So sorry for the pain you went through., Anna2you. I, for the life of me, can’t understand where these men got the idea that they are entitled to other people’s money and the nerve they have to blame the women who loved them for not “giving them enough” and for “being cheap”. Especially when they come from a culture where it’s the men who are expected to provide. He caused you a lot of sorrow and anger I’m sure, but at least he’s out of your life now and you can enjoy a rat-free life. He, on the other end, will never be happy and will live a miserable life. I really believe that such evil creatures can’t be happy because they don’t appreciate anything good in life.My rat did the same thing ...it started with the internet ..playing soo poor ...he said "f..this relationship if i dont send money for the internet" then it became other things as well ...like doctor etc...but one time i could not pay for the doctor and he holds it against me till this day. In a mean time his mother has nice jewelery and i sold mine near the end to go there because it was all draining me financially...but now he said that i did not send much and that i am cheap. I would not hesitate to sell my jewelery if my son was sick. dont expect any gratitute pussycatz and it hurts ..that part is the worse for me him denying that i did anything for him at all and constant saying that i am soo cheap. In a meantime his family did not even give us any wedding present. Oh i think one of his uncles gave some money but of course i would not see any of it...not that i needed it. Yet his brothers wedding was the real thing i guess...i am sure that my ex sister in law did not have to give his brother any money during their courtship. I think it was all a joke for them. Nothing was worth it from what i see now.