Nudity for men not acceptable during sex????

chauncine1

Rat Expert
There are very promiscuous tunisian women but the men use them and would never respect them enough to marry them. In fact it is very common for women to have their hymens repaired medically so she fools them into thinking she is a virgin.

There is also a lot of men on men action going on.

Trust us when we say you will never be accepted and he has zero respect for you.

Read about the culture and the following sites explain the culture:

Www.tunisian-love.com

Www.bezness.net

MH x

Yes I agree and I have heard a lot of about those clinics and those types of girls. I wonder why they always think that they are better than the rest of the free world when they are doing the exact some things, if not worse. They seem to have this "holier than thou" attitude towards western culture and women.

Thank for the two links you just sent me, I will check them out and learn something new. I appreciate your time, concern and consideration. xoxo
 

Bubbly

Major Ratslayer
My rat told me his parents and all elderly people have missionary sex in dark and under cover, so I wouldn’t be surprised they don’t show full body naked.
Some african men don’t even like when you touch their ass, they feel it’s a gay thing?
However this devout muslim, talking ass and clit online to a western girl sounds shady.
This was acceptable back in the days and the norm. But nowadays, these rats are fed porn since their early teenage, I feel that he is just acting coy out of pure hypocrisy.
 

Livia

Junior Rat Expert
@chauncine1

please be very careful about this guy..i think its best to block him & move on..he sounds like a low scoundrel..as some ladies mentioned here of course he don't respect u cuz if he did he would never open such topics with u. this only tells u what he thinks about u (most likely thinks ur cheap or worse!!)..also from what u described that's very shady behaviour and keep in mind firstly he sounds like 100% hypocrite. no way a so-called devout muslim would be that much open-minded with a strange girl they just met..
 

Bubbly

Major Ratslayer
@chauncine1

please be very careful about this guy..i think its best to block him & move on..he sounds like a low scoundrel..as some ladies mentioned here of course he don't respect u cuz if he did he would never open such topics with u. this only tells u what he thinks about u (most likely thinks ur cheap or worse!!)..also from what u described that's very shady behaviour and keep in mind firstly he sounds like 100% hypocrite. no way a so-called devout muslim would be that much open-minded with a strange girl they just met..
I think he is just passing time online with her, unfortunately he is one step ahead because she contacted him first, so he is taking advantage of this situation. Now that Chauncine is aware of his contradictions she can still play around and pass time with him, without expecting anything serious. He shall reveal himself more in the future. She will find out if he is after (cyber)sex, money, visa, marriage etc.
 
Hi loves! Just looking for some answers and insight here.

Little bit of background. I was talking to my Tunisian boo, Wassim from Tunis, that I met 6 weeks ago on the gram. He so far is very sweet, respectful and very Muslim and sticks to his culture like rice. I haven't experienced anything much of what everyone else has been talking about YET, with the exception of a hot temper and trying to control me while I'm over here living in Cali lmao (which is typical Arab behavior). But he gets easily offended and doesn't like it when I share facts or statistics that go against what he thought was true or what he was taught all his life. He told me he is 28, same age as me, but I feel he may be a bit younger maybe 26 or so. Each day we talk for about 12-15 hours. He doesn't speak English and his French isn't the best at all so I use an Arabic translation app to talk to him. We have many interesting conversations each day and today I want to share one that I thought was unusual and interesting at the same time.


Today the topic of nudity came up. He told me that the men in his culture are not allowed to be seen naked by their wives. Even while having sex the man is not allowed to let his wife see his butt, because it will cause him to not be respected anymore. They are to be dress in boxers or shorts during sex. Have you heard of this before? what type of bogus is this? At first I thought maybe its "haram" or I wasn't aware of this verse in the Quran or Hadith because I have never heard this before, but then he told me it is a cultural thing for Tunisian men.

Answers, insights, or thoughts about this?
Perhaps he is still a little sexually immature and inexperienced, or maybe he has hangups about his behind - may think its too big or hairy?
 

Anna2you

Major Ratslayer
My husband can't wrap his mind around that most women don't orgasm from penetration. He's convinced he can do it with me - I really don't mind the practice. LOL

Funny you can see his wang but not his ass. lol
From what i noticed those guys over there are so horribly skinny...most of them ...so there is not much of a back side lol...maybe thats why they dont want to show it...lol.
 

