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The Three Prime Aims of a Narcissist

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SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
Tigerpants said:
OMG that pic also contacted me!!!!!!!!

I deleted him / it. I instantly thought it was a faker so asked him which hospital he worked at, couldn't answer , block delete.
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Wow, the coincidence is crazy! I bet it was another name. They find a picture and make several accounts. You asked him what hospital he works at, lol. Love it! I talked to one years ago and I told him he should be ashamed of himself. Now I think of it, it was useless. Like they care.
 
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tipme

Major Ratslayer
Scottish Lassie said:
My pleasure @Seldon# A couple of days ago I read through the entire thread about the story of your experience with your rat. When I read this narcissist article your story actually came to mind....especially regarding all the money your rat managed to suck out of you. It made me grateful that mine never asked for any money from me during our 3 year interaction online. Although he pled poverty and how difficult it was for him to find work, most of our video chats were of him slouching on his bed in his vest and shorts with his mum working in the background moaning that he needed to get off his lazy backside and get a job. He would be rolling his eyeballs throughout. His primary aim was a visa to the U.K. so after the “golden period” when loads of love-bombing was taking place and I was becoming totally besotted with him, he slowly started pushing for us to get married. It concerned me that he wanted me over there ASAP so we could marry and I could “stay with his family” while I was there. I saw that as a red flag but of course my “heart knew better than my mind”. What a fool I was! When I wasn’t rushing to make things happen he started putting me on the guilt trip by telling me that he would be forced to do military service and then we’d have no chance of being together. He was a master of blame-shifting. He’d be romantic for about 4 to 5 days and then the topic of marriage/military service would be brought up once more. He had a qualification as an electrical engineer...although I am not that sure it was even legitimate. He told me he was willing to be a waiter/cleaner/street sweeper etc. if it meant we could be together. It sounded so romantic but in the same breath so unconvincing. Around that time the 17 year age difference started to bother be. I wanted to be with him but the thought of being seen in public with a man who was young enough to be my son soon started to disturb me. I’m 5ft2 and he is 6ft4. I had images of me fitting under his armpit and everyone looking at us as we walked around in public. These thoughts put me off despite me loving him as much as I did...or, as I know now, being addicted to him as much as I was. I knew the visa was the main aim and once he had Indefinite Leave to Remain I would be discarded as my use as an appliance would be over. When he realised that I was not pushing for things to happen his mask started to come off and I started seeing the narcissist behind the innocent face. He forged documents and scammed his way illegally into the US and wasted no time in finding a victim...who he ended up marrying. Poor woman. She doesn’t know the monster she married. He started confiding in me as I was no longer a prospect for marriage but he had already divulged so much to me about his plans to go to America and claim asylum. After his engagement he wasted no time to convince his future wife to have sex with him. She wanted to wait until they married...but you know how convincing these rats are. She eventually gave in but little did she know their live-making sessions were being secretly filmed and shown to his fellow rats back in Tunisia. I was horrified and was sure he would have done the same to me. My escape from his clutches was a true blessing in disguise. I saw the rat for who he really was and I did not like it one bit! I so wanted to expose him (and still do) but he has stuff on me too which has forced me to keep my mouth shut. I went through a lot of heartache towards the end but knew I would have to go “no-contact” if I wanted to be freed from the addiction. Lots of tears were shed and I had a lot of regrets. My last message to him was short and sweet. I told him that I wanted his wife to be happy..that she deserved it...and that I hoped he would never cheat on her after marriage. He cheated on her with both men and women whilst engaged to her. Heaven only knows if he has remained faithful since they married 2 years ago. My final words were, “I wish I had never fallen for you and that you had just remained a Facebook friend with whom I hardly had any contact.” Don’t be fooled by your rat. You can be sure he also has his own story behind the one you know. I have blocked him on all social media and on my phone and we have had no contact for 2 years. He blocked me on LinkedIn and I can’t block him back. It is a professional platform so they don’t give the option as they don’t expect blocked contacts to need to block those who blocked them. If the day ever comes when he unblocks me on there I’ll be waiting to hit that final nail in the coffin. I hope and prey you can get your rat out of your system. He is not worth the time or energy. You deserve so much more. Stay strong. xxx
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See they go with men also and aids is rife in tunisia so they don't care what there bringing to their poor wife and he wasn't even married yet .but even if your hands were tied would not make a difference if you had of told her .he would of convinced her that. You were a jealous x trying to sabotage his marriage.
 
