Yes and keep your avenues open and the trust there.
If you bombard her with 'he is a rat' she will start to shut you out - your best game is, after you sow the seeds of doubt, sit tight and be her friend. The more you doubt her relationship then the more food you feed the rat.
I haven’t really said it to her myself it’s more her family that is.
don’t think she sees them as looking out for her she sees it as they just don’t want her to be happy.
He will do his best to alienate you - it's what they do - keep your line of friendship open so she still feels easy enough to talk to you.
He’s done well so far, thank you I will. To be honest she will need us there no matter what we say.
I know it's hard as we all know he's a rat but she is going to need you but the more you let him the more he will turn her against you - don't let him do that. If necessary grit your teeth, smile and nod when she speaks of him.
very true. I will not Let that happen. My teeth a grit and my smile we be growing from ear to ear.
If you do this she is more likely to listen and given the right moment suggest she reads up on their culture either on here or
www.bezness.net or
www.tunisian-love.com
I don’t know if she already has yet she’s due to get married in January which is pretty quick so she’s done some research on the marriage side of things.
MH x