Visa Hunting Tunisian Love Rats.

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  1. AmberHeart

    AmberHeart Well-Known Member

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    This is a reality, this guy and all blackmailer rats are the same. You wouldn’t believe how innocent look my rat has. And the way he shows himself as a family oriented person. Showing pictures of his childhood, so proud of mom. A careful elder brother with younger siblings. The sweet words he says, all his Allah/Quoran talking, good deeds, simple life, not needing too much for a honest and humble living, loving outdoors, respecting nature, putting flowers on his ear, loving animals.... a big smile and childish eyes. You truly would believe he is a clean hearted man. Not aware of the world and it’s problens. Until he convinced the victim he loves her and to make a life toghether then the transformation begins. He starts with crying pictures or videos, threatens suicide, or he has to start a psychiatric treatment because the victim is abusing him mentally and he can’t support it anymore, he blames his victims for not getting any degree because he got depressed and needed too much time to recover, they ruined his life. He asks a lot for sexual relief by phone, video or cam. He doesn’t care it’s Ramadan, his reason is as simple as distance, “we are a couple and we will get married so it isn’t wrong, we are not causing harm to anyone” if the victim refuses he gets as an angry gorilla punching and throwing everything or insults and screams. No mercy, no compassion. If the victim asks questions same reaction: furious gorilla. He twisted messages to make his victim look like she is the nasties person and justify himself in front of family, friends and new victims. When he is done he just blackmails, threats to make public everything you could tell him and ofcourse those pictures that were supposed to be private. He tries to get benefits from his victim even after blackmail, after having new victims. He keeps harassing and looking for ways to contact. As you can see, he is a totally different person as the one he pretended to be.
     
  2. beznessbitch

    beznessbitch Well-Known Member

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    I've not seen him in person for over two years and total separation with no contact from my side from july. before that for the last two years I been letting go slowly! crazy isn't it..my rat was not like some of them here with the false words and fake crying and fake love you shit. he had played the game a long time with his ratty brother teachers, anyway for most of this year he has been blocked everywhere but I would have moments I would unblock him just to say nasty things to him like "why don't you go to hell" or "fuckoff and die" but I don't even bother now with that x
     
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    beznessbitch Well-Known Member

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    I have taken back my power its wonderfull and im quite solitary now.. but that's ok I never could be alone but now im ok
     
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    This is a huge step forward, now you feel empowered and getting self confidence again. Therefore when somebody shows up you can start all over new not caring about this miserable rat. Xx
     
  5. Mango Chutney

    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    Snap! I was always a very sociable person, but now, I'm happiest in the evening, when it's just me, the man thing and our sproggies....all in our nice, cozy house together...safe :love:
     
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    Mango Chutney Well-Known Member

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    These lyrics are so absolutely perfect :)
     
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    Perfect find @Heidi, remember so well in the early days wishing he would stop being my waking thought. Driving to work and every song has some kind of subliminal message. Except for coming here he’s hardly a passing thought now. In the beginning time seemed like an enemy but in the end time heals.
     
  9. beznessbitch

    beznessbitch Well-Known Member

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    im gonna be single till i die now!! x
     
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    Me too.
     
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    perfect!!
     
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    you are far to young to talk like that xxxxx
     
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    they all are - double faces
     
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    it dont feel like at the time does it.. but time is the only things sometimes to make a difference, thank god for time!
     
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    No, You have many qualities. You only need to completely detox from that ugly rat. ♥️
     
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    If you remain single because you seriously feel better it’s a good choice, but never think negative about yourself or the nasty treatment the rat gave u is something u deserved. Don’t give him the power to decide that part of your life. It’s exclusively your choice. Whatever makes you happy, that’s the right thing to do. Xx
     
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    look, this is what I mean. These were his last words after he failed his applications and threatened me. he asked me back and obviously I rejected him. This is his true wish or a way to hurt. But it’s not in his hands. If I decide to stay single, perfect! It isn’t his choice.
     
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    @AmberHeart , if you stay single does not mean you'll have to live like a nun :cool:
     
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    I live like a nun already. Lol.
     
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    That's your choice :)
     
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    so true, took some time to recover, but will set effort into getting my normal life back. xx
     
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    Hahaha. Yeah. It is. I guess I just haven’t met anyone worthy yet. And I still have major trust issues. Maybe in time...
     
  23. beznessbitch

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    me too! my choice I just couldn't be bothered anymore
     
  24. Judithlyn

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    Amen! Hahaha! I choose to stay single for the legal benefits! It doesn’t mean I’m a nun though! Play the field, have fun, but none of the crap like cleaning, cooking, and laundry! Single life has so many benefits! I’ll never go legal, as in marriage, again! What for? What’s the benefit for me? I actually don’t see any! Everybody is on their best behavior while dating! After marriage, things seem to change. You take each other for granted. I don’t want that anymore! I’m talking regular relationships! Rat relationships are more damaging and harder to get over. Even more reasons to avoid marriage! My humble opinion anyways! I’m very ANTI marriage! Sorry!
     
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    So my question to all you ladies is how do the rats communicate with the russians as my rat has gotten a russian victim. I know he uses google translate because I speak three languages myself, one of them spanish he would translate it all the time even the english he would translate. So how do they get away with communicating in Russian, very difficult language so it seems. What kind of relationship is that you cannot talk with each other haha
     
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