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  1. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Yes, that was the other part. It destroyed all the fun in life, my independence and my freedoms. You don't even realize how important it is to be able to wear a bathing suit, or just do simple things for yourself. That's ALL taken away. It's awful. It's funny, that these people are so hostile to women, and now women are fighting to reform their countries and wanting to get out. Like, how these women survived this crap for so long, I have no idea.
     
  2. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    And Tunisia is a little open, other countries are a lot more strict with women. So imagine that sad life or remainning quiet and no facial expression or they will be beaten.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    When they celebrate women can drive a car but they still have to go with a chaperone... :|
     
  4. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I was constantly telling the rat I was used to do my duties alone. I didnt like lack of trust, he switched it to it wasnt lack of trust towards me but to men, he said they are always chasing women and looking at them with lust... which now Im not sure it was the truth. Just an excuse. There is always an excuse to keep the woman under supervision.
     
  5. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    It's so bad. It's still hard to realize that I went into Tunisia to try to like help and be with the man I thought I understood and loved, and then to find out who he REALLY was... such a tragic story and all based on the cheap lies of a man who wanted a visa. Really sick stuff.
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Mine did the same. They do that to get you under complete submission, then they are notorious cheats. It's all part of them being narcissistic.
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Well, they should keep the men under supervision then, not the women
     
  8. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    exactly, cover their eyes. Problem solved ;)
     
  9. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Exactly.
     
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    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    Even if i am with the hubby ythey blatant stare, smile and give me the eye.
    If .he goes to the toilet ythen they think all bets are off. And they are free to make passes at me. Annoys ythe hell out of me t they are like dogs
     
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    Heathens.
     
  12. Jisela

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    It's not going to change until they hold the men accountable for their behavior. Until this point in time, they continue to place all blame on the woman, uncovered or not. She is a prisoner, when the men operate in many ways like criminals.
     
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    They're like flies round shit, aren't they! Filthy buggers!
    I used to get eyed up everywhere too, I felt like a freakin exhibit, especially in the village....but I'm pleased to say, they never did approach me :thumbsup:
     
  14. Jisela

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    Random topic. But, I love this story, and I know you can't get all hooked up on celebrity marriages.

    But, I love their story (J Lo & A Rod) :D

    jlo.jpeg
     
  15. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    I mean, if you're going to get married, this is a really beautiful way. Long story short, I really, really wish I'd never crossed my rat. But, maybe everything happens for a reason. I'd like to believe that, anyways.
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    Everything happens for a reason. But sometimes the reason is that I'm stupid and make bad decisions....
     
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    You are amongst good company. Made a few of those myself too...
     
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    I’m sure she’s got a watertight pre nup...
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    who is him.. ?
     
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    He's a baseball player
     
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  21. Jisela

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    Random question: Why do the women delete their albums years after the fact? Anyone know?
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I only have seen some ladies that need to remove it due to blackmail or legal advice related to court and divorce.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Make sure those lions that you run with aren't rats in disguise_.jpg just a reminder. please be careful with your personal information. backstabbers love to disguise. xx
     
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    I love that first one: "Every end is a new beginning" :)
     

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