Yes I learnt well, it made my decision the second time round easy. I trusted the second time round but my mind was on alert. Tested the Moroccan guy I was going to marry, he failed big time. He talked bad behind my back telling other women I am jealous and he was a victim. He just did not like the fact I caught him out with another woman( victim) had no idea of me and she gave me proof and thanks to my freinds who helped me investigate before I went further saved me a headache and a mistake. Better stick to your gut feelings, it never lies.