Please don't presume that because you watch a heavily edited "reality" tv show that you must come here and represent the "American perspective". First there are plenty of Americans in the group. Second, not one of them needs to be educated on your perspective. This is a place for victims of romance fraud and those who support them to come together and heal, problem solve, commiserate, vent, support. etc. It is not a spectacle for your amusement.US attitude is we typically we expect people to be savvy about relationships, since there was obviously a huge gap in their physical appearance, she should have known. And abuse is almost always unforgivable here, especially abuse to try to keep someone in a romantic relationship. As for Latinx, they usually enter our country through asylum, maybe that’s easier than finding a sponsor. Anyway I’m just sharing the American perspective – I wasn’t expecting anyone to take it so weirdly personally. The Popper quotes made you come off as mental, it’s a 20 min reality show, just breathe lol
Lastly your perspective is yours alone and certainly not the "American perspective" rather the perspective of an American.