Yeah, it was the simple life that I liked. Occasionally we'd go out for coffee, but mostly, like you, card playing, looking through photo albums, washing and straightening my hair together, just chatting, watching TV etc. It was nice at the beginning...but he changed.mine not dirty in body showered twice day clean. clothes hated dirty smelly people he was very clean in everything just a cheat for money he told me I'm simple true man lol I believed him we did live simple when I was there we was happt cook together play cards cuddle watch tv never wanted to go out we overdoing our little shopping together that's why I'm surprised he used this woman for money and then brought me stuff said he got extra from work
I have no idea whose money he used to buy all my gifts with...but I don't think it was his own.
Of course, with my rat, there later came a very dark side.
Were you also the marriage and visa victim?