Discussion in 'Rat on a Rat' started by Anneluse marzi, Aug 3, 2017.
@Judithlyn , I love you.
Great written and yes we are too naive about them. We all have a responsibility for our lives and building a house for them is going too far. You get tired of having a boyfriend who never has money and they have no understanding for things to cost. They are also raised in my view, in a wrong way, that many of them are aggressive and rude because they are men, so it's ok to downgrade women while their women have no rights. I do not think this has anything Islam to do but with the culture. We live in 2018 and in some cultures, divorce is not accepted but how do you live with a man who does not respect you and your children. Respect is goes in two ways
In all poor countries you need to keep the Money for Your self and do not trust any one . Travel on holiday ok but stay away from local People
Great post @Judithlyn, it’s been tough going but you have come through the end of a long dark tunnel. Stay strong and focussed and life will be good again. You survived it and lived to tell the tale.
Get you, girl!!!!! So damn bloody proud of how far you've come....you're a proper little rat trapper now.....I never did lose faith in you
I never have and will never will step into this "shit hole" of a country." They brought this label onto themselves! Because they will not address this "bezness" problem.
Tunisia is a nice country with good food but it does not last when the country is full of bezness people think it's sad that they ruin their reputation regarding bezness and foreign women actually i like tunisia very well as country but because of its bad reputation so I do not think I again choose it as a vacation destination, All people are different Some are probably good also in Tunisia but where are they. I think that if you meet the wrong type of people you get bad experiences. It's easier to meet a bad man than a good man
Do not think that love rat bezness will end in Tunisia because it has become a trend to fool innocents and they see that it works the younger teacher of the elderly. Why work for 200 dinars a month when they can get expensive clothes, houses from tourists and their government do not care for me seems like they are fooling us and looking at us as stupid though it goes beyond their touristism. It's a bad circle. As long as naive women fall for their own way, the charm of culture will never end. Old women go and new waiting around the corner
Its not only the old women.....Young women too. !!
This is not a new thing.. greece, italien and other mitteraine coutries have done this for many years and still do.
I believe that Amira did not mean "old" as in age
Ahhh okay )
Yes, she meant, one lot leave and another lot arrive ( I think)
Old vs new. Not old vs young?
Yes, I mean that old tourists say goodbye and new ones come. Have experienced that they even know which flights are coming for which days and they also know the holiday season for the tourists and who have money. They also go for learning languages like Russian, Italian, etc. Is surprised that they know so much about each country.
It's use and throw the method. Fun to experience new cultures, but I think it is best to refrain from holiday romance or to start a relationship with one from another cultures. Too much misunderstandings and language problems. They live a life where they have access to tourist girls every day and if you think their boyfriend is faithful then you are naive
AWwwww.....love you too! Thanks!
It’s been a real educational experience! Thank you for your kind words...much appreciated!!
You have been through absolute horror and look at you! You are such an encouragement to everybody! You are amazing! Thank you for all of the encouraging words you have given me! I hope life is so great for you always! I’m so thankful you survived your horrendous ordeal! Really really scary! Keep sharing your story. If that doesn’t make ladies set up and take notice, I just don’t know what will! Tell that 64 years old wife your story! I think she may be in danger! I hope she will listen!
If you think about it...... maybe the new “education “ for Young men in tunesia “High School” ;-)))
There is a reason that they are trying to learn many languages
Maybe the new school in Tunisa is more concerned with faith and Quran than other cultures , can not see for me Tunisia as a open country
Exactly!!! I sit there and watch as he switches from English, Arabic, Russian, and German. That's when it was over.