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  1. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Update: I spent the last couple of days unraveling the divorce situation with my soon to be ex-rat. He decided to inform me he will end up in the west somehow. After he sent me an update on his psychological treatments, he sent me a U.S. Military wilderness survival guide. He then proceeded to bring up Native American culture and Native Americans during the civil war (alluding to racism)... I then went crazy.

    He seems to believe he wants to live in the wilderness for years... in my country or inside of Canada. He's reviewing material on how to grow vegetables there... in the wilderness. It really sent me over the deep end. :confused:
     
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  2. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    His before the divorce plea... was along the lines of I know your family is hurt, and mine is suffering as well, so, to fix our very broken marriage, let's go to Canada. I play along until I gather my evidence and then unload... I will file here in the next couple of weeks. I want to be free from him legally, as soon as is possible.

    After emailing with him, I was overwhelmed by that dank, desperate, and evil cloud that exudes. It is mentally paralyzing and sickeningly thick... like being in the deepest bowls of a crypt, or laying next to feces. He loves to talk about historical topics that highlight racism and radical issues. He's so deranged. He thinks Native Americans abundantly live in the mountains... instead they are in casinos and they wear regular clothes. Yes, you have your unique cultural kinds, but not like the old west. I think he likes them, and any minority group, he believes will turn radical like him.

    He loves to fixate on old civilizations, almost to try to necromancy them back into life through his unhappy existence... after he makes himself exceedingly sick and overwhelmed psychologically with panic and dread and depression, he crawls back towards me in hopes I will be so stupid to help him immigrate, so he can set himself up off-grid somewhere in my country or, I guess, Canada. That's the next big spots for these creeps.
     
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    I should add that it's very hard for me, because I can see obviously that my rat is psychologically unwell. I'm not beyond wanting him to get cured of that, but it's a very dangerous situation, especially because I'm his immigration victim and he has no respect for me or my family. If he was a family member, I would be rushing in to get medical help, but because of the country, his disposition, and his mentality, and of course all documented abuses and lies, it's not ethically my responsibility anymore, especially because I'm divorcing him, and I never really knew him anyways. That's not to say I enjoy watching anyone in this kind of situation. I mean, it's really disturbing and I wouldn't wish it on... well... my worst enemy. :thumbsup:
     
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    Tired of sheep, is he ;)

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  5. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Oh my! He can’t survive on his own as a spoiled baby boy under mommas skirt , how in the world would he survive in the wilderness in Canada. That thing learning to cultivate is a dejavú, exactly as my rat.
    He was willing to become a farmer in Canada :D these men think it’s that easy and that all doors will open followed by a red carpet :rolleyes:
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    He needs to migrate under a rock or deep in the ocean and stop annoying good people.
     
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    Well, he will die there. :D No doubt in my mind. The mosquitoes, bugs, bears, cougars, mountain lions, etc. and the winter...
    Even North American’s who grew up in the remote wilderness areas know better. A few can survive, but they need to know how to hunt and prepare their food for in between.
    You can’t just pluck yourself out of a dust bowl where you are pampered and drop your self in the wild mountains. But if wants to be a wild lions breakfast. Then that’s okay with me. The cats will get him. One way or another.

    Oh, and did you tell him no internet in the wilderness.
     
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    Gosh....delusional much? :confused:......and how does he think he is going to achieve all this?
    I think that all of them being cooped up in their country for all their life causes them to concoct things in their head about the world and what they perceive it to be, or how they think it should be, since they know absolutely nothing outside of their deranged ancient civilization.

    I think I even read somewhere how they say that Europeans and them are the same people, with the same mentality as them wth?
    These people shouldn't have access to any social media, it has really turned their brains into spaghetti.
     
  9. Brasilgirl

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    ** hugs **
    All humans need someone. We need love. We need to belong. There are a few you survive completely alone, but not many.
    These rats don’t know how to love. They just say words. They don’t know how to feel for others. Then they see how we are. They think that because we have compassion we are stupid. They exploit our ability to love.
    I don’t know if they can be helped.
    Honestly, I think the best thing you can do is divorce this guy and put that part of your life behind you. He has a family that can make sure he gets help.
    Canada or the USA do not want some loser who is going to need rescuing from the side of a remote mountain.
     
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    I agree. They are wasting so much of their life trying to achieve what some others have. Those that get out all go back to Tunisia and say it was great in the West because they want to be treated as special. But in reality the west is not what they see on television. They can’t deal with life here. Look at the rat who had to stay in a homeless shelter in Vancouver. He should be posting photos of that on his Facebook. But he probably takes selfies in front of the Ferrari’s and other super cars on the streets by the waterfront in downtown Vancouver so everyone thinks he is living the good life.
    All for what everyone else will think.
    These rats are so deranged.
     
