Rat Behaviour - the tell-tail signs to look for

Milly Yarde

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Hi all,

I hope this finds you well. Last year I posted in here in reference to a documentary I was working on, exploring topics many of you have been affected by.
We’ve just been told by Channel 5 that the documentary will be aired on Thursday 11th July at 10pm. The new title is ‘Holiday Love Cheats Exposed’.

Thank you so much for all your help.

I think you’re going to really enjoy watching it and it would be great to hear what you think!

Thanks again for all your help!

Best wishes,
Amelia
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Mango Chutney

Moderator
Staff member
Hi all,

I hope this finds you well. Last year I posted in here in reference to a documentary I was working on, exploring topics many of you have been affected by.
We’ve just been told by Channel 5 that the documentary will be aired on Thursday 11th July at 10pm. The new title is ‘Holiday Love Cheats Exposed’.

Thank you so much for all your help.

I think you’re going to really enjoy watching it and it would be great to hear what you think!

Thanks again for all your help!

Best wishes,
Amelia
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Thank you, Milly :)

Does it give a true representation of bezness, or are the victims portrayed as old sex tourists? Oh God.....please let it be honest :Cry:
Does it mention the word bezness? This is the word we desperately need out there, as victims oftentimes have not heard of the scam...I was one of them.

I will be watching :)
 

Mystery

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Thank you, Milly :)

Does it give a true representation of bezness, or are the victims portrayed as old sex tourists? Oh God.....please let it be honest :Cry:
Does it mention the word bezness? This is the word we desperately need out there, as victims oftentimes have not heard of the scam...I was one of them.

I will be watching :)
I hope it shows that it doesn't matter the age of a person they scam you anyway.
 

Mystery

Inactive
Nor the nationality. They just look for cash and migration papers. Some of them don’t even care gender of their victim.
As long as they are getting it don't matter.
Money gifts sex it's all for them and they inbred family.
I'm ugly tonight and promised me a divorce I shall hold my breath on that one lol
It's walids long divorce from apples I think.
I wish he would hurry up can't wait to be free from a drama man.
I make is life hell I keep him old so he don't have more children yadda yadda he never paid for the ones he got. I swear he's Satan's spawn.
 

Mango Chutney

Moderator
Staff member
I hope it shows that it doesn't matter the age of a person they scam you anyway.
That’s what I worry about, the media constantly focusing on what they construe money making headliners: Women; Older; Overweight; Sex tourists; Disabled etc.

It breaks my heart to see them not show the true face of bezness, and that it also affects the young, plus men....these people think they are safe due to media misinterpretation and their refusal to state the word bezness, which would then at least give victims a word to Google for a true description of the scam :Cry:
 

Mystery

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That’s what I worry about, the media constantly focusing on what they construe money making headliners: Women; Older; Overweight; Sex tourists; Disabled etc.

It breaks my heart to see them not show the true face of bezness, and that it also affects the young, plus men....these people think they are safe due to media misinterpretation and their refusal to state the word bezness, which would then at least give victims a word to Google for a true description of the scam :Cry:
We can hold our breath s until Thursdays but my guess is that it's going to be like all the rest.
A mention of TLR WOULD BE NICE. Even if it was at the end of the documentary.
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
We can hold our breath s until Thursdays but my guess is that it's going to be like all the rest.
A mention of TLR WOULD BE NICE. Even if it was at the end of the documentary.
Yes! I agree. If they mention TLR and other resources so people can research more themselves it will be great! Any bit of exposure helps. And TLR will always be here even if the show re-airs years down the road.
 