Jane

Major Ratslayer
@chauncine1

please be very careful about this guy..i think its best to block him & move on..he sounds like a low scoundrel..as some ladies mentioned here of course he don't respect u cuz if he did he would never open such topics with u. this only tells u what he thinks about u (most likely thinks ur cheap or worse!!)..also from what u described that's very shady behaviour and keep in mind firstly he sounds like 100% hypocrite. no way a so-called devout muslim would be that much open-minded with a strange girl they just met..
To be fair ( I’m not a rat defender!) we can’t really accuse this guy of being a scoundrel for talking about sex , when this lady has openly participated and is clearly enjoying their sèx talk !
Let’s all take some responsibility for our actions and not assume we’re ALL victims of rats - I’m sure she would have blocked him straight away if she felt coerced but she hardly comes across as a blushing virgin lol
 

Livia

Junior Rat Expert
To be fair ( I’m not a rat defender!) we can’t really accuse this guy of being a scoundrel for talking about sex , when this lady has openly participated and is clearly enjoying their sèx talk !
Let’s all take some responsibility for our actions and not assume we’re ALL victims of rats - I’m sure she would have blocked him straight away if she felt coerced but she hardly comes across as a blushing virgin lol
Ah! i see what u mean..i tend to use that word a lot from all those history novels i read lol...no harm done..yes ur right we can't judge. let's hope her for the best
 

chauncine1

Rat Expert
To be fair ( I’m not a rat defender!) we can’t really accuse this guy of being a scoundrel for talking about sex , when this lady has openly participated and is clearly enjoying their sèx talk !
Let’s all take some responsibility for our actions and not assume we’re ALL victims of rats - I’m sure she would have blocked him straight away if she felt coerced but she hardly comes across as a blushing virgin lol

Thank you @Jane! I agree. If the worst thing he has done is have a temper, contradict himself for a lack of knowledge, is inconsistent with is faith, talks to girls, and be curious about sex then I can accept that about him. He has never said anything nasty, disrespectful or crude to me, he has never asked me for anything, not money, not photos, nothing. So if this is the worst thing he has done so far I dont feel the need to condemn or dismiss him. I have met several vile and disgusting men online who are only after one thing and this guy isnt one of them. He isnt looking for a visa or a way out of his country, he loves it there and thinks its the best place on earth. He's just a simply guy going about his simple life curious about the outside world, I cant fault him for that. I did notice that since he didnt finish school he isnt the most educated and there are a lot of things he has no idea about in general and I have to be patient when dealing with him to understand certain things but he isnt malicious or sly at all. It seems a lot of women here think that being curious and talking about sex is the worst thing ever, we are all human. Talking about sex and having sex is two very different things. I never called him a rat or said he did anything outlandish or crazy to be labeled a rat. He actually seems harmless compared to all the other stories I have heard and the other experiences other women on this site have had to suffer thru. I was just trying to share the topic of discussion we had at one point and thought it was strange and interesting. Everyone so far as been gracious in chiming in and sharing their thoughts, experiences and opinions about the situation and I appreciate that. Thank you all for you input. <3
 

chauncine1

Rat Expert
Ah! i see what u mean..i tend to use that word a lot from all those history novels i read lol...no harm done..yes ur right we can't judge. let's hope her for the best
Thank you @Livia ! Yes sometimes we tend to have our guard up and always prepare or expect the worse, thats just human natures especially when you have dealt with a lot and experience a lot. Thanks for your input.
 

chauncine1

Rat Expert
From what i noticed those guys over there are so horribly skinny...most of them ...so there is not much of a back side lol...maybe thats why they dont want to show it...lol.
hahahahah yes he is pretty skinny and petite lol he doesnt seem to have one, maybe thats why his wife will never see it lol because it doesnt exist :D :D :D :D
 

chauncine1

Rat Expert
Perhaps he is still a little sexually immature and inexperienced, or maybe he has hangups about his behind - may think its too big or hairy?
Yeah he isn't sexually experienced with the exception of two blow jobs and kissing. He doesnt seem to have a butt at all, he sent me a photo of him walking by the coast line and i didnt see anything back there. He's a slim guy.
 

Croydon girl

Major Ratslayer
Thank you @Jane! I agree. If the worst thing he has done is have a temper, contradict himself for a lack of knowledge, is inconsistent with is faith, talks to girls, and be curious about sex then I can accept that about him. He has never said anything nasty, disrespectful or crude to me, he has never asked me for anything, not money, not photos, nothing. So if this is the worst thing he has done so far I dont feel the need to condemn or dismiss him. I have met several vile and disgusting men online who are only after one thing and this guy isnt one of them. He isnt looking for a visa or a way out of his country, he loves it there and thinks its the best place on earth. He's just a simply guy going about his simple life curious about the outside world, I cant fault him for that. I did notice that since he didnt finish school he isnt the most educated and there are a lot of things he has no idea about in general and I have to be patient when dealing with him to understand certain things but he isnt malicious or sly at all. It seems a lot of women here think that being curious and talking about sex is the worst thing ever, we are all human. Talking about sex and having sex is two very different things. I never called him a rat or said he did anything outlandish or crazy to be labeled a rat. He actually seems harmless compared to all the other stories I have heard and the other experiences other women on this site have had to suffer thru. I was just trying to share the topic of discussion we had at one point and thought it was strange and interesting. Everyone so far as been gracious in chiming in and sharing their thoughts, experiences and opinions about the situation and I appreciate that. Thank you all for you input. <3
You sure he's 28 and not 14?
 

Sandra

Major Ratslayer
Hi loves! Just looking for some answers and insight here.

