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Starstylist

Junior Rat Expert
I will start by saying, I understand anyone can be scammed regardless of age or looks. That said, I wish to share my story of the things I saw while unknowingly getting involved with a MARRIED Moroccan man brought to the US by a much older woman and being around his Moroccan friends that are likeminded. This happened two years ago but it was traumatic for me. It was very embarrassing and shocking so I couldn’t even imagine how someone that married one of these guys and spent time, money, emotion, had to deal with opposition from their families and friends, just to be lied to, cheated on, and scammed ended up feeling. I have been fascinated with marriage fraud since this experience and hope just the little bit i experienced without even marrying anyone, can help someone before they lose everything. This can happen to anyone no matter how old you are, what you look like, how smart and educated you are. Doesn’t matter. Some people are masters at reading people and their weaknesses.

I’m a younger American woman. I met him at the swimming pool at my apartment complex. At the time, I had no experience with dating a foreigner or even dealing with them at all so I was not aware of the very different mentalities of different cultures so I just saw him as any other man. I’m 11 years younger than he is and his friends are about my age. He saw me and introduced himself and asked me out on a date. I accepted and had a great time with him. We got in to a relationship and I was intrigued by his culture. We had a lot of fun and overtime I developed feelings for him. I saw him everyday and he stayed the night with me a lot and his friends seemed happy for us. He even introduced me to his family on WhatsApp video chat which is a huge deal to me. I even brought him to meet my family a few months later and they thought he was great.

Now, because I wasn’t aware of marriage scams, it did not cross my mind that he had married an American to come here. I assumed it was for work but I didn’t ask either. He did inform me that he was married but is now divorced. I just assumed it was to a Moroccan woman and left it at that. That is where I messed up due to ignorance and no experience with other cultures.

One night, we went to the pool with his friends and I was shocked to see his two MARRIED friends from his country were meeting girls that they were not married to. I watched these guys openly kiss and and all over these girls who were also younger and nice looking. I say this because I found out later they also were here on spousal visas and married to much older women! I’d say the age difference was around 15 years. This shocked me as well but the worst part was my boyfriend seemed comfortable with this as if it was normal to him. I also noticed they thought nothing of having sex with girls their friend may have previously been involved with. First red flag. The other thing that bothered me was they would only speak to each other in their native language right in front of me. I had no clue what was happening. I wanted to say I’m not comfortable but who am I to tell someone what language they should speak?

Later on, I noticed my boyfriend was still doing favors for his ex such as picking up her pain medication at the pharmacy for her. I asked why he was doing this and he told me she was disabled and couldn’t get them herself. That sparked my curiosity I started to wonder if she was much older and if he’s still leading her on. I made a mental note of the name on the prescription bottle and looked her up on Facebook since her first name sounded American. I found her profile and was shocked to see their wedding picture. She looked to be around her 50s or 60s. I also noticed there was no record of a divorce. I confronted him and he came clean. He told me they were separated and not to worry about her and she was cool with him seeing other girls and their separation was mutually decided on but the divorce was a matter of logistics since she lived in another state. I asked why he didn’t tell me and he said he was embarrassed and thought I’d think less of him for marrying her. He then told me some horror stories of how he was tricked and his lack of understanding of American culture was exploited by her and she would threaten to deport him if he didn’t do what she wanted. I continued to hang out with them while I processed what had happened and out of pure curiosity I also spoke to many Moroccan men online to verify what he was telling me. My last straw was when I recorded him saying something in Arabic and asked several online friends to translate it. It was bad. Over the course of a year this is what I saw and heard.

Ladies, these are the things your man could very likely be telling other people behind your back. If he, his friends, and people online told me, an American, these things, just imagine the things he’s saying to his friends and family in his native language right in front of you knowing you don’t know a word of Arabic. In the recording I previously mentioned he said “hello, I married a fat woman as big as a continent. I’ve been here for ten years. Make sure you learn English first so these mother f*ckers are convinced (Americans). In the list below, these are the things himself, his friends, and people online said to me at different times the following....

1. He married her because prophet Mohammed married a much older woman and it’s honorable in Islam, especially if he can convert her

2. He became atheist after moving here due to his bad experience with her

3. It’s normal for Moroccan men to sleep around with tourists from American and European tourists since they are “fair game” (meaning they think we are trash and equate us to prostitutes)

4. All Moroccan men want a virgin Moroccan woman but if they don’t have anything to offer as far as money and education, it is very hard to get her parents to accept their proposal and that most of their marriages are arranged between their parents and his, so he will turn to foreign women since they are “easy” and have money of their own so they don’t need to worry about paying a mahr or getting the approval of her parents. In other words, they marry us as a last resort.

