They Swing Both Ways?

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  1. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Ok, so I never got the whole picture in my particular situation. My rat got in a fight with a friend after leaving a bar....before I got to Tunisia. This "friend" showed up one of the first weeks I was here at the Cafe on the beach in Hammamet. The moment I saw this man, he glared at me in the way gay men do when they're extremely jealous. Like literally looked me up and down. Later, I found out, that this man is living with another gay man "for pay"...

    I spied on some of my rats archived messages, and found where these two men were speaking. One message I could decipher was this guy told him my rat had a "nice smile". There was also another message with someone in Europe, I think Germany, where my rat invited him to visit Tunisia. My rat asked this man if he had a girlfriend, and he said yes. Then my rat said he was not "lucky" with the women. Afterwards, the German guy told him that he personally had a LOT of experience with women... then my rat felt embarrassed.

    Ok, so I know this is probably so glaringly obvious, but then I started looking at my rats other friends. My rat confessed that the man I saw on Hammamet had sex with another one of his friends, when they were young. At this point, I was really appalled, because my rat had been suffering with symptoms that got worse when he was around this man. He was also not normally affectionate, like there was something strange about him -- he also had a lot of hate towards women, and seemed his best when he was with his male friends...

    Long story short, what's going on here? And, if these guys swing both ways, maybe this is their latent homosexuality here, and aggressiveness towards the woman playing out through a con. I could be thinking way too much into this, but to me, if a man here loves men, but hates women (like doesn't respect them in general), it seems like a pretty good idea to SELL yourself into marriage overseas, because that way you get your ticket to democracy where you can live as a gay man, bisexual, whatever, and no one will control you or know --- you also simultaneously help your family financially and make them thing you're normal because you're married and capable of having children, though deep down inside you're only doing it for the money, kinda thing...

    Maybe someone else will chime in here for clarification.
     
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  2. Jisela

    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    He did watch lesbian porn a lot, so, I know that he's attracted to women, but I think he can DO both men and women, and probably trusts men emotionally and otherwise primarily.
     
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    Heidi The Sleuth

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    If a man "gives" in Tunisia, it's not looked upon as being gay, only if he "takes" ;)
    But for the law in Tunisia, there is no difference
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    So, they will have sex with anyone, it doesn't matter. But, what I don't GET here, is how there's no connection to like normal emotions in any of this. Will these men literally have sex with ANYONE and ANYTHING? Like, there's really nothing inside their mind except for money? It's so crazy.
     
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    If caught they would go to prison.
    Men would have sex with a mop if it had a hole..
    And paid for it..
     
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    I’m pretty sure my rat would have sex with anyone if they let him. He had local girls and victims. Such a slut.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Mine used to have foreig older men as fb friends willing to “help” him with his visa. And had a friend who visited on summer, they video call me. The rat had his head on his genital area chilling out at the beach. Was definitely too close for being just a friend.
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Yeah :thumbsup:
    Yeah :thumbsup:

    Mine batted for both teams too ;)
    Any hole is a potential dinar, a coffee or a pair of flip flops.
     
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    I know the economy here is challenged, but the men who work are able to make a decent amount of money to provide for themselves and eventually save to buy land. The rats are deluded to believe that they "stealing from the rich to give to the poor". But they are just PROSTITUTES.

    How are these rats winning when they have to share their bodies with EVERYONE? Seriously, I'm disgusted by it. Like, there are really dirty people in the world, and there are sick tourists who come to Tunisia (men and women) who have had HUNDREDS of sex partners, and these rats just hop into bed for what, 50 dinar, more or less? They don't even have regular STD testing in this country, because sex is not supposed to be happening. And, from my research, they don't even have really good statistics on the STD rates here.

    This place is ripe for developing huge STD epidemics, like herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and AIDS. They will take these diseases and give it to their wives (and maybe even pregnant wives), all the while thinking that ALLAH is going to save them from infertility and death because of STD's. These rats are going to pay the biggest price with their lives and health, and their families, too.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    And all their victims are exposed too, they do not use protection and pretend they are in a monogamous relationship. Big issue here.
     
