I'm beginning to wonder if vict is a rat in disguise just messing with us ? At least vict if you are a real lady then if he comes to your country and marry u at least protect any assets you may have house savings u could end up having to pay him maintiance! Pls see a solicitor for advice before u make any major life changing decisions and get fully informed. I'm sure I read somewhere that if the immigrant comes to you you have to support him financially and pay and debts he may incur while in your country and my my they know how to spend the money also check he doesn't take credit cards out in your name using your ID keep your Id documents under lock and key or with your mum dad whatever and don't let him steal any check books . Protect protect protect at least .