5. It is unacceptable and embarrassing to their family if they marry a much older, a non virgin, or divorced Moroccan woman because they are seen as damaged goods.

6. They will often target vulnerable foreign women such as women who are bitter about past relationships, divorced, overweight, lonely, older, not attractive, or even sometimes younger attractive women who are also damaged or vulnerable in some way

7. They want to escape their country so bad due to lack of employment, education, or estrangement from families that have disowned them for some reason

8. They have a community mentality vs an individual one unlike Americans so gifts or money sent to them will go to benefit the entire family

9. They will often choose older women and stay with them in hopes of inheriting money or any assets after their wife dies in hopes of using this to benefit their families or even a younger virgin Moroccan wife

10. Their family and friends are in on it a lot of times. This is because a marriage with an American can benefit all of them. Once they are US citizens, they can petition to bring their parents and siblings over. In the meantime, the family will receive money and gifts from America. I saw him set his friend up with a young, naive American girl because he was here illegally on an expired tourist visa. It didn’t work though because her father called ICE and reported it so he was arrested and deported despite the fact she married him. Bottom line, they will seduce American women in order to recruit them as potential wives for their friends and brothers back home to get them to America. I saw two tactics used. The first once is to hook up with you and tell you they need you to help bring their brother to America through marriage but you don’t have to actually be with them and can divorce them after two years. If you do this for them, they will love you forever and marry you after the divorce of the fake marriage. The other one I saw was the girl that married the illegal guy genuinely fell in love with him and she fought hard for him when he was arrested and when he was deported. She hates her father for seeing right though this and reporting it and she is now estranged from her entire family.

11. They often work in airports, hotels, and other touristy areas to find foreign women or use social media to contact women. They will even join language learning apps and websites under the guise of “learning English.” Be especially aware of the ones who have mastered the English language. I can’t tell you how many messages and marriage proposals I got while trying to learn some Moroccan darija. I found that the ones who knew perfect English and knew a lot about American culture were the worst, yet had no jobs, little education and lived with their parents. One asked for nudes so I sent him fake ones from off google just to see what he would do then he tried to blackmail me by threatening to send them to family and friends unless I sent money. They find out who they are by studying your Facebook or social media profiles. Luckily they were clearly not mine so I wasn’t worried but just imagine if they were or if they recorded you performing sex acts on the camera.

12. They will have you meet them in their country, make you feel like a queen, propose marriage, get you to pay for everything, and then when you go back, they may have another girl flying in to see them and do the same thing

13. The one I’ve heard the most is they hate Moroccan women because they are “gold diggers.” In Islam, the man pays for everything! Even if his wife has a job. Supporting their families is a huge source of pride. Taking money from women is shameful

14. Age is just a number and they do not want children. Maybe some don’t but children are very important in sealing the marriage in their culture. It’s shameful to not produce children if you are married

15. They have renounced their religion but have to keep it a secret from the family. This is for the women that don’t approve of Islam. I believe this is ok according to the Koran to lie about this in order to gain something but I’m not 100% sure

16. I even talked to one online through the language learning app that was very good looking, highly educated and just graduated from pharmacy school but was interested in me, someone with no college education. He said he wants to come to America because pharmacists make way more money. Luckily I knew that he’d be “marrying down” if he married me when he could get a woman with similar education from his own country so I figured he would marry me, come here, divorce me, and petition to bring his real fiancé over here and they’d live happily even after while I’m left emotionally and financially crushed.

The bottom line is if they talk so badly about non virgin, divorced, older and single Moroccan women, what makes us any better? Why are they willing to make that exception for us? They call their own women whores for minor things like going into a bar, walking in public with a guy they are not married to, or working late at night at regular job or even smoking a cigarette in public but yet it’s ok that we do this? I can only speak from my experience, but this makes me terrified to even risk this. It’s a shame because I have talked to genuine Moroccans online and even they are embarrassed by this behavior. There’s good and bad everywhere so please look at the situation realistically and look for actions not words!
 

Hannah Rayyan

Major Ratslayer
I will start by saying, I understand anyone can be scammed regardless of age or looks. That said, I wish to share my story of the things I saw while unknowingly getting involved with a MARRIED Moroccan man brought to the US by a much older woman and being around his Moroccan friends that are likeminded. This happened two years ago but it was traumatic for me. It was very embarrassing and shocking so I couldn’t even imagine how someone that married one of these guys and spent time, money, emotion, had to deal with opposition from their families and friends, just to be lied to, cheated on, and scammed ended up feeling. I have been fascinated with marriage fraud since this experience and hope just the little bit i experienced without even marrying anyone, can help someone before they lose everything. This can happen to anyone no matter how old you are, what you look like, how smart and educated you are. Doesn’t matter. Some people are masters at reading people and their weaknesses.