see clearly

Junior Rat Expert
I hope it shows that it doesn't matter the age of a person they scam you anyway.
Yeah i agree . i went through a real downer feeling catagorised as a someone who thought they were better , more pretty etc than they were. I spent a fortune on beauty products and proceadures , personal training , dieting you name it just to feel i was staying in the game. I remember looking at a slightly more increased line when you smile ( those ones ) after trotting out of my botox clinic with a £50 jar of top range moisturiser and getting really panicky . I don't look my age it actually shocks people even now.But i just cant feel it never have done. I dont mean to be agest but i dont feel ive had a fair crack at life due to various reasons so i did it. I was competing against his others, beautiful blondes from a certain part of the world known for their tallness and lithe limbs and and long blonde hair an athlete who must have squatted a million times a week. Then I crashed when it all ended . I still struggle with compliments , get the odd day when i really wish i had the cash to do this or that . Im talking another nose job brown substance like that . I nearly went for leg lengthening surgery !!!! The reality became depression relying on illicit meds and staying in bed all day for years it seems . I had physical pain as well so that was a factor in it . Currently bankrupt with an unsalable flat due to fire cladding arguments , lost my job ( although i think it wasnt all me some was bullying ) and a collapse with sepsis whereby i nearly died. Currently at home on benefits!!! and i send the odd racey pic to a guy i met when i had a small job earlier this year whos 13 years older loool xxx There are a variety of scenarios . I will watch it if i get chance. Some are obvious some situations less so. With mine alledgedly the young beautiful athlete gave him £6000 !!!!
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
Yeah i agree . i went through a real downer feeling catagorised as a someone who thought they were better , more pretty etc than they were. I spent a fortune on beauty products and proceadures , personal training , dieting you name it just to feel i was staying in the game. I remember looking at a slightly more increased line when you smile ( those ones ) after trotting out of my botox clinic with a £50 jar of top range moisturiser and getting really panicky . I don't look my age it actually shocks people even now.But i just cant feel it never have done. I dont mean to be agest but i dont feel ive had a fair crack at life due to various reasons so i did it. I was competing against his others, beautiful blondes from a certain part of the world known for their tallness and lithe limbs and and long blonde hair an athlete who must have squatted a million times a week. Then I crashed when it all ended . I still struggle with compliments , get the odd day when i really wish i had the cash to do this or that . Im talking another nose job brown substance like that . I nearly went for leg lengthening surgery !!!! The reality became depression relying on illicit meds and staying in bed all day for years it seems . I had physical pain as well so that was a factor in it . Currently bankrupt with an unsalable flat due to fire cladding arguments , lost my job ( although i think it wasnt all me some was bullying ) and a collapse with sepsis whereby i nearly died. Currently at home on benefits!!! and i send the odd racey pic to a guy i met when i had a small job earlier this year whos 13 years older loool xxx There are a variety of scenarios . I will watch it if i get chance. Some are obvious some situations less so. With mine alledgedly the young beautiful athlete gave him £6000 !!!!
You’re so brave for sharing this, was a huge battle. Can relate a little with it cause my rat was telling me I was ugly, there were many gorgeous blonde girls from European countries wanting him.. all that. I ended up isolated and not wanting anyone to look at me. Just the necessary things and done.
Your struggle went further than that, Do not believe those lies. Big hug.
 
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Heidi

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Yeah i agree . i went through a real downer feeling catagorised as a someone who thought they were better , more pretty etc than they were. I spent a fortune on beauty products and proceadures , personal training , dieting you name it just to feel i was staying in the game. I remember looking at a slightly more increased line when you smile ( those ones ) after trotting out of my botox clinic with a £50 jar of top range moisturiser and getting really panicky . I don't look my age it actually shocks people even now.But i just cant feel it never have done. I dont mean to be agest but i dont feel ive had a fair crack at life due to various reasons so i did it. I was competing against his others, beautiful blondes from a certain part of the world known for their tallness and lithe limbs and and long blonde hair an athlete who must have squatted a million times a week. Then I crashed when it all ended . I still struggle with compliments , get the odd day when i really wish i had the cash to do this or that . Im talking another nose job brown substance like that . I nearly went for leg lengthening surgery !!!! The reality became depression relying on illicit meds and staying in bed all day for years it seems . I had physical pain as well so that was a factor in it . Currently bankrupt with an unsalable flat due to fire cladding arguments , lost my job ( although i think it wasnt all me some was bullying ) and a collapse with sepsis whereby i nearly died. Currently at home on benefits!!! and i send the odd racey pic to a guy i met when i had a small job earlier this year whos 13 years older loool xxx There are a variety of scenarios . I will watch it if i get chance. Some are obvious some situations less so. With mine alledgedly the young beautiful athlete gave him £6000 !!!!
You've come a long way, baby :love: and don't you forget it :)
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
Yeah i agree . i went through a real downer feeling catagorised as a someone who thought they were better , more pretty etc than they were. I spent a fortune on beauty products and proceadures , personal training , dieting you name it just to feel i was staying in the game. I remember looking at a slightly more increased line when you smile ( those ones ) after trotting out of my botox clinic with a £50 jar of top range moisturiser and getting really panicky . I don't look my age it actually shocks people even now.But i just cant feel it never have done. I dont mean to be agest but i dont feel ive had a fair crack at life due to various reasons so i did it. I was competing against his others, beautiful blondes from a certain part of the world known for their tallness and lithe limbs and and long blonde hair an athlete who must have squatted a million times a week. Then I crashed when it all ended . I still struggle with compliments , get the odd day when i really wish i had the cash to do this or that . Im talking another nose job brown substance like that . I nearly went for leg lengthening surgery !!!! The reality became depression relying on illicit meds and staying in bed all day for years it seems . I had physical pain as well so that was a factor in it . Currently bankrupt with an unsalable flat due to fire cladding arguments , lost my job ( although i think it wasnt all me some was bullying ) and a collapse with sepsis whereby i nearly died. Currently at home on benefits!!! and i send the odd racey pic to a guy i met when i had a small job earlier this year whos 13 years older loool xxx There are a variety of scenarios . I will watch it if i get chance. Some are obvious some situations less so. With mine alledgedly the young beautiful athlete gave him £6000 !!!!
Just remember that true beauty comes from the inside out. And if you have bad times, rat induced or not, you are still the same beautiful person inside.
It is heart breaking for me to read what has happened to you, but I can see you are a survivor. Take care and ** big hugs **
 

