad everything happened now. I was supposed to marry him this year. Thank God for opening my eyes.
Welcome and well done for dumping him! "I know all your secrets" " let's see who will lose" " No one will believe you" that is B L A C K M A I L and clearly he thought he had control over you. So happy you put yourself and your daughters' safety first. We do believe you and he has more to lose. Xx
 

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Ministry of the Interior (Tunisia)

BAT
The Anti-terrorist Brigade (فرقة مجابهة الارهاب) or BAT, whose members are referred to as « black tigers », is the unit of the Tunisian national police specialized in paramilitary operations during particularly serious events. According to OTAN's definition, the BAT is a special force. Its role notably includes taking action during crisis situations, such as hostage-taking on boats, aircraft, in cities etc, arresting high-risk criminals, and contributing to the fight against terrorism. The BAT is based in Tunis, at the headquarters of the intervention units at the Bouchoucha barracks, with the training and education centre located in Béjal. Joining the unit comes along with highly strict requirements, especially in terms of physical, medical, mental and psychotechnical fitness; it recruits the best people of the national police. Its motto is "Speed. Force. Effectivity".

The unit comprises 50 men divided into three sections (two operational, one headquarters). The USGN is reinforced by the National Guard Commando Company (GCGN) (French: Groupment de Commando de la Garde Nationale).[2]
Def not a safe person to have arround teens. He could abuse them and perfectly know how to scare them to keep them quiet. Must be reported to your Embassy so they do not allow him into the Country.
 

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He is not part of BAT ( it's a counter terrorism unit, not a classic special one).
If he was from BAT and had a linkedin profile = he would have been fired instantly.
Plus this behaviour of talking to teenagers is sick, i do believe know what he is :
He do work for minister for interior, but as any rat he is looking to impress people by saying he is part of special force.

Seems that he dosent even have the physical condition of a special force (be aware, training with special forces for some time dosent make you one), look at the biceps / forearms / shoulders : too soft for a BAT member (or maybe this unit is crap).

the thing with police members in Tunisia, is most of them are rats and stupid people, those who dosent succed in school become mainly police, custom borders and that's why behave like shit.

I think you dodget a bullet, never date a man who target teenagers, EVER.

PROOF he is not a bat and is a RAT : https://fr.viadeo.com/fr/groups/detaildiscussion/?containerId=002o5o77v289lmv&forumId=0022ecvtb9yotgfj&action=messageDetail&messageId=0024pfz6gw0mxca

original message: "je suis un garde du corps au sein de la ministere de l,interieure tunisienne je cherche un travavail comme apr en europe"

Translation :
"Iam a bodyguard within the Ministry of Tunisian interior I am looking for a work like apr in Europe"
Glad you pointed this out. I was looking at that like :eek:. Same for our special forces or any team similar to the BAT team. If they post that they are special forces on their LinkedIn, or anywhere, that’s a security breach (OPSEC) and they would fire you before you can even delete the information.

99% of our country people don’t even know who our special forces guys are or even who are our navy seals. Very elite group of people and follow strict rules about posting who they are.

Glad you got away @Canadian_N8tive. Sorry to hear about your dad. Virtual hugs to you.
 

akhenaten

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99% of our country people don’t even know who our special forces guys are or even who are our navy seals. Very elite group of people and follow strict rules about posting who they are.

Glad you got away @Canadian_N8tive. Sorry to hear about your dad. Virtual hugs to you.
See RatSnatcher, i never understood people who are fantasizing about being special force / Secret services :D:D but i met a lot of them in Tunisia.
Seems like Tunisians have a real problem with reality and day dream all the day long till the point they believed their lies..

I once met a girl who told me her husband works for Interpol, i ended up discovering the husband is policeman in Qatar :rolleyes: now i do respect any honest job but lying..
 
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