I’m a younger American woman. I met him at the swimming pool at my apartment complex. At the time, I had no experience with dating a foreigner or even dealing with them at all so I was not aware of the very different mentalities of different cultures so I just saw him as any other man. I’m 11 years younger than he is and his friends are about my age. He saw me and introduced himself and asked me out on a date. I accepted and had a great time with him. We got in to a relationship and I was intrigued by his culture. We had a lot of fun and overtime I developed feelings for him. I saw him everyday and he stayed the night with me a lot and his friends seemed happy for us. He even introduced me to his family on WhatsApp video chat which is a huge deal to me. I even brought him to meet my family a few months later and they thought he was great.

Now, because I wasn’t aware of marriage scams, it did not cross my mind that he had married an American to come here. I assumed it was for work but I didn’t ask either. He did inform me that he was married but is now divorced. I just assumed it was to a Moroccan woman and left it at that. That is where I messed up due to ignorance and no experience with other cultures.

One night, we went to the pool with his friends and I was shocked to see his two MARRIED friends from his country were meeting girls that they were not married to. I watched these guys openly kiss and and all over these girls who were also younger and nice looking. I say this because I found out later they also were here on spousal visas and married to much older women! I’d say the age difference was around 15 years. This shocked me as well but the worst part was my boyfriend seemed comfortable with this as if it was normal to him. I also noticed they thought nothing of having sex with girls their friend may have previously been involved with. First red flag. The other thing that bothered me was they would only speak to each other in their native language right in front of me. I had no clue what was happening. I wanted to say I’m not comfortable but who am I to tell someone what language they should speak?

Later on, I noticed my boyfriend was still doing favors for his ex such as picking up her pain medication at the pharmacy for her. I asked why he was doing this and he told me she was disabled and couldn’t get them herself. That sparked my curiosity I started to wonder if she was much older and if he’s still leading her on. I made a mental note of the name on the prescription bottle and looked her up on Facebook since her first name sounded American. I found her profile and was shocked to see their wedding picture. She looked to be around her 50s or 60s. I also noticed there was no record of a divorce. I confronted him and he came clean. He told me they were separated and not to worry about her and she was cool with him seeing other girls and their separation was mutually decided on but the divorce was a matter of logistics since she lived in another state. I asked why he didn’t tell me and he said he was embarrassed and thought I’d think less of him for marrying her. He then told me some horror stories of how he was tricked and his lack of understanding of American culture was exploited by her and she would threaten to deport him if he didn’t do what she wanted. I continued to hang out with them while I processed what had happened and out of pure curiosity I also spoke to many Moroccan men online to verify what he was telling me. My last straw was when I recorded him saying something in Arabic and asked several online friends to translate it. It was bad. Over the course of a year this is what I saw and heard.

Ladies, these are the things your man could very likely be telling other people behind your back. If he, his friends, and people online told me, an American, these things, just imagine the things he’s saying to his friends and family in his native language right in front of you knowing you don’t know a word of Arabic. In the recording I previously mentioned he said “hello, I married a fat woman as big as a continent. I’ve been here for ten years. Make sure you learn English first so these mother f*ckers are convinced (Americans). In the list below, these are the things himself, his friends, and people online said to me at different times the following....

1. He married her because prophet Mohammed married a much older woman and it’s honorable in Islam, especially if he can convert her

2. He became atheist after moving here due to his bad experience with her

3. It’s normal for Moroccan men to sleep around with tourists from American and European tourists since they are “fair game” (meaning they think we are trash and equate us to prostitutes)

4. All Moroccan men want a virgin Moroccan woman but if they don’t have anything to offer as far as money and education, it is very hard to get her parents to accept their proposal and that most of their marriages are arranged between their parents and his, so he will turn to foreign women since they are “easy” and have money of their own so they don’t need to worry about paying a mahr or getting the approval of her parents. In other words, they marry us as a last resort.

5. It is unacceptable and embarrassing to their family if they marry a much older, a non virgin, or divorced Moroccan woman because they are seen as damaged goods.

