Some woman deserve what they get...
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Major Ratslayer
Thats bad news ... You tried your best ,But we are no match to a rats manipulation xxx
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
Yes [email protected] , its sad if she is blind to the signs her Silverback Gorilla lookalike is a visa hunting t**t who has been scurrying about to get his documents sorted ASAP.
Do not agree because there may be different reasons why women choose these men. They are good at talking and many of them have years of experience in what they do with "us". If you are in a bad situation then it is easy to be exploited because confidence is down and you feel lonely. No one wants to be alone and many are happy when they get extra attention. I don't think the problems start right away. The boys know how to proceed. Don't think they show their true self until it's been a while. Their friends and family support them especially if the woman is older than him because then there is often talk of money. The older she is the more worthy she is. They play their game in a sneaky way. Sometimes you can take them but not always think they also choose their offerings
Glad we're not in her footsteps.grits
Not good . She wants support, I think. Is she the one who has to pay for the whole wedding?
I agree that they are experts at picking vulnerable women - I am not saying that everyone is vulnerable nor that its only vulnerable women they choose. I was not long out of an abusive relationship so welcomed the attention, the fake love and the fake words.
Only when you start recovering can you start understanding and then kick the rat to the kerb.
Ladies you are all worth so much more but you need to realise it yourself - remember you are worth more and once you realise it the less these rats can affect you.
MH x
Yes. They look at us like a job. Income source disgusting. Why work in a hotel when they make better money on scams
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
I definitely agree
Yes it is not easy but your girlfriend makes a big dent and she will understand it but after a while. Let's hope she doesn't lose too much money. She's going to marry this guy. Marriage is one thing but what about future plans? Visa etc.
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
I know of him, they married last year!Who is he? She's in the Amiga stage, Nali....we were all there once, but some of us accept that 'Our Mohammed' is not different a bit quicker. At least this victim knows about TLR when the brown substance hits the fan. I really do understand your frustration though
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
I dont recognise anyone else in the gallery ( I dont think ) but he is VILE really
I feel like I'm in the amiga stage with someone. Rationally, I know he's no good and I need to stay the hell away from him. Emotionally, I can't help finding him sympathetic and wanting to help him. I try to read as many stories on here as possible so hopefully my feelings will catch up with my brain but it's difficult and tiring and I desperately want to believe he's changed
Liona
Major Ratslayer
Hi @JD33.I feel like I'm in the amiga stage with someone. Rationally, I know he's no good and I need to stay the hell away from him. Emotionally, I can't help finding him sympathetic and wanting to help him. I try to read as many stories on here as possible so hopefully my feelings will catch up with my brain but it's difficult and tiring and I desperately want to believe he's changed
You are not the first, you are not the last.
At least don't jump into something serious like marriage with him.
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
@JD33 if you know he's no good then he must have given you that feeling via his actions...does it smell like a rat?I feel like I'm in the amiga stage with someone. Rationally, I know he's no good and I need to stay the hell away from him. Emotionally, I can't help finding him sympathetic and wanting to help him. I try to read as many stories on here as possible so hopefully my feelings will catch up with my brain but it's difficult and tiring and I desperately want to believe he's changed
If you know he is not good then he probably will not change for the better. You probably have to do like the rest of us. Realize the facts and go. Yes it is hard but it is the best for you. What kind of signals have you seen since you know he's bad? Recommend that you listen to your inner voice it always suits.I feel like I'm in the amiga stage with someone. Rationally, I know he's no good and I need to stay the hell away from him. Emotionally, I can't help finding him sympathetic and wanting to help him. I try to read as many stories on here as possible so hopefully my feelings will catch up with my brain but it's difficult and tiring and I desperately want to believe he's changed
Tigerpants
Major Ratslayer
I try to look at my personal romantic relationships like this. Would you have a girlfriend whos morals, actions, neediness, sponging, lifestyle you didnt endorse? Well why drop your standards for a man ?
It was just a gut feeling. Something about him never really felt right but I didn't understand why. I recently decided to google him, not expecting anything. One of the first search results with his name happened to be this site. Suddenly it all made sense.
If his name has come up on this page then you really have reason to be worried
I don’t think any woman wants that. Remember! These men are expert liars and manipulators. Also they know how to make you feel so loved and adored . And they know how to do it every second until you are so deeply in love. That it is so hard to get out, I stayed so long that now I look back and ask myself what the hell was wrong with me. So happy I found this site and woke up, So I would never accuse these women of wanting that,