Course, the most important how THEY feel!!! How YOU feel, it's not important for them at all!
They can use you, abuse you (mentally and physically) they won't appologize. It's natural for them that you feel bad, they don't feel any remorse, they don't have conscience. And even if they make you feel bad, and humiliate you, THEIR "pain" are much more huge of course, and much more hurtful for them. Their pain. Their pain, which is: life is hard here in Europe, they don't earn the imagined amount or don't find any job, they can't save thousands of Eur per monthes..... They are sooooooo stressed, and tired. They won't care at all about your pain. Do not mention for them at all, they won't care. It doesn't matter for them. That's why they are sociopaths.
Exactly right, mine never gave a brown substance about my feelings, if I was going through hard times, stress, worrying about money etc, he response was everyone goes through bad times, thanks for you support, so wonderful to have such a loving supportive partner, said me never