I was thinking to start a thread asking if you consider a man (Tunisian in this case) who asks his woman (European or American) to stay with him in Tunisia a potential rat. Because, what I thought is, as long as he doesn't use her to get a visa and "finally live in a rich country" and then leave her, he shouldn't be feared.. But then I read the blog Julz posted "Just a means to an end"!! :huh::huh: I changed my mind! What do you think?!