6. They will often target vulnerable foreign women such as women who are bitter about past relationships, divorced, overweight, lonely, older, not attractive, or even sometimes younger attractive women who are also damaged or vulnerable in some way

7. They want to escape their country so bad due to lack of employment, education, or estrangement from families that have disowned them for some reason

8. They have a community mentality vs an individual one unlike Americans so gifts or money sent to them will go to benefit the entire family

9. They will often choose older women and stay with them in hopes of inheriting money or any assets after their wife dies in hopes of using this to benefit their families or even a younger virgin Moroccan wife

10. Their family and friends are in on it a lot of times. This is because a marriage with an American can benefit all of them. Once they are US citizens, they can petition to bring their parents and siblings over. In the meantime, the family will receive money and gifts from America. I saw him set his friend up with a young, naive American girl because he was here illegally on an expired tourist visa. It didn’t work though because her father called ICE and reported it so he was arrested and deported despite the fact she married him. Bottom line, they will seduce American women in order to recruit them as potential wives for their friends and brothers back home to get them to America. I saw two tactics used. The first once is to hook up with you and tell you they need you to help bring their brother to America through marriage but you don’t have to actually be with them and can divorce them after two years. If you do this for them, they will love you forever and marry you after the divorce of the fake marriage. The other one I saw was the girl that married the illegal guy genuinely fell in love with him and she fought hard for him when he was arrested and when he was deported. She hates her father for seeing right though this and reporting it and she is now estranged from her entire family.

11. They often work in airports, hotels, and other touristy areas to find foreign women or use social media to contact women. They will even join language learning apps and websites under the guise of “learning English.” Be especially aware of the ones who have mastered the English language. I can’t tell you how many messages and marriage proposals I got while trying to learn some Moroccan darija. I found that the ones who knew perfect English and knew a lot about American culture were the worst, yet had no jobs, little education and lived with their parents. One asked for nudes so I sent him fake ones from off google just to see what he would do then he tried to blackmail me by threatening to send them to family and friends unless I sent money. They find out who they are by studying your Facebook or social media profiles. Luckily they were clearly not mine so I wasn’t worried but just imagine if they were or if they recorded you performing sex acts on the camera.

12. They will have you meet them in their country, make you feel like a queen, propose marriage, get you to pay for everything, and then when you go back, they may have another girl flying in to see them and do the same thing

13. The one I’ve heard the most is they hate Moroccan women because they are “gold diggers.” In Islam, the man pays for everything! Even if his wife has a job. Supporting their families is a huge source of pride. Taking money from women is shameful

14. Age is just a number and they do not want children. Maybe some don’t but children are very important in sealing the marriage in their culture. It’s shameful to not produce children if you are married

15. They have renounced their religion but have to keep it a secret from the family. This is for the women that don’t approve of Islam. I believe this is ok according to the Koran to lie about this in order to gain something but I’m not 100% sure

16. I even talked to one online through the language learning app that was very good looking, highly educated and just graduated from pharmacy school but was interested in me, someone with no college education. He said he wants to come to America because pharmacists make way more money. Luckily I knew that he’d be “marrying down” if he married me when he could get a woman with similar education from his own country so I figured he would marry me, come here, divorce me, and petition to bring his real fiancé over here and they’d live happily even after while I’m left emotionally and financially crushed.

The bottom line is if they talk so badly about non virgin, divorced, older and single Moroccan women, what makes us any better? Why are they willing to make that exception for us? They call their own women whores for minor things like going into a bar, walking in public with a guy they are not married to, or working late at night at regular job or even smoking a cigarette in public but yet it’s ok that we do this? I can only speak from my experience, but this makes me terrified to even risk this. It’s a shame because I have talked to genuine Moroccans online and even they are embarrassed by this behavior. There’s good and bad everywhere so please look at the situation realistically and look for actions not words!

Hi Starstylist,

I’m sorry you went through this and yes, not only Morrocans do this but men from other North Africa countries too.

Your sharing here is very informative and basically you have broken down what really happens.

It is however haram for Muslims to marry anyone for personal gain or profit and lying about religion is even worse.

But these men are not men anyway. They are scums brought up hating who they are and blaming everyone else for their misfortunes without trying to better their situations themselves.

I hope you are far away from these type of people and please spread the word so many more women are aware of what’s going on.

We hate what happened to you and appreciate that you have shared your experience with us.
 

Bubbly

Major Ratslayer
I agree all that was written.
From the moment a woman is being shared with other friend, nothing good is gonna come out of it for her. She is being used.
They used one for s*x, one for money, one for a visa, one for a job etc. Anyone they can take advantage of will be shared for others to get a profit out of them.

If ever you meet one of them and wanna be taken seriously, play very very hard to get. They love challenges so if ever they had a sentimental interest for you, act distant. Refuse the dates, see how much and how long he insists. I am not gonna say make them your dog but show who the boss is !
 

tipme

Major Ratslayer
I agree all that was written.
From the moment a woman is being shared with other friend, nothing good is gonna come out of it for her. She is being used.
They used one for s*x, one for money, one for a visa, one for a job etc. Anyone they can take advantage of will be shared for others to get a profit out of them.

