The Legendary Tunisian Sulk

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  1. Laura2014

    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    You will read a lot here in different posts about how the Tunisian Love Rat sulks. I thought it deserved its own thread.

    Sulking or feeling offended is endemic. I’ve never known anyone to sulk like a Tunisian man. It’s the height of hipocracy, they can make all kinds of unreasonable demands and exhibit atricious behaviour but call them out on it and they go into an incredible SULK. Sulking presents itself in many ways. If it’s on line then it’s often the silent treatment, refusing to answer messages or calls. Face to face it’s a bombardment of abuse. Supposedly hurt feelings, refusing to speak or ignoring the most simple request or conversation. It’s the kind of behaviour that we expect of 4 year olds or teenage boys in puberty. They can sulk for any reason. Food they don’t like, clothes not clean, lack of WiFi, they act as though the world is against them. They are victims of some terrible injustice. They gossip, they are the kings of gossip, bad mouthing their family, neighbours, friends, employers, but if they hear something about themselves it’s catestrophic! The most simple problem turns into a mammoth sulk. In our often naive but consiliatory ways we try to bring them round, smooth troubled waters just for an easier life. Their mothers cosset and spoil them and eventually everything is ok until the next sulk. I think it comes from a feeling that they are entitled and that they should have an easy life in return for fulfilling their role as head of the family, that everyone should be grateful. I’ve never met anyone else who could sulk so professionally.
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Ha, the legendary sulking! Brilliant.....and certainly worthy of its own thread! :D
    Spoilt freakin, self centred mummies boys :rolleyes:
    I used to get the silent treatment....whilst living with him!! Never felt so damn uncomfortable in my life...it's kinda funny, but actually, it's cruel, horrible and controlling. They really are like stroppy, little pre schoolers throwing a paddy :rolleyes:
     
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    Believe that the Tunisian / Arabic culture is a bit similar to the Italian / Spanish culture mom boys. Their mothers before them get spoiled and when they find girlfriends / wives, these boys expect their wives to do as their mother does. Make their food wash clothes etc because it's a female job and not a man's job and when we are in from north europe we find men in from these countries then crash it with our culture. But I do not think neither Italian / Spanish men ask for money. What I mean is that they are close to the Arab culture in something not all. Men is men and women is women
     
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    Tunisa is a man's dominated country where men have too much power. They live about 150 years back in time. There women must be obedient and not contradict the man. If she is not a good housewife then she will be looked down on. Many of these boys come from a home where their mothers are at home. They are used to getting everything in their hands and demanding it even in adulthood, and if you say it to you, it's your mistake and not themThey are not wrong
     
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    It is a difficult culture
     
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    In terms of emotional maturity they are at least 15 years behind a woman of a similar age. They are full of histrionics.
     
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    Frankly, dear, I'm a grown up and like to be treated like one - no games for me :)
     
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    tf is sulking tho
     
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    sulking
    walking around or laying around being all depressed and with no energy to do anything because you're so pissed and depressed that it's as though you're dying but not quite yet :D
     
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    Boy; I want what I want when I want it.
    Mother; you’ll get what you get when you get it.
    Boy; kicks chair, stamps feet, bangs the door, shouts, cries and when he still does not get what he wants he SULKS, refuses to speak, and thinks the world is his enemy.
     
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    At least when they are not talking it’s quiet.
     
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    Pfffft, I don't believe a word of it!! Mummy does everything bar clean their ass! She spends all day slaving over a hot stove, preparing a huge meal for the family men, she's scrubbing floors, doing laundry, ironing.....while these rats sit on their lazy, good for nothing asses in coffee shops!

    Those mummies treat these ratty pieces of trash like royalty...princes with a penis! They get up all hours of the day and night to wait hand service on these useless creatures!

    I used to go apeshit at my rat for the way he treated his mother like a slave, but it's normal over there....it's just hard for us civilised, progressed, strong, independent women to understand.

    Have you met your bloke in real life?
     
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    He sounds just like my bastard....always handy and ready to please....I was treated like a queen!
    Refused to ask for money too.....all part of the plan to fool you into believing he isn't using you for a visa :rolleyes:
     
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    Using him for fun? Where is the fun? They are utter shite in the sack, have no sense of humour, sulk at the drop of a hat and have nothing to offer....doesn't sound like much fun to me :confused:
     
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    Well, I look forward to seeing your "original twists of fate", as to me.....it just seems a waste of years of your life that you will never get back.
     
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    What's his name :)
     
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    @bambinna, oh if I had a £ or even a dinar or two for each time I heard that story. Girl you may think you call all the shots, are in complete control, can use his sorry ass, but it never ends well. You’ve been reading here a while you know the routine.......
     
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    Wot the fok
    This is legit my current mood
    UK literally cucked us
     
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    Yeah bunny-jubel.gif
     
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    Laura2014 Well-Known Member

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    Never been a victim, eyes were wide open, hairs on the back of my neck stood up... I still didn’t listen

    So go, play, have fun if it’s the kinda fun that rocks your boat. We’ll see you on the way back....
     
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    Tunisian players appeared to have problems with their balance? Epidemic in falling over....
     
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    Sure
     
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    Did you guys send your Rugby team by mistake?
     
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