Hi fellow citizenIm not in on any scam, thank you very much. and also: i do have contact with the english girl. And i'd like to say that none of this is her fault either. What's more is : we are separated, to get divorced: Because I want to. Not because of any other reasons you may speak of here. my family is not a subject, neither is my son. Or money. Because he never scammed me for money. he even payed for his own tickets back and forth from tunisia. And thats not by scamming, but working: I know this because i saw it with my own eyes. And he was visiting norway, because I wanted to give birth in comfortable surroundings, with the best health care that we could possibly have, as i had complications.
I am not trying to defend his actions in any way, but straightening out your facts here, only.
What he is doing now, in his love or work life, i dont have anything to do with it.
I have not noticed you before, but if you would like to pm me in Norwegian you can, obviously my story is different than yours. But my x husband did not " like" Norway very much either and reading how he talks about you in T, it could have been the same rat. But as you have decided to not classify him as a rat, still with the info of Laurence, surprises me!
Ofcourse you don't want your child to have a rat father so it's natural to protect him, but why did he not like Norway ? Did it take to long to get the Norwegian classes, the job permit or was it the cold weather?
With the info I have on T men and supplemented by Laurence here ( living there) I know with very much security either other women payed his tickets or he was working with drugs/illegal activities that payed his way.
I personally find it hard to figure out
What your personal motives is for deciding he is not rat, when absolutely all evidence is there that he is,
- if you want speak to me in Norwegian.
Hope you and your son are ok!