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Laura2014

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Someone in my family is military and they are requested to not upload uniformed pictures to social media. But when they are at public event there’s no restriction to take pictures, nor to government buildings. I found it weird cause have never seen that advertise to other countries. For example Morocco, they do not advertise it.
I travelled a lot in Eastern Europe. If you were caught taking a photo there you should say goodbye to your friends and family for an indefinite period and there were warnings everywhere.
 
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Not weird really it’s the same in most countries. Troops can become target if identities known. Photographing it raises suspicion.
No, I didn't want the troops.....literally just the tanks...I thought my boys would like it, so I pointed at the tanks, pointed at my camera and just said "Yes, no?" ....they said no....which was fine. But the building, I didn't know what it was...I must have been at the back of it....it just looked like a big, fancy home.
I do understand it's security....that's why they carry no ID cards.
Someone in my family is military and they are requested to not upload uniformed pictures to social media.
Funny isn't it, I mean in Tunisia, you can't take a photo of a tank....but police and military post pics in uniform all over social media....we even have one in the gallery.
I have a photo in Hammamet of me posing with two/three coppers outside Hammamet medina....so they were happy to pose for pics in uniform with tourists....but no pics of a tank with no face, no number....it seems a bit odd really :confused:
I can understand the building, as somebody could plan an attack based on knowledge of the layout....but a tank? I don't get it :D
Also.even here in.the uk it states in many goverment buildings no photos too.
I got a bollocking for that at Stansted Airport! :D
There was a plain white door with my name on it....so I posed underneath my name for a pic....oops!
We got told off...had a sign pretty far away from us pointed out that said no pics....and told to delete the pic :eek:
I kept it anyway.....it's just a freakin door with my name on it :rolleyes:
 
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Laura2014

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No, I didn't want the troops.....literally just the tanks...I thought my boys would like it, so I pointed at the tanks, pointed at my camera and just said "Yes, no?" ....they said no....which was fine. But the building, I didn't know what it was...I must have been at the back of it....it just looked like a big, fancy home.
I do understand it's security....that's why they carry no ID cards.

Funny isn't it, I mean in Tunisia, you can't take a photo of a tank....but police and military post pics in uniform all over social media....we even have one in the gallery.
I have a photo in Hammamet of me posing with two/three coppers outside Hammamet medina....so they were happy to pose for pics in uniform with tourists....but no pics of a tank with no face, no number....it seems a bit odd really :confused:
I can understand the building, as somebody could plan an attack based on knowledge of the layout....but a tank? I don't get it :D

I got a bollocking for that at Stansted Airport! :D
There was a plain white door with my name on it....so I posed underneath my name for a pic....oops!
We got told off...had a sign pretty far away from us pointed out that said no pics....and told to delete the pic :eek:
I kept it anyway.....it's just a freakin door with my name on it :rolleyes:
And why would anyone have a door to a room called Mango Chutney? :sneaky:
 
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Judithlyn

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@tutusandfrogs Tiger here. There are many things that is not easy to see and figure out when it comes to how beznes works. And spesial for us who comes from western countries. You must first of all understand the culture in Tunisia. A genuine tunisian man will never start any relation online. That is not a maybe. That is a fact. The guys who start a relation via Internett and even serch for western women this way do it for one reason and one reason only. Visa and benefits. Dont be foold he have not Ask for money. They learn. But i also guess he have not tell you he is ready to pay for your traveling expences and a hoteroom for you? A genuin tunisian man would never ask you to come visit him Like this he show you no respect. And it is a total no go in his culture. You are from US? That is the new target to get the dream come true for them. They have target europe for many years. But they have big problem getting a visa approve here even they are married So the ultimate dream is the green card. When he ask you to come that is the first step on the long goal. Dont fall for it. In reality you have no clue what you get yourself involve in here. If you want yourself in a bad situation and want to get finance problem. Go ahead. But if you have any common sense you end this impossible dream now. You see the world true your western eyes! Forget that! It does not work that way there. You talk about not so big age gap? Yes in our countries. But there it is not accepted. Stop dreaming girl. Wake up! To use the words from a song .... you are on the highway to hell if you are stupid enought to go to Tunisia. It is no fairytale there. Put a higher price on yourself girl. Dont be any mans cash cow

Everything she wrote is the absolute truth! I am also an American living in Japan! You can not imagine the hell I’ve been in after dating/living with a Tunisian man for 3 and 1/2 years. They are the biggest liars and cheaters you will ever meet. They are after goods and visas. Mine never ask outright for cash either but guess who paid all costs for everything? All trips....me to Tunisia once (cause it was too 3rd world for me so I never wanted to go back) and I paid for him to come to Japan 3 times on 90 days tourist visas....3 times! They are so romantic with their words. They are so charming! Their families are in on the scam! It’s called bezness and it’s a way of life in Tunisia for many people! It’s so cruel! Please never go there! You will end up so devastated! Abdelhak stoke my heart, brain, material goods, about $26,000 which he cost me, and he lied and cheated the entire time....called me his soul mate, begged me to marry him, the family treated me like a queen, I stayed in their house, everything was a lie! He brainwashed me! He controlled me 24/7! Trying to find me again has been absolute hell! Learn from my mistakes. If I could go back to 2014, I would never have talked to Abdelhak! Please run from this man you are talking to! They also have many Facebook profiles under fake names and fake pics! They all say the same crap, the old rats handbook. They share in coffee shops what works, and what words women like to hear. They make fun of us behind our backs. They are truly evil, vicious vermin! Western people can not even contemplate another human sinking this low. Keep reading on here! Bezness! It’s shocking!
 
