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JGG
Major Ratslayer
Not normal at all....big red flag...these men are expert liars and hate to be asked questions. Be very careful.....educate yourself.....ask him the hard questions...be very aware of his response and prepare yourself for a very bumpy ride. Im glad you are here....stay safe!♡
simple
Major Ratslayer
Hi @roo2 ,,the woman in question ,could be his gf,fiance ,,Rats tend to keep them informed on what hes doing ,She proberly wanted to see what you looked like and didnt want rat to think shes interfering ...If she is responding to his comments ,i would imagin she is involved...He removed the posts ,because he didnt want you to see ,,,
Unbelievable I really don't no what to say
simple
Major Ratslayer
It is hard to comprehend and i hope you dont have to strong an attraction to him,as it gets worse ,The more you get involved the more it hurts,,,Im sure seeing this girl popping up and disapearing ,can only mean something fishy.
JGG
Major Ratslayer
JGG
Major Ratslayer
In moments like this just take step back, re-evaluate the relationship and be as real and honest with yourself as you can. Listen to your gut instinct....we women have a bad habit of turning our inner conscious volume down to low because we love to hear the sweet words these men are telling us. For infact, he is weaving a dangerous web and waits patiently until we are in the middle of the web with no room to escape......then he attacks and sucks our life essence out of us...leaves us broken and damaged only to move on to the next victim. Love yourself...rescue yourself before its too late! ♡
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JGG
Major Ratslayer
Stay strong....easier said than done I know! We are all here for you ♡
Do u feel becoming attracted to him?
Yes I did but after finding TLR it really did open my eyes as some of the things he said to me have been mentioned on here
good for u...ur lucky! thank goodness this site exists. my friend was also gonna fall in the trap but she opened her eyes.
Do you mean if it is normal in our world or normal in their world 
. My rat has created probably thousand different profiles during our rough times. From different versions of his name, then only letters, female profiles to make me 'jealous', female profiles to chat with other men, profiles in my name, profiles in my friends' name, profiles in my family members' name...I mean anything is normal there. Sometimes they use the same email or number so these profiles show up in the 'people you may know' and it can be just him. My rat could hold a long conversation between his profile and his fake account lol. This is the only full time job they can ever fully commit to.
. My rat has created probably thousand different profiles during our rough times. From different versions of his name, then only letters, female profiles to make me 'jealous', female profiles to chat with other men, profiles in my name, profiles in my friends' name, profiles in my family members' name...I mean anything is normal there. Sometimes they use the same email or number so these profiles show up in the 'people you may know' and it can be just him. My rat could hold a long conversation between his profile and his fake account lol. This is the only full time job they can ever fully commit to.In there worldDo you mean if it is normal in our world or normal in their world
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
Rats don't tell the truth , they do however plot and scheme how that can get their sorry ass's into your home
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
As said here they lie and even when you caught him with lying he will call you crazy or stubborn. They deny everything and when you are persistent to know the truth you will get the so well known silent treatment from him
Yup cause as we all know very well they don't like being questioned
Butterflies
Major Ratslayer
And when you where having a serious argument they pretend it didn't happen and just ask money again
And when you where having a serious argument they pretend it didn't happen and just ask money again
Or he just blows it off and says "you're still thinking about that? it was in the past"
Treats you like your concerns are irrelevant.
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
This is SOOOOOOOOO true
Sabrina
Major Ratslayer
Always!!!!!
confuseddotcom
Major Ratslayer
You get little bits of truth interlaced with lies. I don’t think they ever just come clean and say they did it for money/visa/whatever else they could get, it’s always “my life is so hard” or some excuse. Nothing is ever their fault. Some even blame the devil. They must hate themselves.
Are they that thick dont think they realise we have to work long hours for money or they think we pull it from our asses
confuseddotcom
Major Ratslayer
I’ve realised they don’t care. To them we are spoilt infidels who don’t deserve what we have, and trust me when I say they’re clued up on the government lending/benefit systems.... they do their research and they assume there’s money pouring in to help us lead our luxury lifestyles.
Spoilt I wish there just heartless inbred freeks
