Visa Hunting Tunisian Love Rats.

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
These rats think that God is on their side. How can God be in their lives if they hate, steal, rape and hurt people? Most of the rats commit adultery thinking that if the woman does not bend to their concepts she deserves to be cheated on. With the rats using other victims married or not is another form of adultery. Lying all the time shows what a lousy character they have and that they cannot be trusted. The rats have to have the best, it is not jealousy it is envy. They think if it is behind closed doors that it does not count but God sees everything. I know I was told that lies are acceptable in their culture to obtain something in their best interest especially against the so called kaffirs (unbelievers).
They try to justify their actions.
They are like ostriches with their heads in the sand thinking that if they can’t see God, God can’t see them. But God is not a man. He is our creator. He see everything.
So if you beleive in God or Allah and you beleive in heaven, you know that the rats will rot in hell. For God, forgiveness comes when there is remorse and repent of ones sins. (My Muslim friends agree with me on this. )
The rats are just pure evil. Driven by greed.
They can fast and pray at Ramadan, but it won’t help them because they don’t realize their wrongs and they don’t know what forgiveness to pray for.
They are simple minded heathens.
 

Mango Chutney

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Sorry but I laugh at some of these women in groups. They repeat inchallah, mashallah over and over. I have to ask myself do they really know what it means. Now I see many they husband's have left them. When they were saying how happy they were..
Seriously mango you are correct westerners are treated as infidels. But once you give your self to Islam you are muslim.
I agree about those wives....I piss me knickers at their FB posts :D
Save Gaza, free Palestine, ban bacon (I haven't really seen that one, but I can imagine it), Eid Mabrouk, this is my hijab, blah blah....they are hilarious :D
Rat told me they are called plastic Muslims, because they are only converts. His belief, not mine....I don't believe in any God or religion.....I just laugh at those women that have no idea what their posts mean, probably have no understanding of the Palestinian conflict.....and eat bacon sandwiches at the weekend :D
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
I have no idea...we have a few Muslim victims, some from birth and some converts.
Converts, they call them plastic Muslims, they too have no value :rolleyes:

But honestly.....this is what I've learned from reading around after rat, based on his treatment of me....some stuff, I learned directly from him.
Ya, women....we are all worthless, second class citizens...but Western infidels are worse.
My rat said Westernised Muslims were not real Muslims :rolleyes:
So what would he be if he got his visa and lived in a western country?
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
I agree about those wives....I piss me knickers at their FB posts :D
Save Gaza, free Palestine, ban bacon (I haven't really seen that one, but I can imagine it), Eid Mabrouk, this is my hijab, blah blah....they are hilarious :D
Rat told me they are called plastic Muslims, because they are only converts. His belief, not mine....I don't believe in any God or religion.....I just laugh at those women that have no idea what their posts mean, probably have no understanding of the Palestinian conflict.....and eat bacon sandwiches at the weekend :D
I guess they do because brainwashing is strong, tho many must have converted just to meet the requirement from their man, not by faith. Nor conviction. Yes it was understood it was the rat concept calling plastic Muslims. Wich there must be some but not all.
 

Mango Chutney

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So what would he be if he got his visa and lived in a western country?
He would consider himself real, because of his place of birth, I guess....he would have believed he was not corrupted by our dirty Western lifestyle, as his place of birth, and the fact that he would return there to die told him otherwise. I don't know, that's just my guess....but he was a complete f*ckup, so who knows :thumbsup:
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
This is what rat said. With marriage (to a Tunisian woman), or with age....they take a religious path, they repent their sins, and Allah forgives because they have now turned to him.
My rat didn't observe Ramadan, nor pray.
He can try, but I don’t think they understand remorse and repenting. They have no concious. So just saying it or praying in general won’t help much. They need to feel really bad they did what they did.
 

Mystery

Inactive
This is what rat said. With marriage (to a Tunisian woman), or with age....they take a religious path, they repent their sins, and Allah forgives because they have now turned to him.
My rat didn't observe Ramadan, nor pray.
My husband did but not the 5 times.when you say the shadaha all your sins are washed away and you start afresh.
They pull the wool over our eyes in the name of Allah. If you don't know the religion you won't see how they try and convince you how good Muslims they are.
I'm not a good muslim I swear smoke if I go hell I will be there with my rat so I can keep stoking the fire underneath his ass
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
My husband did but not the 5 times.when you say the shadaha all your sins are washed away and you start afresh.
They pull the wool over our eyes in the name of Allah. If you don't know the religion you won't see how they try and convince you how good Muslims they are.
I'm not a good muslim I swear smoke if I go hell I will be there with my rat so I can keep stoking the fire underneath his ass
Loooove thisssss
 

Mango Chutney

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Loooove thisssss
Me too.....I love a woman with real fire in her soul and passion in her heart! :D
My husband did but not the 5 times.
My rat could never do this....he had an aversion to washing himself once a week under duress....contact with water five times a day would kill him :D
It used to make me cringe when his dad was washing for mosque....and snorted the water up his nose to clean it :eek: I have a fear of water (not washing, I mean not being able to breathe)....so that kinda freaked me out a bit.
 