Mystery

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Yeah i agree . i went through a real downer feeling catagorised as a someone who thought they were better , more pretty etc than they were. I spent a fortune on beauty products and proceadures , personal training , dieting you name it just to feel i was staying in the game. I remember looking at a slightly more increased line when you smile ( those ones ) after trotting out of my botox clinic with a £50 jar of top range moisturiser and getting really panicky . I don't look my age it actually shocks people even now.But i just cant feel it never have done. I dont mean to be agest but i dont feel ive had a fair crack at life due to various reasons so i did it. I was competing against his others, beautiful blondes from a certain part of the world known for their tallness and lithe limbs and and long blonde hair an athlete who must have squatted a million times a week. Then I crashed when it all ended . I still struggle with compliments , get the odd day when i really wish i had the cash to do this or that . Im talking another nose job brown substance like that . I nearly went for leg lengthening surgery !!!! The reality became depression relying on illicit meds and staying in bed all day for years it seems . I had physical pain as well so that was a factor in it . Currently bankrupt with an unsalable flat due to fire cladding arguments , lost my job ( although i think it wasnt all me some was bullying ) and a collapse with sepsis whereby i nearly died. Currently at home on benefits!!! and i send the odd racey pic to a guy i met when i had a small job earlier this year whos 13 years older loool xxx There are a variety of scenarios . I will watch it if i get chance. Some are obvious some situations less so. With mine alledgedly the young beautiful athlete gave him £6000 !!!!
You know what each of us get old,. So do that blonde long legged bimbo and so do those ugly twats. Botox I did that and regretted it.
They take away our self esteem but what do they have nothing.
They don't have a heart even, oh boy my rat use a beauty cam if you see the real him he's such an ugly rat. There's more bone on a lamb chop.
The angle he use to make him look like he got muscles he got 3 layers of clothing on.
Don't put yourself through this you can be the most beautiful woman it doesn't matter it's what they can scam you for.
Even those plastic virgins get old and do they age fast especially with the makeup the white painted faces they look like coco the clown.
I don't wear makeup that's my choice I don't need to impress any ugly rat face walking syphilis brain dead black hearted north African.
Stay strong and laugh at the freaks. X
 

Mango Chutney

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Staff member
lost my job ( although i think it wasnt all me some was bullying
Your bosses are evil....it definitely wasn’t you, they were 100% managing you out.
I used to be expected to carry this out when I managed a team....I wouldn’t do it, it’s so nasty to manage people out solely because you don’t like them or are jealous of them, rather than because they can’t perform the task required. Power crazy freaks do my head in making people that try so hard feel inadequate and unwelcome, it’s cruel, unnecessary and abnormal :Evil:

Just you keep being you.....your bosses were not worthy :love:
 

Mango Chutney

Moderator
Staff member
Hi all,

I hope this finds you well. Last year I posted in here in reference to a documentary I was working on, exploring topics many of you have been affected by.
We’ve just been told by Channel 5 that the documentary will be aired on Thursday 11th July at 10pm. The new title is ‘Holiday Love Cheats Exposed’.

Thank you so much for all your help.