If ever you meet one of them and wanna be taken seriously, play very very hard to get. They love challenges so if ever they had a sentimental interest for you, act distant. Refuse the dates, see how much and how long he insists. I am not gonna say make them your dog but show who the boss is !
Yes make them your dog and let them lick there own arse lol
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I will start by saying, I understand anyone can be scammed regardless of age or looks. That said, I wish to share my story of the things I saw while unknowingly getting involved with a MARRIED Moroccan man brought to the US by a much older woman and being around his Moroccan friends that are likeminded. This happened two years ago but it was traumatic for me. It was very embarrassing and shocking so I couldn’t even imagine how someone that married one of these guys and spent time, money, emotion, had to deal with opposition from their families and friends, just to be lied to, cheated on, and scammed ended up feeling. I have been fascinated with marriage fraud since this experience and hope just the little bit i experienced without even marrying anyone, can help someone before they lose everything. This can happen to anyone no matter how old you are, what you look like, how smart and educated you are. Doesn’t matter. Some people are masters at reading people and their weaknesses.

I’m a younger American woman. I met him at the swimming pool at my apartment complex. At the time, I had no experience with dating a foreigner or even dealing with them at all so I was not aware of the very different mentalities of different cultures so I just saw him as any other man. I’m 11 years younger than he is and his friends are about my age. He saw me and introduced himself and asked me out on a date. I accepted and had a great time with him. We got in to a relationship and I was intrigued by his culture. We had a lot of fun and overtime I developed feelings for him. I saw him everyday and he stayed the night with me a lot and his friends seemed happy for us. He even introduced me to his family on WhatsApp video chat which is a huge deal to me. I even brought him to meet my family a few months later and they thought he was great.

Now, because I wasn’t aware of marriage scams, it did not cross my mind that he had married an American to come here. I assumed it was for work but I didn’t ask either. He did inform me that he was married but is now divorced. I just assumed it was to a Moroccan woman and left it at that. That is where I messed up due to ignorance and no experience with other cultures.

One night, we went to the pool with his friends and I was shocked to see his two MARRIED friends from his country were meeting girls that they were not married to. I watched these guys openly kiss and and all over these girls who were also younger and nice looking. I say this because I found out later they also were here on spousal visas and married to much older women! I’d say the age difference was around 15 years. This shocked me as well but the worst part was my boyfriend seemed comfortable with this as if it was normal to him. I also noticed they thought nothing of having sex with girls their friend may have previously been involved with. First red flag. The other thing that bothered me was they would only speak to each other in their native language right in front of me. I had no clue what was happening. I wanted to say I’m not comfortable but who am I to tell someone what language they should speak?

Later on, I noticed my boyfriend was still doing favors for his ex such as picking up her pain medication at the pharmacy for her. I asked why he was doing this and he told me she was disabled and couldn’t get them herself. That sparked my curiosity I started to wonder if she was much older and if he’s still leading her on. I made a mental note of the name on the prescription bottle and looked her up on Facebook since her first name sounded American. I found her profile and was shocked to see their wedding picture. She looked to be around her 50s or 60s. I also noticed there was no record of a divorce. I confronted him and he came clean. He told me they were separated and not to worry about her and she was cool with him seeing other girls and their separation was mutually decided on but the divorce was a matter of logistics since she lived in another state. I asked why he didn’t tell me and he said he was embarrassed and thought I’d think less of him for marrying her. He then told me some horror stories of how he was tricked and his lack of understanding of American culture was exploited by her and she would threaten to deport him if he didn’t do what she wanted. I continued to hang out with them while I processed what had happened and out of pure curiosity I also spoke to many Moroccan men online to verify what he was telling me. My last straw was when I recorded him saying something in Arabic and asked several online friends to translate it. It was bad. Over the course of a year this is what I saw and heard.

Ladies, these are the things your man could very likely be telling other people behind your back. If he, his friends, and people online told me, an American, these things, just imagine the things he’s saying to his friends and family in his native language right in front of you knowing you don’t know a word of Arabic. In the recording I previously mentioned he said “hello, I married a fat woman as big as a continent. I’ve been here for ten years. Make sure you learn English first so these mother f*ckers are convinced (Americans). In the list below, these are the things himself, his friends, and people online said to me at different times the following....

1. He married her because prophet Mohammed married a much older woman and it’s honorable in Islam, especially if he can convert her

2. He became atheist after moving here due to his bad experience with her

3. It’s normal for Moroccan men to sleep around with tourists from American and European tourists since they are “fair game” (meaning they think we are trash and equate us to prostitutes)

4. All Moroccan men want a virgin Moroccan woman but if they don’t have anything to offer as far as money and education, it is very hard to get her parents to accept their proposal and that most of their marriages are arranged between their parents and his, so he will turn to foreign women since they are “easy” and have money of their own so they don’t need to worry about paying a mahr or getting the approval of her parents. In other words, they marry us as a last resort.