Mystery

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Exactly. Open the gates to Hell, there will be rats racing to get there first. Bragging rights you know.
They are unable to feel love. There is something missing in thier brains I was going to say jeans haha. I don't understand how there is no feelings with them. It's them are all plastic. At least a convert try and learn I guess. Being brought up as a muslim as a no effect on them no shame. They are blank
I am talking about rats only here.
 

Laura2014

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Your post made me think...it's a little funny, now hindsight. Today, my rat agreed to divorce and to never contact me again, which is a gain especially because I was able to spoil his immigration plans, because this site helped me so much to navigate all of this. But, also because of this site, I really pounded my rat with fear of Allah for all sorts of bad behavior. It drove him a little nuts after a while, because I would talk about it A LOT (with emphasis on fire and brimstone and judgment, topics). He did eventually start to pray, but it backfired a lil' bit, because he started judging me more because I was not part of his religion. :/

Now, he wants to be a perfect Muslim, and I really admire his motivation to somewhat change his ways, but he has a lot to learn about responsibility and taking care of a wife. I really hope his second wife is a Muslim and cleans the floor with his bad behavior, because religion is not all about looking good, disco, alcohol, smoking cigarettes, drinking coffee, and judging the woman, it's going to be about his ability to provide home, clothes, food, etc. etc. My rat lacks an education and good career, so he's going to really need to start taking all of those rules, very seriously.

I'm so happy that while I'm hurt, I can wish him the best, because I wasn't blindsided. I can see and feel just by this stuff, that it could absolutely floor a woman and destroy her, if she had no idea of any of the cultural, religious differences, lack of respect shown for victims of a rat (and why), how she's seen in their society, etc. etc. and how different the rat's behavior is towards her without respect. It is so sad... like, oh my gosh, this site helped me and I feel so sorry for the women who didn't have a clue.

These rats need to get to work long and hard in their country to make something of it, instead of standing around and looking good for each other. Then, they need to buy land, get the gold, make a good relationship with the woman's family, and hope to achieve this at least by 35 years old. It's a hard life, but when done honestly, it's respectable. Rats need to get with the program :)
I hope you have managed to leave the country. He may be repentant now but as we all know this can change very rapidly. I hope by his new found sudden niceness he does not convince you to try again.

You executed your plan well and safely got away. I hope you will find some peace and contentment and are never tempted to return.
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
I hope you have managed to leave the country. He may be repentant now but as we all know this can change very rapidly. I hope by his new found sudden niceness he does not convince you to try again.

You executed your plan well and safely got away. I hope you will find some peace and contentment and are never tempted to return.
Laura’s point of view is very certain, my rat did this and I went back to him after canceling my trip four times!! Don’t believe he wants to be a better person, he won’t, he can’t. Better to run while things are in calm. Xxxx
 

AmberHeart

Lady Amberheart of Gafsa
Thank you, Amber. I went through the same things, but I went to hotels in the area. I also took a trip to Italy, and then came back because he was so upset... blah, blah, blah, probably while watching porn. Such a jerk. I don't believe he wants to be a better person, I think he's just looking to manipulate everyone, and he did also partially use returning to his religion to destroy our marriage and make me the bad person, again. I called him out on it, too, but it's all in the past.

I won't go back and there's nothing that I want to talk to him about, ever again. I'm so glad he doesn't live in my country.
You will get stronger and feel peaceful again, thankfully you manage to close the cycle on time wich is a great asset, his time in your life is over and you deserve to be happy and respected. Sending you a big hug, please stay in touch and let us know you are safe at home with loved ones. ♥
 

Mystery

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Thank you, Amber. I went through the same things, but I went to hotels in the area. I also took a trip to Italy, and then came back because he was so upset... blah, blah, blah, probably while watching porn. Such a jerk. I don't believe he wants to be a better person, I think he's just looking to manipulate everyone, and he did also partially use returning to his religion to destroy our marriage and make me the bad person, again. I called him out on it, too, but it's all in the past.

