THank you TLR...

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  1. see clearly

    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    I always thought linked in was a business boring network site must have been well funny to come across a naked man inviting them to Tunisia. I know it's business site not beznezz site
     
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    Liona Well-Known Member

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    So did I till these days.
     
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  3. see clearly

    see clearly Well-Known Member

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    Lol
     
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  4. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Moderator

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    I thought Linkedin was a business website too until I read this site....and discovered Houssem had an account...but no business :D:D
     
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    Bloody hell they could turn the bible into some bezness book :Evil: they use ANYTHING for gain
     
  6. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Sorry but not sorry, we have the right to tell how those scammers treated us to warn other victims so they can identify red flags. If a man is honest he wont throw all those rants and violence, he wont ask to be sponsored out of his misery. Sorry if she dumped you must be because you did something wrong.
     
  7. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Lol this is why she dumped you!! You are the same passive agressive, not accepti g responsibility and looking for excuses. For sure she was a foreigner....
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    :D :D perfect advice for RATS xx
     
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  9. Heidi

    Heidi The Sleuth - Staff Member

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    Aw, Hannibal the RAT :D

    he was love bombing me and other members here in pm

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  10. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Moderator

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    He was yet another one given to being super helpful at times and then as quick as a flash launch into unfathomable rants. He was obsessed with the unattainable @Heidi :love:
     
  11. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Moderator

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    Funny how quick we forget these rodents :D
    His obsession with a certain grey cat ;) was obscene....and he wasn't just harassing members here, he was giving me the third degree about said cat in my Messenger that he tracked down.
    Damn pervert, I say.....damn pervert!! :D
    Fantasizing to that extreme over a CAT!! :eek:
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth - Staff Member

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  13. Mango Chutney

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    I think he was into S&M and wanted to be dominated by said Grey cat. I think said Grey cat might have neutered him without anaesthesia.
     
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    I'm not touching any rat balls 46r4pss2.gif
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    I don't know why i'm here today looking through old posts I think maybe it's because I can and nothing about my rat hurts or upsets me anymore. I felt the need to agree with this comment. TLR SAVED ME TOO!!!, I don't know how far down I would have plunged if it wasn't for the support on here and in particular Mango ( I remember once asking her something like how do you get over this). I couldn't tell the outside world what had happened they wouldn't understand and would have thought I was crazy to have stayed with my rat. Also at that time I was embarassed to tell anyone I'd been so weak. However I've lived to tell the tale and I'm stronger than ever, TLR really is a great set of ladies. I now look at women I knew who are in relationships with rats and I can see what the outcome is going to be, the young girl who has been with her man for 5 years and still no date set for the wedding and not a dinar saved. Although he very kindly accepts living in the apartment that she pays for so they have somewhere to live when she's over there. Working 60 hours plus a week in the UK so that she can go every 6 weeks or so and spend around a month there being treated like crap and paying for most things. I can't say anything because she's cocooned in the family and her infatuation but I can see all the signs and I just have to be here if she should need me. She knows all about TLR even reads the posts yet she doesn't see how it relates to her own situation. All we can do is continue wiping those tears and picking each other back up xxxx
     
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    Hopefully if she reads here she may see this post and have a lightbulb moment.
     
  21. Mango Chutney

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    Good to hear from you :love:
    To know how much stronger you are feeling now is so encouraging :)

    The young girl with a rat will learn in her own time....if she has tolerated his crap for five years and still can’t see it, even after reading here, then there is nothing we can do for her....not until she sees the light herself and asks for help :)
     
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    I agree with every word. They saved my life. My first rat was easy to spot after I had read about it here. It was easy to just let him go. It was the second rat that I was well on my way to being his wife. I still can’t believe he turned out to be a rat. But he did. He came off as an amazing man. It wasn’t until I called him out on a post he wrote, then I messaged the ladies and everything came out. If I didn’t message these women, I would be preparing for a wedding. That means by August I would’ve been married to a Tunisian Rat. He wanted to follow me to my country afterwards because I work for the government and it would be been easier for me to stay in the county while he looked for work here. Thinking back on it now, I would probably be somewhere depressed and stressed out about my marriage. He would’ve left me, married a Tunisian virgin or his cousin and brought her to my country. I am truly grateful for this forum. At first I didn’t believe he was a rat, but after comparing stories that he sent to them and me, it was obvious. He didn’t admit that he applied for a visa until the very end. He had applied 3x at that point. The sad part about it, he didn’t care that he lied. He convinced himself that he wasn’t lying to me, just didn’t want to relive that part of his life. He wanted to forget about it. That was his way to justify why he didn’t tell me after I asked more than once. I don’t know what he is up to now, but I’m sure he is talking to another victim. I hope she reads here and I’ll be ready to provide her with all the proof she needs.

    Now I am with the most amazing man. He is in the US Army, from my country and he is a good man. I would’ve missed out on him if I stayed with my rat.
     
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    We women are different and good is it. Some believe that it is important to tolerate each other and accept that one is different. I 100% agree with you that you should not accept all the shit from a man and I support divorces and breakdowns because in bad conditions you only ruin yourself. It's not good to be a nice girl
     
  24. Mango Chutney

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    God, imagine missing out on a real man for a rat.....crazy, eh! :eek:
     
  25. Amira

    Amira Well-Known Member

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    She loves him and it is difficult to realize the facts understand it but they look at us western women as toys we are good enough when it comes to money and other things. Their culture is based on marrying a girl from their country because of their traditions and customs. These boys don't care if they get a child outside of marriage as long as the woman is not from his country. The cruel fact is that they use us:(
    The worst thing is that they get support from their own. The best thing is to stay far away from them as long as we do not understand either language or culture, then we are an easy prey:mad:
     

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