5. It is unacceptable and embarrassing to their family if they marry a much older, a non virgin, or divorced Moroccan woman because they are seen as damaged goods.

6. They will often target vulnerable foreign women such as women who are bitter about past relationships, divorced, overweight, lonely, older, not attractive, or even sometimes younger attractive women who are also damaged or vulnerable in some way

7. They want to escape their country so bad due to lack of employment, education, or estrangement from families that have disowned them for some reason

8. They have a community mentality vs an individual one unlike Americans so gifts or money sent to them will go to benefit the entire family

9. They will often choose older women and stay with them in hopes of inheriting money or any assets after their wife dies in hopes of using this to benefit their families or even a younger virgin Moroccan wife

10. Their family and friends are in on it a lot of times. This is because a marriage with an American can benefit all of them. Once they are US citizens, they can petition to bring their parents and siblings over. In the meantime, the family will receive money and gifts from America. I saw him set his friend up with a young, naive American girl because he was here illegally on an expired tourist visa. It didn’t work though because her father called ICE and reported it so he was arrested and deported despite the fact she married him. Bottom line, they will seduce American women in order to recruit them as potential wives for their friends and brothers back home to get them to America. I saw two tactics used. The first once is to hook up with you and tell you they need you to help bring their brother to America through marriage but you don’t have to actually be with them and can divorce them after two years. If you do this for them, they will love you forever and marry you after the divorce of the fake marriage. The other one I saw was the girl that married the illegal guy genuinely fell in love with him and she fought hard for him when he was arrested and when he was deported. She hates her father for seeing right though this and reporting it and she is now estranged from her entire family.

11. They often work in airports, hotels, and other touristy areas to find foreign women or use social media to contact women. They will even join language learning apps and websites under the guise of “learning English.” Be especially aware of the ones who have mastered the English language. I can’t tell you how many messages and marriage proposals I got while trying to learn some Moroccan darija. I found that the ones who knew perfect English and knew a lot about American culture were the worst, yet had no jobs, little education and lived with their parents. One asked for nudes so I sent him fake ones from off google just to see what he would do then he tried to blackmail me by threatening to send them to family and friends unless I sent money. They find out who they are by studying your Facebook or social media profiles. Luckily they were clearly not mine so I wasn’t worried but just imagine if they were or if they recorded you performing sex acts on the camera.

12. They will have you meet them in their country, make you feel like a queen, propose marriage, get you to pay for everything, and then when you go back, they may have another girl flying in to see them and do the same thing

13. The one I’ve heard the most is they hate Moroccan women because they are “gold diggers.” In Islam, the man pays for everything! Even if his wife has a job. Supporting their families is a huge source of pride. Taking money from women is shameful

14. Age is just a number and they do not want children. Maybe some don’t but children are very important in sealing the marriage in their culture. It’s shameful to not produce children if you are married

15. They have renounced their religion but have to keep it a secret from the family. This is for the women that don’t approve of Islam. I believe this is ok according to the Koran to lie about this in order to gain something but I’m not 100% sure

16. I even talked to one online through the language learning app that was very good looking, highly educated and just graduated from pharmacy school but was interested in me, someone with no college education. He said he wants to come to America because pharmacists make way more money. Luckily I knew that he’d be “marrying down” if he married me when he could get a woman with similar education from his own country so I figured he would marry me, come here, divorce me, and petition to bring his real fiancé over here and they’d live happily even after while I’m left emotionally and financially crushed.

The bottom line is if they talk so badly about non virgin, divorced, older and single Moroccan women, what makes us any better? Why are they willing to make that exception for us? They call their own women whores for minor things like going into a bar, walking in public with a guy they are not married to, or working late at night at regular job or even smoking a cigarette in public but yet it’s ok that we do this? I can only speak from my experience, but this makes me terrified to even risk this. It’s a shame because I have talked to genuine Moroccans online and even they are embarrassed by this behavior. There’s good and bad everywhere so please look at the situation realistically and look for actions not words!
This is sickening and sounds just like Tunisian guys. A lot of us learned the hard way some way harder then others! Thanks for this post! Oh and Muhammad married a 6 yr old but waited til she was 9 to have sex with her! They act all Godly but I think most of them are just taught this religion and don’t really practice it!
 

