Victims of the rat - their most popular targets

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  1. Bess

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    Please do forgive yourself. They are not worth it. You are a caring person who should not be punished to be caring and dontnt think bad about others. I mean that you have faith in people that they are good people...thats a good start meeting other with good thought ... then later we Can learn/ hear/ see that the person in front of us.....even our lover....NOT are so good a person.
     
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  2. Arkady

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    Oh my heavens. I am so sorry.
     
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    It’s been some education! Reading on here, so many threads by so many victims, has been my way of recovering from so much damage he did to me! When he reached me, I was just nasty and vile to him! I read on here somewhere that these monsters don’t care if you speak nice or nasty, they just need you to speak! Learning that, I have remained completely silent! Saturday night, my phone started ringing in the middle of the night! I put it on silent mode and never answered. There were exactly 10 calls from him during that night and the next day, but I just ignored. He sent some texts! I ignored them too! His last message to me was since I’m ignoring him, he will never contact me again! :thumbsup: He’s such a liar so I doubt it but I can always hope! I will just continue to totally ignore if he does call again! I finally realized that I have no love for him anymore! :) It sure took a long time. That piece of shit really had me brainwashed and under his control for years! It was hell overcoming him but I finally succeeded! The past 3 Decembers, he ruined them for me! Not this year! I’m celebrating Christmas in many ways this year! I have such a feeling of accomplishment now days! I feel like I fell in a very deep hole but finally climbed to the top of the Himalayans. What a mental/emotional journey it’s been!

    Thank you to all of you who helped me so much, adviced me, kicked my butt at times, educated me on bezness and Rats, and gave me kind words when I was in periods of really low depressions! I love all of you and have great respect for each of you! Merry Christmas and may 2019 be happy, healthy, safe, rat free, and very blessed for all of us! :love:
     
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  5. Arkady

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    That’s when Karma steps in and kicks them in the butt.
     
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  6. Arkady

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    That’s what friends are for.
     
  7. Arkady

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    And what’s going to happen when his looks fade. Nobody stays young and attractive forever.
     
  8. Arkady

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    It’s known as gaslighting and narcissists are masters of it.
     
  9. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Lady Amberheart of Gafsa

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    That guy is already looking like Tutankhamen’s mummy :p nah even mummies have been found with better dentures.:eek:
     
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    As Judge Judy would say "Beauty fades..dumb is forever." ....Sorry couldn't resist loll
     
  11. Arkady

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    :D
     
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    Who is Judge Judy?
     
  13. Laura2014

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    US TV lawyer who has a justice entertainment programme on US television. UK has a similar one, Judge Rinder.
     
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    Oh. Like reality TV?
     
  15. Arkady

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    Something like that, only in syndication
     
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    Have you seen him? He wasn't attractive to start with.....he's a right freakin gormpot!!
    Yup....and he'd certainly mastered it :rolleyes:
     
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    If he makes it to a ship he will be the lowest of the lowly. Sleeping three decks below water... sharing a cabin 6ft x 8ft for eight months without a day off. Something tells me this rats dream of travelling the world won’t be quite what he’s expecting. Mrs Rat will have a nice time playing at his own game while he’s out of sight.
     
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    Yes a reality tv judge and quite stern at it. She doesn't put up with crap, zero tolerance. Would love to turn her loose on these rats
     
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    Judithlyn you are blessed. You are strong. You will pull through. This too shall pass! I believe that. I am praying for you into the New Year! You got this!
     
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    :D:p
     
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    mine told me the same that so many women wanted him, but he chose me, i was the lucky one. How stupid i was to believe that, it makes me cringe that i fell to the lowest depths of self esteem because of him, with the help of everyone on this site and close friends i'm finding myself again.... everyday i'm still receiving sob stories and asking for money, i just read. ignore, knowing every word is complete lies.... the latest is, he hasn't eaten for 2 months and going blind due to his diabetes...he really pulls on my heart strings
     
  24. Brasilgirl

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    I think if he had diabetes he’d be in a coma by now. :D
    Gotta give him half a point for creativity tho. Just a point, no cash. It’s not that good.
     
  25. Laura2014

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    And he can see well enough I bet to write pleading messages and keep his Facebook rolling :D
     

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