Little bit of background. I was talking to my Tunisian boo, Wassim from Tunis, that I met 6 weeks ago on the gram. He so far is very sweet, respectful and very Muslim and sticks to his culture like rice. I haven't experienced anything much of what everyone else has been talking about YET, with the exception of a hot temper and trying to control me while I'm over here living in Cali lmao (which is typical Arab behavior). But he gets easily offended and doesn't like it when I share facts or statistics that go against what he thought was true or what he was taught all his life. He told me he is 28, same age as me, but I feel he may be a bit younger maybe 26 or so. Each day we talk for about 12-15 hours. He doesn't speak English and his French isn't the best at all so I use an Arabic translation app to talk to him. We have many interesting conversations each day and today I want to share one that I thought was unusual and interesting at the same time.


Today the topic of nudity came up. He told me that the men in his culture are not allowed to be seen naked by their wives. Even while having sex the man is not allowed to let his wife see his butt, because it will cause him to not be respected anymore. They are to be dress in boxers or shorts during sex. Have you heard of this before? what type of bogus is this? At first I thought maybe its "haram" or I wasn't aware of this verse in the Quran or Hadith because I have never heard this before, but then he told me it is a cultural thing for Tunisian men.

Answers, insights, or thoughts about this?
:D so much bullshit, and I've never heard this, this was something new to me.
 

Jennaf

Senior Rat Expert
Maybe he lives under a rock somewhere in Tunis lmao but he is absolutely gorgeous, if you ladies saw him you wouldnt believe how simple minded he is, he dresses well and he is so humble and loves his mom and his brothers and sisters and he likes to go shopping and is organised. He's a total unicorn. He shares everything he does with me every single day, every piece of bread he eats, every chemise he buys, every friend he's hanging out with, he'll send me screen shots of conversations he has with other girls trying to seduce him, he told me all kinds of stuff I didnt care to know about him but he is so transparent. Thats why I am so confused about him.
. Sounds familiar lol
 

Tinker-lulu

Rat Expert
Hi loves! Just looking for some answers and insight here.

Little bit of background. I was talking to my Tunisian boo, Wassim from Tunis, that I met 6 weeks ago on the gram. He so far is very sweet, respectful and very Muslim and sticks to his culture like rice. I haven't experienced anything much of what everyone else has been talking about YET, with the exception of a hot temper and trying to control me while I'm over here living in Cali lmao (which is typical Arab behavior). But he gets easily offended and doesn't like it when I share facts or statistics that go against what he thought was true or what he was taught all his life. He told me he is 28, same age as me, but I feel he may be a bit younger maybe 26 or so. Each day we talk for about 12-15 hours. He doesn't speak English and his French isn't the best at all so I use an Arabic translation app to talk to him. We have many interesting conversations each day and today I want to share one that I thought was unusual and interesting at the same time.


Today the topic of nudity came up. He told me that the men in his culture are not allowed to be seen naked by their wives. Even while having sex the man is not allowed to let his wife see his butt, because it will cause him to not be respected anymore. They are to be dress in boxers or shorts during sex. Have you heard of this before? what type of bogus is this? At first I thought maybe its "haram" or I wasn't aware of this verse in the Quran or Hadith because I have never heard this before, but then he told me it is a cultural thing for Tunisian men.

Answers, insights, or thoughts about this?
This is so hilarious, sorry but I never heard that before, but they’re happy to send pictures of their Ding on social media? Darling stay away from him, pretending to be “pure”... I hope you can discover what’s the underlying reality with your friend x
 

chauncine1

Rat Expert
This is so hilarious, sorry but I never heard that before, but they’re happy to send pictures of their Ding on social media? Darling stay away from him, pretending to be “pure”... I hope you can discover what’s the underlying reality with your friend x

Thanks love! Talking to Wassim as been very entertaining to say the least lmao but yes I thought this was hilarious too so I had to share. If I ever care enough to get to the bottom of his mentality/preference/culture I will let you all know and update you :D Luckily I haven't gotten any ding pictures from him so I'm good :D :thumbsup:
 
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MH007

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Thanks love! Talking to Wassim as been very entertaining to say the least lmao but yes I thought this was hilarious too so I had to share. If I ever care enough to get to the bottom of his mentality/preference/culture I will let you all know and update you :D Luckily I haven't gotten any ding pictures from him so I'm good :D :thumbsup:
You will never get to the bottom of his mentality/preference or culture - they twist it to what you want to hear.

MH x
 

Myriam1

Major Ratslayer
About this Wassim and his :
mentality : get free sex, money, visa...from foreign or local whores
preference : young virgin tunisian girls ...
culture : do whatever you want, Nothing is forbidden, as long as nobody knows it...
 

Jennaf

Senior Rat Expert
So more less sounds like the “psycho” told you about him...? And you went and phished him on instagram....?? Sounds like you should be in the gallery if im not mistaken....? Dont mean to be mean but you sound fishy.
 
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