Those things they do

Discussion in 'Rat Behavior' started by Phoenix, Oct 7, 2016.

  1. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Ha, I will use the new name I learned from Katie1971 above.....they really are wanksplashes!! :D In fact, I shall list this behaviour as an annoying habit: If he did something wrong and I called him out, hours or days later, I would be accused of the same behaviour. If something was wrong with me, my phone etc.....it happened to him hours or days later...no imagination!!
     
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  2. Phoenix

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    Mango, when I read your posts I realise what a lucky escape I had. Mine was never really abusive or violent. I think it was just fizzling out when I blocked him anyway to be honest. I think he knew deep down I wasn't prepared to help him anymore n he clearly has other women willing to do that so I think he'd probably have let me just disappear n move on with his other women xx
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    I think I had a lucky escape too :) I somehow escaped with my life and there were times I truly believed I wouldn't. I lost my natural stoopid personality, I lost my ability to trust, I lost my joy in life, I lost my confidence, I lost my sense of self worth, I lost my ability to laugh at the world, I lost the sparkle in my eyes and the spring in my step, but I didn't lose my life and I can rebuild my personality, I will become a stronger version of my old me....I already see little bits creeping back through. He will never kill me, not in body nor in spirit, I will not allow it. I always look for the silver lining, no matter what the situation and my silver lining here, along with all the other losses......I lost a whole lotta weight, woop woop!! :D They'll never win, they can find lots of women, but they will never know true happiness, they will never feel real love, they will never have the ability to love life....and this is all the karma I need. Ultimately, they are the losers, the things they stole from us (materially and emotionally) can be regained....but they can never be who we are, good, strong, loving, giving personalities. They lost us, we didn't lose them....because we didn't need them like they needed us :)
     
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  4. Phoenix

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    The problem is I would have loved him till the day I died. He would've known love with me but it was all one sided. I don't believe any one woman will make him happy. Be it one of us or his Tunisian virgin bride. He'll never be satisfied with one woman. For this I pity him. I feel like he lost the best thing that could've happened to him. I'd have given him the world at one point. xx
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    That's my point, chick and that is why they are the losers. We loved them with all our hearts, they had the chance to know real love, but they threw it away for greed because they are incapable of feeling such emotions. I also said they can find lots of women but they will never know true happiness. Your post supports what I wrote above it. They will never love life because at the very core of them, they are evil. Emotions such as love and happiness do not exist for them, they are incapable of feeling them and that is why I say it is karma for me. Can you imagine a life without love, laughter and happiness? I can't, but they choose to live that way and so I pity them too, I would rather have nothing than to lose the person I loved, they throw love away for possessions.
     
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    My favourite one "you have place in my hart"
     
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    I don't need no one else. I'm happy with you. I can wait for you ..... yeah ok then lol
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Mine told me I was a gift from the sky!! I felt so special, haha :D
     
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    "I'm just your darling. I 'm faithful for you forever". "If there is a women who I deserve its you. Simply it's you or not"."My heart. my mind, my body for you"."You are big event in my life". " I wish I met you before, my life would very nice with you". (c) Oh, so romantic messages it were :D.
    And this his "MWAH" .:Evil:
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Well of course, you could have been a life changing event in his life......his visa provider!! :p
     
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    )))He found someone better for visa)). My country is not so nice for him as it has appeared))
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Haha, well don't give up hope, he may yet decide your country is good enough for him.....when his new visa victim sees the light! I dare say when H loses his new visa victim, he will conveniently become fluent in my 'disgusting' language again.....desperados!!! :D
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    Psycho... yeah I hurt you cause you can’t keep your mouth shut. Next time I will shoot you.. same old thing as my rat. Always my fault and he wanted to spit on me, beat me or kill me. Plus his freaking mother saying to burn me alive. :Evil: Yet this rat dare to say he is not a monster...
     
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    Yikes, and he was saying those sweet nothings to you on the phone, imagine what you would have got if you had been with him in person...:eek:
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Just doesn't bare thinking about, does it :Cry:
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    He said it a little before letting me know he changed his mind or found a better sponsor than me. So it was a perfect circus show, a devastating event for my head to understand. :Evil::Evil: All his family will pay some day.
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Yes, they will....I firmly believe that :love:

    They already paid anyway, coz they lost out on our AmberHeart.....and that's their loss, not yours :)
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    He said I wasn’t pure, to not dare to warn the other girl. I wasn’t pure and not in position to play bad... :Evil: I don’t have to lie to let the world know level of trash he and is family are. He has to lie and sell his butt for little cash. And dares to tell me I’m not pure.
     
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    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    ❤️ Aww my days big hug Mango. Thank you for all your support and kindness.
     
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