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tipme

Major Ratslayer
Scottish Lassie said:
I couldn’t agree with you more @MH007. The more we read about narcissists and their traits the more we wonder how we couldn’t read the signs....or see the red flags. The more we know about their kind the more equipped we are to help others and to see the red flags when such a person crosses our path especially if, like with Tunisian love rats, we find ourselves being drawn in with love-bombing commencing before they even know our surname or anything about us really. If we could see the signs with our minds we wouldn’t give our hearts time to be blinded by these rats. Hope you have an enjoyable Friday lovely lady. xx
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you can Google narcissist and it's free also on you tube also
 
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Starlight

Major Ratslayer
CutePixie said:
Interesting. I've been reading a lot about narcissism recently, and it all rings true. The self-importance, the entitlement, believing that they're really popular and superior to others, lack of empathy. Mine has many of the traits, and contacts me intermittently to remind me that it's my fault that he has to work all the time as I won't fund his fantasies. I'll be surprised if he keeps it up and manages to fund his latest scheme!
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They don't want to work and want you to fund them to not work some woman are funding this even today ,but then its my habibi i don't like not working I want to go work to pay your kindness back but work that I can find is long way from my town can't walk my legs my feet hurt me buy me scooter, they have no intemtions to work or pay u back !!!! Once they get the scooter the work is no longer available
They are romance fraudsters !!
Liars theives scammers
They twist there words blame u for everything everything is your fault
They nimic you try to belittle you mock you distespect you
But u dare to say anything to them snd hell is let loose *excuses *
The word narrsastic is tame in comparison to the way the rats define it
It should be ratssatistic the rats are the most twisting back stabbers morans !!
They are not worth wasting your years or money on
If you think carefully you are paying for ratssatistic the worse narrsastic tendancies bestowed on you
If you are suffering with a rat now then fasten your seat belt the worst has yet to come
Nothing will prepare you for the ride to hell with these dam ugly rats !!!!
Get out now before ur life is not yours any more and the little sewer rsts have dug there claws deep in your heart and soul !!
 
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SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
Starlight said:
They don't want to work and want you to fund them to not work some woman are funding this even today ,but then its my habibi i don't like not working I want to go work to pay your kindness back but work that I can find is long way from my town can't walk my legs my feet hurt me buy me scooter, they have no intemtions to work or pay u back !!!! Once they get the scooter the work is no longer available
They are romance fraudsters !!
Liars theives scammers
They twist there words blame u for everything everything is your fault
They nimic you try to belittle you mock you distespect you
But u dare to say anything to them snd hell is let loose *excuses *
The word narrsastic is tame in comparison to the way the rats define it
It should be ratssatistic the rats are the most twisting back stabbers morans !!
They are not worth wasting your years or money on
If you think carefully you are paying for ratssatistic the worse narrsastic tendancies bestowed on you
If you are suffering with a rat now then fasten your seat belt the worst has yet to come
Nothing will prepare you for the ride to hell with these dam ugly rats !!!!
Get out now before ur life is not yours any more and the little sewer rsts have dug there claws deep in your heart and soul !!
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Ratcissist. narcissist Lol I like that! Starlight, I always like your posts. You say things straight and as they are.
 
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Starlight

Major Ratslayer
tipme said:
See they go with men also and aids is rife in tunisia so they don't care what there bringing to their poor wife and he wasn't even married yet .but even if your hands were tied would not make a difference if you had of told her .he would of convinced her that. You were a jealous x trying to sabotage his marriage.
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Yes they do go with men sexus anything go
SouthernGirl said:
Ratcissist. narcissist Lol I like that! Starlight, I always like your posts. You say things straight and as they are
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SouthernGirl said:
Ratcissist. narcissist Lol I like that! Starlight, I always like your posts. You say things straight and as they are.
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We are all fully qualified on ratssaristic and we all went through hell some more than others and u have to say it as it is no sugar coating for these rats from ratavilla the truth has to be told and i went through a living nightmare with my rat so if we can save just a few women from these monster rats then that's a start xxx
 
Scottish Lassie

Scottish Lassie

Major Ratslayer
tipme said:
See they go with men also and aids is rife in tunisia so they don't care what there bringing to their poor wife and he wasn't even married yet .but even if your hands were tied would not make a difference if you had of told her .he would of convinced her that. You were a jealous x trying to sabotage his marriage.
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I know exactly what you mean @tipme. We all wore those rose-tinted glasses at one point and we too would not have listened to anyone saying bad things about the “man” (Rat) who was making us soooo happy. It horrified me now as no doubt he would have still ended up sleeping with men and women. He would often tell me that he would love us to have threesomes (be that with another man or woman) once we were married. I would like to believe that I would never have agreed to such a thing...but when those rose-tinted glasses are still superglued to our faces we may do things we would never do in our right mind. I’m sure my Rat will continue with his charade until he has the right to live in the US without having to still be married. I know without a shadow of a doubt that the day will come when she will see him for who he really is...and I pray she never ends up with any STDs from him. He is as low as anyone can go and he will do whatever it takes to get what he wants...be that the visa, money, sex etc. She was married 10 years before this. Once bitten twice shy...if only she had made this her motto. xx
 
