Some woman deserve what they get...
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Ratslayer
Thats bad news ... You tried your best ,But we are no match to a rats manipulation xxx
Tigerpants
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Yes [email protected] , its sad if she is blind to the signs her Silverback Gorilla lookalike is a visa hunting t**t who has been scurrying about to get his documents sorted ASAP.
Do not agree because there may be different reasons why women choose these men. They are good at talking and many of them have years of experience in what they do with "us". If you are in a bad situation then it is easy to be exploited because confidence is down and you feel lonely. No one wants to be alone and many are happy when they get extra attention. I don't think the problems start right away. The boys know how to proceed. Don't think they show their true self until it's been a while. Their friends and family support them especially if the woman is older than him because then there is often talk of money. The older she is the more worthy she is. They play their game in a sneaky way. Sometimes you can take them but not always think they also choose their offerings
Glad we're not in her footsteps.grits
Not good . She wants support, I think. Is she the one who has to pay for the whole wedding?
I agree that they are experts at picking vulnerable women - I am not saying that everyone is vulnerable nor that its only vulnerable women they choose. I was not long out of an abusive relationship so welcomed the attention, the fake love and the fake words.
Only when you start recovering can you start understanding and then kick the rat to the kerb.
Ladies you are all worth so much more but you need to realise it yourself - remember you are worth more and once you realise it the less these rats can affect you.
MH x
Yes. They look at us like a job. Income source disgusting. Why work in a hotel when they make better money on scams
Tigerpants
Member
I definitely agree
Yes it is not easy but your girlfriend makes a big dent and she will understand it but after a while. Let's hope she doesn't lose too much money. She's going to marry this guy. Marriage is one thing but what about future plans? Visa etc.