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Judithlyn

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They sure do :thumbsup:

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Be sure to wear an Abaya and hijab for sunbathing and swimming....unless you wish to be judged a Western woman of loose morals.

And for God's sake....don't dare walk a street or two away from the plastic tourist streets.....real life awaits:

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Isn't it divine!! That's the stuff they don't show in tourist brochures, nor on ratty FB accounts.

Please do read the first three posts of this thread....so you are not fooled as I was:

https://www.tunisianloverats.com/threads/visa-hunting-tunisian-love-rats.4534/

Oh....my rat claimed he was not religious....he gifted me a family copy of the Qu'ran shortly before I left him :thumbsup:
Spot on!!! I felt like I was walking through a garbage dump most of the time.....even on that “lovely resort” Djerba....what a dump!
 
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It’s nice to be “home”! Thanks! :)
Im glad you're back too. You really open my eyes to a lot Judith. You were the first one to help me with my rat, then the other ladies. Now I feel empowered and ready to shut bezness down.

Please know, evil never wins. Somebody pays for that, and it sure isnt the good guys ;)
 
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Judithlyn

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Im glad you're back too. You really open my eyes to a lot Judith. You were the first one to help me with my rat, then the other ladies. Now I feel empowered and ready to shut bezness down.

Please know, evil never wins. Somebody pays for that, and it sure isnt the good guys ;)
Thank you! I do agree.....evil never wins! They think they are the winners everytime new Nikes arrive, a wire transfer arrives, an all expense paid vacation to some resort in Hammamet, Djerba, or Sousse comes their way, but they always blow the money instantly, the shoes wear out, and when the trip is over....it’s back to 3rd world poverty again and a boring life hanging in coffee shops, fishing for their next victims.....always plural...they keep many online just to see who will take the bait! Horrible, vicious, evil, cruel bunch of people! We just have to keep speaking up and speaking out on the huge accepted crime of bezness in Tunisia! Continued best wishes to you in your recovery! They are real masters at mind control, brainwashing, lying nonstop and cheating nonstop! In their pea sized brains, they think all western women are just sex starved loose, immoral women! They truly see it as a business transaction....their lousy sex in exchange for cash, goods, and hopefully a visa. Monsters!
 
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Judithlyn

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There is huge signs outside of all goverment buildings in tunisia that states no photos is allowed.
Also.even here in.the uk it states in many goverment buildings no photos too.

Im obviously not military etc but i wouldnt just want random people taking my picture without permission
There’s a building in Tunis, like the USA CIA, which Abdelhak told me they shot a woman for taking a pic of that building. He said security people from that building came out, grabbed her body, and that was the end of her. Now I can’t prove that story, but apparently it happened in 2014.
 
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I'm going to repost his photo and go with my gut.
Good for you. That was the hardest thing for me, going with my gut instincts. The guilt was wearing me out. I had to pray, I had to realize that in my years, my instincts have never failed me. Our body has a natural radar and it knows when something is wrong. And no matter how much you attempt to suppress it, that instinct will reject anything that has invaded your space and is toxic to your life.

Keep listening to it. Take care of yourself.
 
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Judithlyn

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Good for you. That was the hardest thing for me, going with my gut instincts. The guilt was wearing me out. I had to pray, I had to realize that in my years, my instincts have never failed me. Our body has a natural radar and it knows when something is wrong. And no matter how much you attempt to suppress it, that instinct will reject anything that has invaded your space and is toxic to your life.

Keep listening to it. Take care of yourself.
Spot on....fabulous advice!!!
 
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We started chatting on Facebook after being friends for some time...a year? It recently started turning more romantically charged. I'm older, but by less than 10 years I will say. I am in my 30s, not looking for love. I live in North America. He works for Leoni, a wire manufacturer for European car companies. He says hes content with life. Never asked me for money, or to move etc. We talk about all kinds of things but none of the typical stuff I've seen posted. I don't want to say anything bad about him because I don't know him. I found this site when I was curious of flight costs. I'm not struggling financially, quite the opposite but he doesn't know my financial business. I'm not deluded, but was shocked to find this as a business. I would still take a trip down there but because the beaches look lush. :)
Im tunisian but im not rat for sure ahahha he seems so good but u can test him tho
 
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Hi @Pablo 088 ,,,Can you explain the difference between a rat and a Tunisian who is not a rat ,Id like to hear your views on this ,,,
Hahaha well for me a rat who ask the to send him money even if she is his girlfriend or something more or when they both go out like the lady pays for everything because he should be the men and he should be classic and pays also a rat is the suspecious one ( there is no smoke without fire) and he don't find the time to text you always because he i probably busy with meeting or talking to other girls the rat is the one who don't give attention to his women and don't addicate his time for her and for her will the normal tunisian will do the opposite ofc and the rat is the one who want to get married and have kids as soon as possible even if he don't know his girlfriend for an enough period that means he just want to go from tunisia and have papers ( or he is old and he want to get married as soon as possible) and yes the rat is the one who talks with 100 women despite he have a girlfriend or wife and the rat is the one who ask for clothes or money or phones because for me a real men should have his digitnity
 
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