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    He wouldn’t make it without his meds and a blanket and cell phone, it’s true.
     
  12. Jisela

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    Yeah, they underscore culture shock. It’s not like they’re going to be sitting around at the coffee shop all day. They’re not ready for real life.
     
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    When you start to listen to their logic and summaries of history it will make you sick. It’s mind-numbing ignorance. Too much to take in any one dose.
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I personally live very close to the Canadian border and there was a -60 windchill factor recently. Anyone who wants to live outside will just not make it... not with a blanket, fire, or even thermal gear. You need a insulated home and central heating or a fireplace!
     
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    I always knew he would look strange in flannel. They need the backdrop of the Mediterranean to blend in :D
     
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    Oh, but they do :D
    If you look outside cheap coffee shops, you will see them gathered en masse.....tons of them!
    Green Lanes in London has a million and one of the saddos.
    In Italy, they gather in the little gelato shops.
    Some with wealthier victims hang out in Costa.
    No matter where these bastards go in the world, they take their lazy, coffee shop lifestyle with them....and no matter how remote the area, they find every local Tunisian or N.African man to hang out with :rolleyes:

    #thirdworldgoals :thumbsup:
     
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    I don’t know. I think you’d be hard pressed to find a cheap coffee shop in Vancouver, or anywhere I’ve been in Canada. But I’m sure they’d have their own little communities in the bigger cities.
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Costa and Starbucks are not cheap, but they go there too. In the summer especially, you see them all gathered outside drinking, smoking and chatting....much like in Tunisia.
    Trust me .....they bring the culture with them :thumbsup:
     
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    Well, there is a difference in Canada. They have a law against smoking in public places and restaurants, coffee shops, bars etc. They have to be so many metres from the door and they can’t smoke where public gathers either. They have fines. I’m sure the rats would find places to go. Under bridges, in ditches, I don’t know.
    I know my condo is no smoking for the whole building. They have no smoking on the balconies too. If they find people breaking the rules the condo board can request they move out. So sell or rent to so some else because non smoking building.
     
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    Women 'victims in 63% of romance scams'
    By Kevin PeacheyPersonal finance reporter
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    Victims of romance scams - the majority of whom are women - lost an average of £11,145 each last year, according to new figures.

    The data, from police reporting centre Action Fraud, showed that £50m was lost in these scams in 2018 when fraudsters pretend to be romantically attached.

    Fraudsters trick victims into sending money or gather enough personal information to steal their identities.

    These scams of the heart are being highlighted ahead of Valentine's Day.

    Police say that victims are targeted via online dating websites, apps, or through social media. Fraudsters use fake profiles to form a relationship with them.

    In 2018, 4,555 reports of romance fraud were made to Action Fraud. Total losses were up by 27% compared with the previous year. The total is likely to be higher as many victims are thought to have suffered in secret.

    The average age of a romance fraud victim is 50 and 63% of victims are women. They lose twice as much on average than males, Action Fraud said.

    Commander Karen Baxter, head of the City of London Police's economic crime department, said: "As cases of romance fraud increase each year, so too does the cost to victims, both emotionally and financially.

    "The emotional damage of falling victim to romance fraud can often be far more difficult to come to terms with."

    Dating site users are being urged not to take everything at face value.

    Many people who have been caught out have judged those they met online based on their social media profile, their job, or simply trusting them too soon.

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    • Criminals who commit romance fraud trawl through profiles and piece together information such as wealth and lifestyle, in order to manipulate their victims
    • Police can investigate and help to provide support, but often cannot get the money back
    • It is very simple for fraudsters to cover their tracks by masking IP addresses and using unregistered phone numbers
    • Never send money to someone online you have never met
    • Think twice about posting personal information which could be used to manipulate or bribe you
    Source: Action Fraud

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-47176539
     
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    Great post and deserves to be bumped. Just simple facts which like here, reflect that a lot more women than men are taken in with a scam. There are more women who are 50+ who are single or divorced than at any time since after the 1st and second world war. Women are more likely to be targeted by a younger man. They often develop a materialistic relationship and feel guilt and undue pressure to make the on line scammer happy or free them from poverty.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Freaking anxiety 55AB612A-28E4-44C8-9F49-DD202EE58A6B.jpeg
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    05.09am here.....I'm part of the 'Insomnia SWAT Team' :D:D
     
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    Same here, but I'm not far enough into the night, yet!
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    :D:D:D:D This thing sucks, but you made it hilarious:love::love:
     
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