Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
‘Groundhog Day’....Well said, Laura2014....As far as the Rat is concerned where there is talk, even if it’s just berating then there is hope. He may have done the most despicable things but give him the opportunity and he will greet you like a long long friend who is confused as to why you won’t speak to him. Truly, it’s best not to engage at all. It will be like Groundhog Day and it just prevents you moving on.
Not seen this before...it's greatuseful to understand and overcome an abusive relationship with a Rat | pshycopath | Narcissist NOTHING WAS REAL, illusions. Sand Castles. ( thanks Heidi for sharing on other Thread, needed to find it quicker)
Oh man !!!! One has to be quite wealthy to afford an exotic bezness hubby these days . The wish list is impressiveForgot to mention the plan after marriage was by his request to open a small busssines, a coffee shop and bakery, plus buying a car and renting a home. Yes, guess who was supposed to pay for all that....
Now, now...remember...we are all millionaires!Oh man !!!! One has to be quite wealthy to afford an exotic bezness hubby these days . The wish list is impressive
Not quite the description I'd use....more like thick, braindead, uneducated, delusional twatsThey are so cute!
And I can understand why! I mean seriously, what woman could resist such charm, such subtlety, such words of romance:He used to brag about women from many nationalities were there waiting to marry him.
I feel exactly like you! I’m truly exhausted and finally (the 100th time maybe)...told him very nicely that we are FOREVER finished and I wish him the best. He wrote me back a very kind letter thanking me for loving him and for everything I’ve done for him. That was the last I heard from him! I did write one letter back explaining the facts of what HE had done which brought me to this final point! He never replied! He was using a friend’s phone whom I do not know. He broke his phone in a big physical fight with a neighbor. Before then, he used his mother’s pad. I’m still quite nervous. I’ve read a lot of threads on here talking about how they keep trying to stay in contact with their victims. I’m so much stronger now! It took me many many months to get to this point though! He really had me in a mess physically, emotionally, and mentally! It was horrible! Please keep me strong ladies! Thank you for all of your advice over this past year. Much appreciated!!!I’m not being nice I’m tired, exhausted of all this going on and at points about to break my nerves. This experience was life changing for the worse, lack of sleep, worried, skipping normal tasks, overthinking. Besides was trying to make a small text cause it could be a magazine. This took a year to reach this point. THEY ARE PATIENT
Freakin fruitcakes....the whole bloody lot of them!It’s wonderful that all that bipolar mess now sounds hilarious, time when it used to cause pain is gone <3
Mine has that same horsey grin.....and he frequently bit me! Be grateful yours didn't resort to that...it's feckin agony, especially when one tooth is broken!his smile is like that, his gums show up and the sense of he could bite is imminent.
I sadly read that too! It broke my heart! I was nearly at her level of despair too! In my family, suicide is the main cause of death! I’ve been aware of it since I was 18 yrs old! That is probably the only reason I never took that path, even though I thought about it a few months ago! I’ve been determined to not follow in my DNA’s footsteps! That is all that saved me! I kept fighting the urge over and over and over! I kept saying to myself that loser Abdelhak will not win!!! I’m still bitter and very angry and very hurt, but I think the love is gone....finally! He really messed up my head! Truly, I really think he is the loser! He’s really so destitute poor! Karma seems to be getting him!Indeed he is trying to show you a sweetened face, “oh thank you””oh you have been the best””I made a mistake, hadn’t the intention” all those words were told by my rat too. Never believe him Judy. They say whatever they have to say to keep you attached. If they had true feelings since the beginning they would never dare to do all the horrendous and despicable things they did. A healthy and common sensed person wouldn’t. These guys are like toddler minded yet they manage to manipulate. There’s no need to keep feeling confused or to keep awake all night overthinking where did we fail? We failed giving them chances. But we can correct and stay away from their poison. I am happy and proud to say I can sleep all night again in peace, wich great achievement after months of not being able to. Keep strong and ignore him. Decide better and choose better. Yesterday I read a very sad thread of a young woman (43) three kids, and she couldn’t handle the huge pain of being used and abused. That pain was unbearable.... we can’t let these rats end up with us that way. Not fair. Not only destroy inner peace and health, they indeed can make their victim get so depressed and confuse to lead her to death. Not fair.
Haha, I feel as though I was being scent marked now! You know...like when a dog pisses up a street light to mark his territorySomewhere I read that men or women who do that are passive aggressive, their intention is to make feel the partner like a belonging and wanting others to look at the marks in order to avoid someone else’s interest. So you are right: like animals. A dog protecting his treat. Suckers.
Haha...I like that! Actually he is 2 seasons ago coats! I found out about his other victim being a current victim last October....nearly 1 year now! She passed away on May 28, 2017 while that animal was still living with me! He felt nothing, no sadness, and told me, “She’s nothing to me and nothing to us so why do I care if she’s dead?” I swear...that monster said those words! I felt weird cause I felt bad and sad! I only knew of her as his ex at that time but I was sad! He felt nothing! Shows what a cruel psychopath he really is!!! Actually, another red flag which I ignored! I do remember thinking, “ if something happens to me, will he say those same cruel words?” He’s truly heartless!Big hug Judy. You worth lot more. Make him a last season coat and that’s all.