- Aug 29, 2019
Don't feel ashamed for it. I have been a state prosecutor and now attorney at law. Specialist for fraud cases. And here l am. As a victim.I’m that woman. Still ashamed. I have never in my life had to share so many personal details of my life because of a rat. Before my rats, I was living life, minding my business. You can’t even google my name and find anything about me. My life was private and I made good decisions in my life. The sad part, I went to school for Criminal Law, Education and Social Work. This is the most embarrassing thing of it all. I’m trained to pick up on these scams. To make matters worse, I work for the government and live on a military base. I’ve seen women marry men for their money as scam them for visa. In Alaska, we had a lot of women marrying soldiers to get to USA and then leaving them. I’ve seen it, I’ve witnessed it. Yet, I was bamboozled by a rat. I think I was so focused on women doing it, I didn’t even consider a man scamming. I didn’t watch 90 Day Fiancé until i got on TLR. There is not enough press about men scamming. You always hear about the mail order brides and the Nigerian prince, but you never hear about North African men being rats.
I’ve had to change my email, my phone, block people. And now I look at friends on my social media accounts and are scared they may be my rat. My trust is literally running on empty. Before my rat, I was in the gym constantly (I gained 12lbs with him from stress)....all was going well in my life. They wreak havoc everywhere they go.
But then i read stories like this...my story is nothing compared to those poor babies that will grow up and find out they were unwanted by a rat. This man is truly the devil. He has surpassed the rat stage. He is evil. These children nor these women deserve that. He should’ve wrapped it up. I hope he doesn’t use those kids as a pawn and try to use his parental rights to a visa.