Sabrina

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
SouthernGirl said:
And there are no comments under their pictures. They have only a few likes from unsuspecting women who accepted their friend requests and who don’t realize there are fake profiles.
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I’ve had one guy I accepted before you knew it he was following my followers creepy but blocked him it was a test anyway because my sister in law was one of his followers recently the minute I accepted he starts chatted me with me ! What a creep! Me and my sister in law blocked him I informed her of these kind of creeps
 
Butterflies

Butterflies

Major Ratslayer
SouthernGirl said:
And there are no comments under their pictures. They have only a few likes from unsuspecting women who accepted their friend requests and who don’t realize there are fake profiles.
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Getting used to these military scammers actually. I am saying to them I have 8 kids from 8 different men and need money and a bigger house and I hoped he can help me :D They block me :eek: I don't know why??? :p
 
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SouthernGirl

Major Ratslayer
Sabrina said:
I’ve had one guy I accepted before you knew it he was following my followers creepy but blocked him it was a test anyway because my sister in law was one of his followers recently the minute I accepted he starts chatted me with me ! What a creep! Me and my sister in law blocked him I informed her of these kind of creeps
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Yes, they will follow friends of women who accepted them! I receive almost daily requests on Instagram and they are all scammers that a friend accepted. She doesn’t realize they are fake profiles and I need to tell her. Some are women profiles. They know they’ll look less suspicious.
Fortunately I rarely get requests on Facebook, only on Instagram.
 
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Sabrina

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
Yeah I don’t think there is a way to put your Instagram acct on friends only I get them on a daily basis gets old... one is Charles Owens different picture of the man.. I mean come on, really?
SouthernGirl said:
Yes, they will follow friends of women who accepted them! I receive almost daily requests on Instagram and they are all scammers that a friend accepted. She doesn’t realize they are fake profiles and I need to tell her. Some are women profiles. They know they’ll look less suspicious.
Fortunately I rarely get requests on Facebook, only on Instagram.
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yougogirl75

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
So this could be important information for someone on here/maybe someone can decipher what it means.
I have found the ex-rat resurrected a very old fake Facebook profile about a week ago!
One that was open 7 years ago, allegedly he is the co owner of this profile along with a friend
as he stated in a message to me.
Of course a teenage girl pic, scantily dressed shows as the profile pic supposedly from Egypt
The name had changed a few times. Both times female.
Jolly Roger pirate insignia is shown 3 times on this profile.
The is profile has almost 1,470 views, and it is being directed by the narcissist rat.
Pretty much all of the followers are Tunisian men, some are laughing on this profile because they know it is fake.
Obviously it is to lure unsuspecting men (Arab men) who are in different parts of the world for money.
Most of the likes are for Tunisian businesses and some posts are in French.
So dead give away that it is of a Tunisian rat!

Of course what teenage girl is interested in poker??
Of which I know the rat loved to play poker!!
How about the drug use suggested here or mafia?
How the narcissistic rat wants to ruin the image of some poor unsuspecting teenage girl?
The rat has used images of unsuspecting women and men, models, celebrities, all to portray an illusion!
I am beginning to think that the rat was and still is into something very diabolical
Kept screenshots of it in case it gets taken down!!!
 
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yougogirl75

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
I also found another one he has on Facebook
The rat thinks he is quite clever playing with victims.
Getting away with this game of his, even changing the names, changing from male to female and back again on his fake Facebook profiles.

This alone is enough to admit someone to a mental hospital.
I mean the rat needs to be admitted to the mental hospital ASAP
I had a lucky escape, nothing he can do but talk about me now.
I feel so sorry for the new victims, they have no idea just how fu***d up this rat is!!
 
Sabrina

Sabrina

Major Ratslayer
yougogirl75 said:
I also found another one he has on Facebook
The rat thinks he is quite clever playing with victims.
Getting away with this game of his, even changing the names, changing from male to female and back again on his fake Facebook profiles.