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    Mine always wanted sex that involved me and HIS backside. *ahem* without being to graphic lets jus say that he preferred his "back area" be paid attention to. I was always confused by it and when asked about it and he'd get extremely defensive and mad. At first I thought maybe he was just kinky, but looking back he seemed angry with women in general and had lots of male friends that would sit around watching soccer matches on TV, smoking cigarettes in nothing but their underwear!
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    WOW! Hahaha, Bostons. I think a lot of sex is going back and forth with the men. They spend so much time trying to get enough money to buy a virgin (segregated and everything, men alone, women alone), so they are probably all really helping each other. Seriously. I think a lot of these men are having sex with each other.
     
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    I also have to admit, most women will notice if their husband comes home from work and smells like perfume or something strange. But, there were a few times in particular, my rat came home late, got into bed and I could smell a strong odor of poop. Like strong. He was acting a little hyper that night too, like something was off. And, this is so sad, but it got me thinking that something must've been going on, because there are no public restrooms, and he was so careful to always use the bathroom at home for privacy and comfort reasons. I really doubt he would have squatted outside, that's just not him. So, I'll never really KNOW, but I kinda know.
     
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    Oh, I think so too. Mine was particularly chummy with a "distant" cousin. They were constantly lounging around with each other and seemed somewhat affectionate. I remember once he told me that they had gone to a bath house together...here in the states bath houses are not like those abroad... bath houses here are undercover places for men to have sex with each other discreetly. Ofcourse, once questioned he flipped out! His "distant" cousin hated me too. Gah, I was naïve! I cannot believe I married this man!
     
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    Mine liked the bathhouses, too. When I get back to my country I'm getting tested for all STD's.
     
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    EWWWWWE!!!! That's gross! :eek: Atleast clean your ding dong off! Disgusting!!
     
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    Are you in Tunisia?
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Yes, but leaving within days.
     
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    Oh MYYYY! So glad you are getting out of there!
     
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    Jisela Well-Known Member

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    Yes, every single day that I've spent away from him has been improving my mind, step by step. I still have moments of being floored, and moments of big sadness and shock, but the more I look on it and relax, and remember everything, I realize how messed up it was, and how my instincts were screaming at me that this guy was really bad. I'm so happy to be getting free of him.

    I do feel love for this country, though, because I bonded with it --- not the rat --- just the place. But, maybe one day I will visit again to visit some of the historical sites and remember it in a positive way. My rat didn't destroy anything for me, he just tried to destroy me.
     
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    They're all banging each other.....ain't normal how they behave with each other if they're heterosexual.
    They like to do their women up the butt too.

    Before rat, although always in Tunisia, I was so naive....I believed all the virgin women and no sex before marriage crap.....I hang my head in the deepest of shame :oops:

    I have never, and I honestly mean never, ever....EVER known such a crazily sex obsessed culture....it's just obscene....and this is why I struggle so much to understand why they say Western women are cheap whores....I genuinely cannot understand why they don't see that their women are shockingly cheap.....and the men are whores! I am so well travelled....and I've literally never come across anything like it :eek:

    I loved the country too, Jisela....I truly adored it....the colours, the sounds, the smells (spices etc, not sewage :D ) the music, the history, the vibrancy etc.....and I always vowed I would return, but with time....that has left me, I won't return....because with each day of freedom, and each new victim here, I've become angrier and angrier with the authorities in the country allowing their guests to be treated this way, and doing nothing to combat it, doing nothing to warn us, so now.....I know I will never, ever put one dinar into their economy again....I will not help the country that did not help me.

    I hope with time, you will feel this way too....the world is too big and too accessible to be tied to Tunisia :)

    For the record....if there was action against bezness and they needed speakers/witnesses.....I'd be on the first freakin flight out...modelling an orange tee shirt with the TLR website logo and link, emblazoned on the back and front in white letters :love:
     
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    Mango our heroine!:love: and all the others who have and are still helping us along on this journey!:love:to squash this effen "bezness" forever!
     
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    Thank you Heidi!:love:....
    It means I'm "a MAD kitty cat" and long tired of these dirty, stinking rats!:mad:..you feel me?
     
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    My tunisian boyfriend, used to chat with a wealthy gay, I don’t know if they actually hooked up.

    I think it doesn’t matter to them where they stick it in as long as there is money involved, they can also always just lie about, and they see it as them outsmarting the other person they don’t view it as them selling out.
     

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