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Mandy 44

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Girl, I understand your embarrassment....my rat looks like a circus freak, and I tolerated all manner of unacceptable behaviour, but sometimes it’s in our best interests to swallow our pride and speak out....so I’m really happy you wrote that first post :)

They come back again and again and again.....they’re like a cold sore....just when you think you’ve eradicated the damn thing.....it returns bigger than ever :D
These rats don’t go easy, but you’re doing the right thing in continually blocking him. Do you ignore his attempts at contact? Even an angry reply before you block is contact. Silence is your best weapon.

Do you and rat live in the same country, or was he able to hack your phone from Tunisia? I’m no tech head, but to do that, he must surely have put a spy app on your phone while he had physical access to it.

I would suggest a new phone, ideally with a different number :)
O my God. No I'm in England he in Tunisia. I dont reply. I had my phone looked at and all ok even last week he tried to access my email thank God I got a message about attempted log in I block it fast .I just want him to leave me alone
 

Brasilgirl

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Girl, I understand your embarrassment....my rat looks like a circus freak, and I tolerated all manner of unacceptable behaviour, but sometimes it’s in our best interests to swallow our pride and speak out....so I’m really happy you wrote that first post :)

They come back again and again and again.....they’re like a cold sore....just when you think you’ve eradicated the damn thing.....it returns bigger than ever :D
These rats don’t go easy, but you’re doing the right thing in continually blocking him. Do you ignore his attempts at contact? Even an angry reply before you block is contact. Silence is your best weapon.

Do you and rat live in the same country, or was he able to hack your phone from Tunisia? I’m no tech head, but to do that, he must surely have put a spy app on your phone while he had physical access to it.

I would suggest a new phone, ideally with a different number :)
She can get her current phone wiped and get a new number. If she had a land line, a number change it a block from the tunisua area code might be possible. She should talk to her tel co.
 

Mango Chutney

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O my God. No I'm in England he in Tunisia. I dont reply. I had my phone looked at and all ok even last week he tried to access my email thank God I got a message about attempted log in I block it fast .I just want him to leave me alone
Does your head in, doesn’t it :Evil:

For months after leaving rat, I’d get FB notifications and text messages from FB letting me know an unfamiliar device had attempted to login to my account and to confirm it was me.
It never was me....I put the code lock thingy on my account, which is why I got text messages....and thank God I did :thumbsup:
I also now run FB off a friends email, as rat knew my old one....she still gets notifications for pm’s in her email, but she can no longer read them because of the code lock attached to my phone number.

With my emails, where possible, including here....I created new ones. Where letting the old ones go was not really convenient, my fella attached a back up account, so any notifications also go straight to his email.

Drives me stir crazy, the lengths we have to go to in keeping our personal stuff safe.....but it might be worth your while doing similar things.

How can he hack your phone in England from Tunisia though? Are you sure there is no spy app in it? I hope you are soon due an upgrade....and can exchange it for a new phone.
 
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Brasilgirl

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O my God. No I'm in England he in Tunisia. I dont reply. I had my phone looked at and all ok even last week he tried to access my email thank God I got a message about attempted log in I block it fast .I just want him to leave me alone
If he gets on your phone, he has access to something. Maybe a password. Apple password? I don’t know what kind of phone you have, but you can get it wiped and reset. Start over. When you reinstall your apps, change the passwords. If you need to write them down, do it manually in a notebook. Not on your phone.
A new phone number will help to. Just text those who need your new number and they can use that to update their contact for you.
As far as the rat is concerned, you need to vanish. I know it is harsh, but after two years??? Sheesh.
 
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