This alone is enough to admit someone to a mental hospital.
I mean the rat needs to be admitted to the mental hospital ASAP
I had a lucky escape, nothing he can do but talk about me now.
I feel so sorry for the new victims, they have no idea just how fu***d up this rat is!!
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Go to the fb page and report it not t sure it will do any good but let them know it is not him. As much as that stupid fb monitors crap they allow this???? Stupid geeks
 
yougogirl75

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
Sabrina said:
Go to the fb page and report it not t sure it will do any good but let them know it is not him. As much as that stupid fb monitors crap they allow this???? Stupid geeks
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I did but seems ironic they can monitor posts but to monitor the fake ones they are clearly lacking in their standards.
I have made many reports on his fake Facebook profiles, some get taken down, while others are just there.
If I bother them too much about it, they start looking at me as a trouble maker.
Sometimes the bugger rat forgets his passwords, probably has one hundred of them stored in his outdated from another age laptop
, tapes the plug all the time no wonder it still is running!!

It clearly says HIS on the fake Facebook profiles and yet female pics are put up, and then you know its fake.
But Facebook clearly does not do enough.
If what Bensalem says is true about Facebook, this rat will clearly not get away with his NARCISSISTIC games in the future by making multiple fake ones.
Some of the fake ones he has made are empty and have nothing, guess that is used for spying only LOL
Other fake profiles have the rat befriending his other rat profiles, I am sorry I know this is crazy but this rat ain't right in the head!
As for tagged.com where he is free to reign and scam, it is a lost cause.
If social media and free dating sites purged their accounts half of them would be this Tunisian rats profiles :D :D :D :D
I say the free dating sites because the rat is too cheap to pay!! LOL :D :D :D :D :D:D:D
 
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yougogirl75

yougogirl75

Major Ratslayer
So this fake profile of the ex-rat was made in 2018 almost a year after leaving the rat.
As you see in the attached screenshot it is himself but yet before these photos were photos
of a Russian female model but really the ex-rat behind the profile.
Therefore the reference is to her profile, her pics.
I bet the rat is angry he could not change the gender setting on the fake profiles.
He did manage to make friends with other Russian women this way.
And now he switches pics and names every six months between the fake profiles.
The rat has aged so much look at the wrinkles on his neck!
I mean this profile is nothing like the model pic at all LOL
Even Luka Magnotta, the psychopath who will is well known in Canadian history for his gruesome crime
never had as much Narcissistic tendencies as this one Tunisian rat.
What's the significance of Montreal for the rat?
A place he only dreams to go to but can't LOL
There is also a pic showing a model on the rat's fake profile, this is from a men's shopping site

business casual for men 2020

business casual for men 2020
www.sneakersreeboks.top www.sneakersreeboks.top
oh how delusional and he is following another Tunisian big tip off that it's himself.
So how ingenious is the rat?
You can be crazy and be a genius LOL
 

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MH007

MH007

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yougogirl75 said:
So this fake profile of the ex-rat was made in 2018 almost a year after leaving the rat.
As you see in the attached screenshot it is himself but yet before these photos were photos
of a Russian female model but really the ex-rat behind the profile.
Therefore the reference is to her profile, her pics.
I bet the rat is angry he could not change the gender setting on the fake profiles.
He did manage to make friends with other Russian women this way.
And now he switches pics and names every six months between the fake profiles.
The rat has aged so much look at the wrinkles on his neck!
I mean this profile is nothing like the model pic at all LOL
Even Luka Magnotta, the psychopath who will is well known in Canadian history for his gruesome crimes
never had as much Narcissistic tendencies as this one Tunisian rat.
What's the significance of Montreal for the rat?
A place he only dreams to go to but can't LOL
There is also a pic showing a model on the rat's fake profile, this is from a men's shopping site
oh how delusional and he is following another Tunisian big tip off that it's himself.
So how ingenious is the rat?
You can be crazy and be a genius LOL
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What a prize prat - to be fair if I looked like him I would use fake profiles lol :whistle:

MH x
 
Scottish Lassie

Scottish Lassie

Major Ratslayer
Sabrina said:
Yeah I don’t think there is a way to put your Instagram acct on friends only I get them on a daily basis gets old... one is Charles Owens different picture of the man.. I mean come on, really?
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Instagram can really be a pain unless you make it private and have to approve anyone who wants to follow you. I have an account specifically for Christian posts. I don’t have a closed account specifically so that anyone can access my posts. Since it was a Christian page and most, if not all, of my followers (just under 29000) are Christian, I really did not expect to receive some of the messages I received. Initially I had loads of Satanists sending me private messages and the were totally crude and demoralising. I must have blocked about 200 of them. In addition I was receiving Dick pics from strangers and those who simply typed messages telling me what they would like to do to me sexually. Some of these messages even seemed to be coming from women. I don’t have the time to investigate people before approving them to follow me but it is scary that there are soooo many weird people out there. I must have at least 800 people blocked from my Instagram. Some twisted people in the world...and our Rats fit in well with many of them. xx
 
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