ButterflyBee

Major Ratslayer
dont want to quote it I can’t find it now but something to the effect Muhammad wants or oks guys to marry bigger older women
Wow. Offensive much. Can’t blame the Prophet of over a billion people because one arab guy in 2020 played someone and they got hurt. It baffles me how people link the two
 

ButterflyBee

Major Ratslayer
Wow. Offensive much. Can’t blame the Prophet of over a billion people because one arab guy in 2020 played someone and they got hurt. It baffles me how people link the two
I know rats use our Prophets name to justify marrying an older woman. Difference being that our Prophet was not a rat who married for gain. Rats marry older women with no intention to stay with them, there’s the difference.
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
I know rats use our Prophets name to justify marrying an older woman. Difference being that our Prophet was not a rat who married for gain. Rats marry older women with no intention to stay with them, there’s the difference.
Exactly!!
 

ButterflyBee

Major Ratslayer
This is what she said the Moroccan guy said I am not blaming anyone but the guy I understand this is your religion and that’s great we all are different but the important thing is love
Yeah I get what she said about rats comparing marrying an older woman because our Prophet did that, she’s right they do say that. I was confused what you said about our Prophet being with a child and how that was relevant?? Even thought it’s more complicated than that and I’m happy to send you some writing about it so you’re not confused
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Yeah I get what she said about rats comparing marrying an older woman because our Prophet did that, she’s right they do say that. I was confused what you said about our Prophet being with a child and how that was relevant?? Even thought it’s more complicated than that and I’m happy to send you some writing about it so you’re not confused
Of course I love religion! I enjoy learning about things like this . They put the blame on anyone that’s all but really shouldn’t use the prophet like that. Like swearing God .... DONT mine would do that a lot you know to cover lies;(
 

ButterflyBee

Major Ratslayer
Of course I love religion! I enjoy learning about things like this . They put the blame on anyone that’s all but really shouldn’t use the prophet like that. Like swearing God .... DONT mine would do that a lot you know to cover lies;(
Yeah it’s wrong to swear to God of course, makes me angry when I hear it and I know people are lying. I’ve messaged you a link to an article x
 

khalissi

Inactive
Just a small snipet off Wikipedia very interesting read

In 15 states, children under 16 can marry. Over the past 15 years, more than 200,000 minors married in US, and in Tennessee girls as young as 10 were married in 2001,[9] before the state set a minimum age of 17 in 2018.[10]
People need to look closer to home instead of just branding Islam
 

ButterflyBee

Major Ratslayer
Thank you I’m sorry !
Don’t apologise, the media (especially in the West) do a good job at scaring people and misinterpreting things. I’ve heard this about our Prophet marrying a child a million times over and this won’t be the last time I’m sure, funny thing is Kings all over the West did it years ago but this is never mentioned. Also there is a lot of doubt as to whether his wife was actually 6 as explained in the article I sent you
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Just a small snipet off Wikipedia very interesting read

In 15 states, children under 16 can marry. Over the past 15 years, more than 200,000 minors married in US, and in Tennessee girls as young as 10 were married in 2001,[9] before the state set a minimum age of 17 in 2018.[10]
People need to look closer to home instead of just branding Islam
True recently they have changed the age in us not sure where exactly
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Don’t apologise, the media (especially in the West) do a good job at scaring people and misinterpreting things. I’ve heard this about our Prophet marrying a child a million times over and this won’t be the last time I’m sure, funny thing is Kings all over the West did it years ago but this is never mentioned. Also there is a lot of doubt as to whether his wife was actually 6 as explained in the article I sent you
Correct I read that! People will be people they shouldn’t say untrue things but they do!! And doubtful she was 6 because the engagement befote
 

Wannahelpu

Major Ratslayer
I agree all that was written.
From the moment a woman is being shared with other friend, nothing good is gonna come out of it for her. She is being used.
They used one for s*x, one for money, one for a visa, one for a job etc. Anyone they can take advantage of will be shared for others to get a profit out of them.

If ever you meet one of them and wanna be taken seriously, play very very hard to get. They love challenges so if ever they had a sentimental interest for you, act distant. Refuse the dates, see how much and how long he insists. I am not gonna say make them your dog but show who the boss is !
The (my, argh!) Rat's brother confirmed to me, personally, about his brother having relationships with many women in the place where he works. Kiss them, have sex with them, keep dating, even though he's married. We know why.
And this guy (his brother) was believing that he could take advantage of the situation and try something with me, since I found out that he is a rat and that he will pay dearly for it. Can you believe it ?! Maybe he intended to maintain some connection with me, so I would not sue his brother, and at the same time, he could take money from me, since "I am very, very rich" LOL.
For them it is natural, normal, common, to have many women, there is no harm, even if he is married into another culture. I bet his wife would not accept him on this "condition". He lied, as always, that she is the only one, which is the love of his life, together with their little daughter,
a daughter he uses cowardly to try to take <$>advantage</$> of.
The rat's wife believes in him or prefers to pretend to believe, because for many women, this is better than nothing, than having to divorce a persistent adulterer.
When he takes her patrimony, I want to see her relatives continue to defend a filthy scammer like him. At that moment, everyone congratulates the proud wife "What a beautiful couple!" While the damage does not reach their home. What will they say when he is summoned to answer for the harm done to women outside of marriage? I feel angry about these conniving people. What a shame!
I admire you and each one of us who refused to be used, betrayed and deceived by an Arab rat.