I think you’re going to really enjoy watching it and it would be great to hear what you think!

Thanks again for all your help!

Best wishes,
Amelia
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So I just finished watching this.
First of all, I must say.....Michelle is my hero! :love:

I did enjoy the programme, it was nice that it showed that victims are of mixed ages and nationalities, but I am incredibly disappointed that the word bezness did not feature at all :(

That witch doctor in Ghana....man, I coulda slapped him!! How dare he victim blame :Evil:
 

Heidi

Inactive
Thank you, Milly :)

Does it give a true representation of bezness, or are the victims portrayed as old sex tourists? Oh God.....please let it be honest :Cry:
Does it mention the word bezness? This is the word we desperately need out there, as victims oftentimes have not heard of the scam...I was one of them.

I will be watching :)

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After marrying a man who she later found out only wanted her for a UK passport, Michelle set up the 'Stop UK Marriage Fraud' support group, to ensure other women don't fall for the same tricks




 

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After marrying a man who she later found out only wanted her for a UK passport, Michelle set up the 'Stop UK Marriage Fraud' support group, to ensure other women don't fall for the same tricks




have seen her live videos and she is a very nice person, empathic, intelligent. She turned this horrible experience into a support network for many other people going through the same situation.
She is inspiring. :love:
 

see clearly

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You’re so brave for sharing this, was a huge battle. Can relate a little with it cause my rat was telling me I was ugly, there were many gorgeous blonde girls from European countries wanting him.. all that. I ended up isolated and not wanting anyone to look at me. Just the necessary things and done.
Your struggle went further than that, Do not believe those lies. Big hug.
Awww thanks i did it to myself alot ive always had body issues from as long as i can remember when i look back there was nothing wrong with me i was pretty probably slightly above average looking not a model but enough t turn heads a bit. People always asked why i was single . ( im irritable as fuck mainly or dont have the energy for it ) but i gave it all for the rat . Did the days out and parties at night after id had no sleep for worrying what i was doing and my money situation . The 3 K holiday one time reduced me to hysterical tears in front of him saying i cant afford this im fucked now ! He must have dropped in the odd remark that made me so competative as hell as well. At least i lost the stone id put on and keeping it off still. xxx
 

see clearly

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Brit, 60, marries Sri Lankan toyboy lover and it ends in murder and homelessness
Diane Peebles, from Edinburgh, was heartbroken after her dream life in paradise turned out to be a sham and her story is covered in Channel 5's Holiday Love Cheats Exposed
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Obviously all the stories on the programme are just heart wrenching , in terms of what stood out for me is Sarah's story ...the reason why she isn't old , fat and ugly .
This is what people make the mistake about , they think it will happen only to older people . I would say 80 % the older people are targets but it's paramount to understand that it does happen to the younger ones too.
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
Obviously all the stories on the programme are just heart wrenching , in terms of what stood out for me is Sarah's story ...the reason why she isn't old , fat and ugly .
This is what people make the mistake about , they think it will happen only to older people . I would say 80 % the older people are targets but it's paramount to understand that it does happen to the younger ones too.
I think the rats are targeting younger women more now too. Younger women can have good jobs and money and it is more believable when explaining the relationship for a visa.
It’s good they show a variety of situations.
I can’t imagine a young man wanting to spend the rest of his life with a woman older than his mom. There is defiantly a hidden agenda in 99.9% of those situations.
 

MH007

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I think the rats are targeting younger women more now too. Younger women can have good jobs and money and it is more believable when explaining the relationship for a visa.
It’s good they show a variety of situations.
I can’t imagine a young man wanting to spend the rest of his life with a woman older than his mom. There is defiantly a hidden agenda in 99.9% of those situations.
There does seem to be an increase on rats preying on younger victims.

Sickening!

MH x
 

tipme

Junior Rat Expert
Hi all,

I hope this finds you well. Last year I posted in here in reference to a documentary I was working on, exploring topics many of you have been affected by.
We’ve just been told by Channel 5 that the documentary will be aired on Thursday 11th July at 10pm. The new title is ‘Holiday Love Cheats Exposed’.

Thank you so much for all your help.

I think you’re going to really enjoy watching it and it would be great to hear what you think!

Thanks again for all your help!

Best wishes,
Amelia
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I watched it should do more was good. The Scottish woman that was conned by the skrilana man then they told her he was dead and his body led out. To me personally I don't think that was him looked nothing like him
 
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