Update: I spent the last couple of days unraveling the divorce situation with my soon to be ex-rat. He decided to inform me he will end up in the west somehow. After he sent me an update on his psychological treatments, he sent me a U.S. Military wilderness survival guide. He then proceeded to bring up Native American culture and Native Americans during the civil war (alluding to racism)... I then went crazy. He seems to believe he wants to live in the wilderness for years... in my country or inside of Canada. He's reviewing material on how to grow vegetables there... in the wilderness. It really sent me over the deep end.