Will try to make this short - met Tunisian man online and after talking with him and becoming friends I visited him. I was ill at the time and certainly not looking for relationship at time. I spent lot of time in hospital after 14 hours of surgery and time in icu. He was really lovely and caring at time but after I left hospital and visited him he started to have real problems with me if I wasn't able to Skype/call etc when he wanted despite the fact that it was only when I was too sick to answer phone. Asked for money constantly and because I honestly thought he was having problems I did best to help him despite not having a lot due to being unable to work at this time. As I started to recover I told him he needed to take care of himself and I would not send any money as found out he had basically stopped going to work because was easier to take my money. I finally ended it last week as was nothing but stress. Woke up this morning to around 50 messages on different apps, viber, Skype, text, Facebook etc going from "I love you, let's talk", " I bought you a ring because I love you" to "ha ha, I hope you die, enjoy your life without an asshole" ( due to illness I just had an operation to remove my digestive system- everything from small bowel down and now have ileostomy). He sent at least 10 messages specifically mentioning how he could have any woman who was healthy and had an asshole" ! Please excuse my language, I just want to understand the way he wrote these messages to me. Personally it's a little worrying how he seems that obssessed with this certain part of the body ! I'm more than happy to name him and show photo if think it will help anyone else avoid this kind of person. I'm still a little shocked at how quickly he went from a really nice person to the person he showed himself to be today !