Possible rat or genuine?

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  1. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    This is true....but I still love the goat and flowers comparison. These selfish, greedy rats will destroy anything in their path, regardless of its beauty, in their personal quest for greed. They do know that what they are doing is wrong and cruel, they do blame the victim....but they can't seem to stop themselves from destroying the beauty in their lives, just like the goat that destroyed and ate the flowers....neither has any morals.
     
  2. Gorgeous

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    Now that my ex has found Allah - he will now show to his town what a fabulous Muslim he has become - and everyone will believe. He will be a faithful husband - outward appearance paramount - have 2 little Momos - and hopefully depart to rat land.
    As mentioned in various answers - they are under the illusion we can't survive without them - in reality they can't survive without us. They will continue scamming and never know true love or happiness. Glad I am out of the situation.
     
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  3. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    :thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:
    Karma at her finest. But us survivors....we will be blessed with the good fortune of love and happiness :)
     
  4. Heba

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    Yes I see, never changing. To normal people with emotions it just seems as a sad life. Why they then even come to europe, rat in eu or tunisia, they live the same life, same lifestyle, not getting rich in eu.
     
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    because of the dream and illusion... they come here and see that to have money you have to work. sometimes you have to do more than one job. The little amount of money they get from the goverment is maybe enough for food and a small flat but it's still morethan they would get in Tn and they still want to live a life they saw in movies... they are not smart enough to notice that this life doesnt exist in the reality. That the houses and cars we have, have not been given to us for free but we had to work hard and long time to buy them. We can afford the holiday in Tn after the whole year long working and saving. If you tell them that, they will not believe you. They still want this and trying to get this by scamm. They are sick when they have to work. They cant stay at one job more than a month, until the first salary. Every kid dreams of being a pop star, football player and so on, the rats are just like kids but older and they get so dissapointed comming here and seeing only leaves on the trees instead of money.
     
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  6. Bearhugger86

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    He sent a pic of something on his computer and I could see who he is chatting to on okcupid. Shes in Canada. Looks Muslim..
     
  7. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Trust me, she'll be one of many. Bear, you haven't met this rat in real life yet, have you? Get out now, girl....get out now before he financially and emotionally destroys you. I don't say this because I am a jealous, angry, bitter, old woman, I say it because I never, ever want to see any woman live through the hell us survivors have, I never want to read of any other children suffering as mine did. This Canadian girl is just the tip of the iceberg....she is one of many others beside yourself.
     
  8. Heidi

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    Popcorn needed???
     
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    I wonder did our advices help the girl?:)
     
  13. Heidi

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    I wonder :confused: she deleted posts and all the screenshots, but not to worry feile.gif
     
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  14. Heba

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    Isn't the posts in rat behavior public? Maybe he found it.
     
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    Break-dancing for social justice in Tunisia 18 Feb 2017
    Mafia Wallitili Festival offered a platform to showcase the frustrations of the country's disillusioned youth.

    "It gives a lot of hope to the youth," festival host Chouaib Cheu told Al Jazeera. His association, Art Solution, has also served as an important bridge between people from Tunisia's roughest neighbourhoods and the established hip-hop community.

    http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/in...g-social-justice-tunisia-170213123957768.html

    What hope ? That they will be a star one day ? The tunisian youth is disillusioned and they tell them to dance :rolleyes:


    THE ANT AND THE CRICKET

    During the wintertime, an ant was living off the grain that he had stored up for himself during the summer. The cricket came to the ant and asked him to share some of his grain. The ant said to the cricket, 'And what were you doing all summer long, since you weren't gathering grain to eat?' The cricket replied, 'Because I was busy singing I didn't have time for the harvest.' The ant laughed at the cricket's reply, and hid his heaps of grain deeper in the ground.
    'Since you sang like a fool in the summer,' said the ant, 'you better be prepared to dance the winter away!'

    This fable depicts lazy, careless people who indulge in foolish pastimes, and therefore lose out. :whistle:



     
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  16. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Couldn't agree more! He thinks he can solve the problems in Kasserine with dancing and a bowling alley? Needs to wake up to reality instead of using bezness as a way out of his mess :Evil:
     
  17. Bearhugger86

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    Maybe it was when you started swearing at me when I first suspected you were a rat azmi :)

    And luckily for me I have a brain and the intelligence to trust my gut that something wasn't quite right about you...and surely enough there's a whole website that opens women's eyes to educate us on the treatment you so openly displayed.

    I don't care if it is public and you can call me a bitch all you want. It certainly says more about you than it does me.

    I wonder how you found this thread maybe your name is becoming associated with a love rat....oh dear..
     
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    Sounds like it's a tough time @Bearhugger86. Stay around you are among friends.
     
  19. Amira

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    If you have a bad feeling from the start, this feeling most often fits. No point in believing things get better over time when he has a bad attitude from the beginning. My point of view about these men is that they make fun of us from the start. When they are together with their own, the foreign woman often comes in the background and they smile and speak their language when they are together with their good "friends" but turn around and become so "soft and nice to her" and all the nausea talk It's a long way that they really play with us and they criticize our way of being unhappy. If we had criticized them we would have heard. They accept nothing but we must accept everything
     
  20. Heidi

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    How to Teach a Rat to Bowl :D

     
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    Love it!
     
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  22. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Haha! Brilliant! Now roll on the Kasserine bowling alley :D:D
     
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  23. see clearly

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    that headstand photo is hilarious for all the wrong reasons looool
     

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