Sorry for beeing a coward ladies

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  1. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Depends on what the condition is. Somebody with depression, severe anxiety, PTSD etc will harm themselves, not others....look for a way out.
    A narcissist, sociopath, psychopath etc will hurt others, they thrive on hurting others to make themselves feel better....as they have no conscience, no empathy, no nothing.....but each one of the conditions mentioned are mental health.....it just depends on which category you fall into :)

    My rats morbid obsession with my arm cutting was downright weird, but because of his issues, he thrived on seeing what he could reduce me to....it made him feel powerful, he knew his influence on me was strong....he had control. Well, not anymore :thumbsup:
    Somebody with depression etc would still have tried to stop me, but a sadist with his conditions thrived on it.
    They’re all nutters....no normal person could destroy an innocent as they do......their conscience would not allow it.
     
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    Tunisia has a strange relationship with cutting and I wonder if something about the place influences that reaction because it’s just so bad and the people are so terrible.
     
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  3. Jisela

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    I should say that not everyone is terrible in Tunisia... you will find and experience random kindnesses, but the harsh things they do to each other overall, rats and all, is what I’m talking about... want to keep that clear. The society runs dry of empathy and compassion.
     
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  4. Epiphany

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    It's the inbreeding
     
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    Yeah, that’s one big reason to keep the topic short. It would take months to lay it all out.
     
  6. Lexi

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    Ur so right, have other friends In Tunisia... Who is so kind and gentle ❤️
     
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    Most Tunisians are terrible, kind and gentle people are the exception, i know what i'm talking about.
     
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    Hehe I love your honesty. I would get in a lot of trouble saying that most Tunisians are terrible. :eek: Although I suspect there are good, nice Tunisians, you know your people, so I won’t argue with that.
     
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  9. Jisela

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    Sorry what happened to you, Lexi. But, you have to build your reality inside the bigger picture — not just with a couple good friends.

    The world is a dangerous place, and Tunisia is filled with broken people, angry people, violence, and predators.

    I hope you get better soon.
     
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  10. Lexi

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    Thanks but my friends is really nice people a family with 5 children who lived in Sweden for 19 years.. They speak fluid Swedish and have known them for years.. Stayed with them a lot of times.
     
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  11. Lexi

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    And this summer I will be staying with them.. Instead of Hammamet
     
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    I’m not here to stop you :)
     
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  13. Jisela

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    But, I am here if you want to explain why you want to stay in Tunisia after such a bad experience there? Do you not have family elsewhere?
     
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  14. Lexi

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    I have family in Sweden... But still love the country Tunisia... And want to see my friends. I never meet Dali in person... And I never will... Can promise that.. I'm so done with him and the rest of his.. Rat pack' but they can't stop me to going there.. If I didn't he/they win.. Will go with my walls up high an just enjoy the things I love
     
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    Lexi, how can you trust yourself when this man has hurt you so many times???
     
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    You have friends there, and do what you want, but... that is very close to him.
     
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    He is violent, too... aren’t you afraid he will get jealous and hurt you because of that?
     
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    Well he may well read here or some of his mates do, so I’d give few details here about your return intentions.
     
  19. Mango Chutney

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    No, they lose, Tunisia loses.

    Tunisia is all about money, it's the only language that is understood there.....so the only way to ever get those in charge to accept that actually, bezness is a big problem that is tarnishing their image.....is to hit the buggers in the pocket......I only wish more victims could see this.


    I will never understand why any bezness victim returns to the country that turns a blind eye to this cruel and destructive scam......and puts more cash into their economy.
    Each to their own, I guess, but to me.....it seems like a betrayal to other victims......and other countries have so much more to offer, especially in terms of safety and beauty.

    Laura is right, these rats read here, they tip each other off.....so don't ever write your plans on the public forum....because word WILL get back to him.
     
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    I'm not afraid... Of him.. Or others. Just not want them to win... I had one... Bad experience... And by the love of God... My safety walls is so up.... But as I said.. Love the country... And really care of my friends.. They make me strong and.. Really feel so sad that this worms can destroy so much for Tunisia..
     
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  22. Lexi

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    I know u all had more heartbreaking experience then me and really feel so sad for all of us... Now I feel that I'm free again... Really... Still hate myself for beeing so blind . And really thanks for all support from u... ❤️ Will enjoy my summer with true friends in a beautyful country
     
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    As a tunisian i wish i had your enthusiasm... but no i will never step a foot there again ;)
     
  24. Judithlyn

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    I think ALL rats have mental illness! I truly believe that they all are narcissistic psychopaths! You NEVER ever know what they are thinking. They lie, conceal, and are so patient to achieve whatever they are after....a visa, your assets, anything! They see a woman as owned by them. They see our personal assets as owned by them. They see us as possessions which they can use in anyway they want! They are such nasty vile pigs, as well as disease-ridden, nasty rats! I saw things which have come back to haunt me. I don’t have proof so I can’t say, but I sure have strong suspicions about a lot of bad things. These cowards need to be castrated and imprisoned for life!
     
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    Me too!!!!:thumbsup:
     
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