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Discussion in 'The Cat's Coffee House' started by Jisela, Nov 29, 2018.

  1. juicyfruit

    juicyfruit Well-Known Member

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    Maybe this year there might be one for who makes the best fish cakes leading up to the Easter weekend.
     
  2. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    That sounds like a really nice southern or country area for family. I hope you enjoy it Juicyfruit.
     
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    juicyfruit Well-Known Member

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    ;)Thanks Jisela I look forward it. Judithlyn I will be thinking of you when I bite into my fishcake.:D
     
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  4. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Accurate cool cats. 24 Funny Animal Memes And Pictures Of The Day - Daily LOL Pics.jpeg
     
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  6. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Still waiting to hear back from the lawyer. Told him the rat, as an alternative, can just start the divorce on his own — I suggested he can do this alone, and I’ve heard it’s even faster if I don’t respond. But, told him I’m eager to finish this fast and in whatever way possible.

    The part here that was complex was having a required 2-party signature on the divorce decree. I can’t get anything notarized or legalized alone — need both parties present which is impossible because we are in 2 different countries. Regardless, he can do the divorce in Tunisia (as the male party) and without me being present.
     
  7. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    If this all goes well, I will list this lawyer’s contact info on a relevant divorce thread (with the price range) as an inexpensive and English-speaking divorce lawyer in Tunisia. This may be a great resource for victims in the future. But, will wait until divorce is finished.
     
  8. Epiphany

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    Hopefully not too long to go now and that it will be over before you know it!
    Fingers crossed.
     
  9. Going for the limit

    Going for the limit Well-Known Member

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    Oh my God. Mine said this very same thing. “There will be no love after you” is what he’d say. What airheads they are.
     
  11. Epiphany

    Epiphany Well-Known Member

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    They're useless
     
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  12. Brasilgirl

    Brasilgirl Well-Known Member

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    They all follow the same check list. They meet in the coffee shops to help each other. Who knows? Maybe our rats were friends and we both talked to each other’s rats when we were handed off? Nothing would surprise me when it comes to rat culture.
     
  13. Epiphany

    Epiphany Well-Known Member

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    My rat use to leave our conversation to go and meet his friends for coffee. He would tell me that he doesn't even like coffee. I would ask him what was the point in going for coffee then? he would then say that it's just something to do. Translation...Bezness is something he had to do. Man...if I knew then what I know now, things would have been different. I would have dumped his ass at the mention of coffee. :Evil:
     
  14. RatSnatcher

    RatSnatcher Well-Known Member

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    Yes. My rat used to help translate here for 3 years . He told me he never applied for a visa. I asked him more than once if he ever. At the end, I found out he was denied a visa more than once, has used fraudulent Germany addresses, was on different dating sites, and said a lot of conflicting things in PMs to other members. i also asked him if he had ever spoken with an American victim, found out that was a lie.

    But here’s the best part, guess who he blamed in the end, ME. Said I was playing with his mind and his heart. Yep. Turned it all on me. But it was the best thing he could’ve done because I wouldn’t be with my future husband now if I would have stayed with him and ignored all the rat signs. I’m sure he still reads here too. He pretends as if he doesn’t go on social media anymore. Im sure that’s a lie too.
     
  15. spartacus

    spartacus Well-Known Member

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    Omg the coffee! Thats all we did. Alll day long. Wake up. Get ready to go to coffee. Drink coffee for hours. Go home for lunch. Watch him sleep for 3 hours. Then up and back to the coffee till 1 or 2 am.
     
  16. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Mine did too. It was my fault he beat me, because I just wouldn’t listen, I just wouldn’t do as I was told.
    It was my fault he lied, cheated and stole, it was my fault his business dreams failed....I was too negative.
    Brexit was my fault :D

    Well, girl.....bollocks to them, to your rat, my rat and every rat!
    Look where we are now, look where they are now.
    Look what we have now, look what they have now.

    Who are the winners? WE ARE!
    F*ck the lot of them :thumbsup:
     
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  17. spartacus

    spartacus Well-Known Member

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    It is always someone else to blame for their problems. Glad he showed his true colors and you got out and found a good man
     
  18. Epiphany

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    Oh...he actually drank coffee? weird :confused:
    At least he took 3 hours out of his coffee drinking to sleep...what a life
     
  19. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Wow, you had a big rat... glad you got away.
     
  20. spartacus

    spartacus Well-Known Member

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    Yup he had it pretty rough. Should have heard the complaining when he had a job. Had to quit because it was just too stressful. Jesus!
     
  21. Brasilgirl

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    I know my rat reads here too. Just after someone sent me a photo of him with his boyfriend, I posted it on my thread. Then very soon after that his Instagram and Facebook accounts got locked down and he deactivated some of them. I had not checked on his accounts in months, but I did just before I posted the photo.
    I actually posted one of his profile pics just before that too. I have no idea who sent me the photo of him with his boi. The instagram account that send it to me disappeared too. Very odd. But I don’t care. He can do what he wants. His photo is him. That’s all that is needed to warn others.
     
  22. Epiphany

    Epiphany Well-Known Member

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    Omg he is hopeless. How he survives in life is beyond me
     
  23. Epiphany

    Epiphany Well-Known Member

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    I'm surprised he hadn't blamed you for having to pick the poo from his bum with his fingers..:sick:
     
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  24. spartacus

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    Omg lol
     
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  25. Brasilgirl

    Brasilgirl Well-Known Member

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    Oh, by the way, my thread is not public, you have to be a member to read it. So rat is a member or has a friend who is.
     

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