PS.: Betrayed by rats insist to trick esteem self (sic).
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
The (my, argh!) Rat's brother confirmed to me, personally, about his brother having relationships with many women in the place where he works. Kiss them, have sex with them, keep dating, even though he's married. We know why.
And this guy (his brother) was believing that he could take advantage of the situation and try something with me, since I found out that he is a rat and that he will pay dearly for it. Can you believe it ?! Maybe he intended to maintain some connection with me, so I would not sue his brother, and at the same time, he could take money from me, since "I am very, very rich" LOL.
For them it is natural, normal, common, to have many women, there is no harm, even if he is married into another culture. I bet his wife would not accept him on this "condition". He lied, as always, that she is the only one, which is the love of his life, together with their little daughter,
a daughter he uses cowardly to try to take <$>advantage</$> of.
The rat's wife believes in him or prefers to pretend to believe, because for many women, this is better than nothing, than having to divorce a persistent adulterer.
When he takes her patrimony, I want to see her relatives continue to defend a filthy scammer like him. At that moment, everyone congratulates the proud wife "What a beautiful couple!" While the damage does not reach their home. What will they say when he is summoned to answer for the harm done to women outside of marriage? I feel angry about these conniving people. What a shame!
I admire you and each one of us who refused to be used, betrayed and deceived by an Arab rat.

PS.: Betrayed by rats insist to trick esteem self (sic).
They are disgusting!
 

MH007

Administrator
Staff member
Disgusting!

Trouble is a lot of times the (Tunisian) wife knows exactly what is going on but puts up with it because she will benefit, appearance means everything so new clothes, perfume, furniture etc and of course time off from being intimate - having a headache wouldn’t work.

Of course his brother was going to have a crack- they would sell their own grandma for a shot at wealth, visa and being seen as successful.

MH x
 

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Disgusting!

Trouble is a lot of times the (Tunisian) wife knows exactly what is going on but puts up with it because she will benefit, appearance means everything so new clothes, perfume, furniture etc and of course time off from being intimate - having a headache wouldn’t work.

Of course his brother was going to have a crack- they would sell their own grandma for a shot at wealth, visa and being seen as successful.

MH x
I couldn’t live like that!
 

Bubbly

Major Ratslayer
The (my, argh!) Rat's brother confirmed to me, personally, about his brother having relationships with many women in the place where he works. Kiss them, have sex with them, keep dating, even though he's married. We know why.
And this guy (his brother) was believing that he could take advantage of the situation and try something with me, since I found out that he is a rat and that he will pay dearly for it. Can you believe it ?! Maybe he intended to maintain some connection with me, so I would not sue his brother, and at the same time, he could take money from me, since "I am very, very rich" LOL.
For them it is natural, normal, common, to have many women, there is no harm, even if he is married into another culture. I bet his wife would not accept him on this "condition". He lied, as always, that she is the only one, which is the love of his life, together with their little daughter,
a daughter he uses cowardly to try to take <$>advantage</$> of.
The rat's wife believes in him or prefers to pretend to believe, because for many women, this is better than nothing, than having to divorce a persistent adulterer.
When he takes her patrimony, I want to see her relatives continue to defend a filthy scammer like him. At that moment, everyone congratulates the proud wife "What a beautiful couple!" While the damage does not reach their home. What will they say when he is summoned to answer for the harm done to women outside of marriage? I feel angry about these conniving people. What a shame!
I admire you and each one of us who refused to be used, betrayed and deceived by an Arab rat.

PS.: Betrayed by rats insist to trick esteem self (sic).

Someone once told me men in general like diversity. Some women still support this kind of behaviour by saying as long as he comes back home to me every evening, I am the one who truly matters.
Especially in their culture men are given way more freedom than women, it is a boys will be boys kind of behaviour, rather accepted by everyone around.
Most North African guys do have their fair share of fun BEFORE marriage and then specifically once the kids are here, they will become more and more religious and tend to calm down.
When it comes to rat, there is almost no hope for salvation because they will find any reason to justify their behaviour every woman is a means to something and should be used since she lets herself be used, her body and mind have no worth, only the materialistic things she can bring them matters. That’s why I am always saying rats are prostitutes, they work with their d*ck always for their own benefit. And they are convinced western women are craving for s*x 24/7 they manage to fool them by given them what they want pretending it is love and passion.
 
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