I won't go back and there's nothing that I want to talk to him about, ever again. I'm so glad he doesn't live in my country.
Jisela,
Please take it easy, you have taken the first step to rid yourself of your rat.
The next days after leaving is hard. You will miss the chats the messages of love. The pics he send you. You will miss him then you will be angry.
You want to kill him, he will find a way to contact you. Mine yesterday made a fb page of a friend of mine. Your emotions will be all over the place.
Take each day as it comes relax but also keep busy. Don't think to much about the what Ifs.
He will be looking for sympathy don't give it..
They don't change and he won't ever be a good muslim.. it's to late for him to change..
Please come here often the more you talk to like minded people the better. Make fun of your rat laugh about him here.. I am still angry at mine but now I can laugh here with these crazy women haha the best part is no one say it was my own fault. :D:eek::eek::D
 

Mango Chutney

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Staff member
Some days are better than others, but I was already secretly grieving when I was sleeping next to him in bed
God.....how I can relate to these words...I was doing exactly the same thing....had been for a while.
I was developing a huge dislike of him, to the point that every little thing he did just annoyed me, it all highlighted how pathetic and weak he really was.
I really look forward to the post where you let us know you are safely home....but Mystery is right...that is when you will grieve.
I was so relieved to leave my rat, so free....but I still grieved, I still hurt....everything felt so alien to me in England....the food, the fast pace of life, the colours, the temperature, the language....even now, I still don't like English food.
Healing is slow, it's not easy...but you got us wazzocks here rooting for you....it's a sure thing....I don't honestly don't know how I would have coped without this forum.

I hope you really do leave this time. It's hard....but healing will begin properly at home, even though like me.... you've already started the process, completion can't happen until you are 100% free of him :)
 

Mango Chutney

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I was wondering about all of that, because I love to travel and I love my home. So, I've sort of been wondering how it will be to get back, entering through a big city. It was really hard to adjust to being here, so I know it will be a process to adjust to being home again. I will be on the forums here, as support. Thanks for the advice.
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie....it's not easy. You don't realise how much your personality has adapted to fit into your new environment until you leave it.
Even after recovery, you will never be exactly who you were before rat, so the things you loved about your own country before you left it suddenly don't feel the same anymore, elements of it become pretty scary, like crowds, and for me in England....even the way I crossed the road. To this day....I still look to the left, like in Tunisia...tis a miracle I haven't been killed :D

You can still travel. I also love to travel, and since leaving rat, travel is better....as I can now explore different places, I'm not tied to Tunisia...and you will have this too :)

I actually found it easier to settle into Tunisia, than I did settling down again in England. I think when you move to a foreign country....especially one with such an incredibly different culture, everything is new and exciting, there are new foods to sample, different buildings to look at, the clothes are different, the culture is fascinating, the music is different etc.....but when you leave it and return to what you knew before, it seems dull and lifeless.
More than anything...I really missed hearing Call to prayer, laying on the roof watching the night sky (not an option on an English style roof, unless you have an accessible flat roof :D ), the sound of the crickets at night etc.
I have adapted to being back here, I'm blessed with my beautiful family....but I still miss Tunisia. Not him...just the calm, slow lifestyle.
You'll be ok, but don't expect to just settle straight back into the life you knew before....it isn't gonna happen.
 

Mystery

Inactive
Yeah, I'm not gonna lie....it's not easy. You don't realise how much your personality has adapted to fit into your new environment until you leave it.
Even after recovery, you will never be exactly who you were before rat, so the things you loved about your own country before you left it suddenly don't feel the same anymore, elements of it become pretty scary, like crowds, and for me in England....even the way I crossed the road. To this day....I still look to the left, like in Tunisia...tis a miracle I haven't been killed :D

You can still travel. I also love to travel, and since leaving rat, travel is better....as I can now explore different places, I'm not tied to Tunisia...and you will have this too :)

I actually found it easier to settle into Tunisia, than I did settling down again in England. I think when you move to a foreign country....especially one with such an incredibly different culture, everything is new and exciting, there are new foods to sample, different buildings to look at, the clothes are different, the culture is fascinating, the music is different etc.....but when you leave it and return to what you knew before, it seems dull and lifeless.
More than anything...I really missed hearing Call to prayer, laying on the roof watching the night sky (not an option on an English style roof, unless you have an accessible flat roof :D ), the sound of the crickets at night etc.
I have adapted to being back here, I'm blessed with my beautiful family....but I still miss Tunisia. Not him...just the calm, slow lifestyle.
You'll be ok, but don't expect to just settle straight back into the life you knew before....it isn't gonna happen.
What I miss about these Arab countries.
I do miss the call to prayer.
I don't miss the bugs omg I had a big ginger hairy thing in the bathroom. Omg (bug) I mean lol
The smell of sewradge yuck I can still taste it..
Being kept in the home knowing there was others sun bathing by the beach.
Washing clothes in cold water.
Being afraid of electricity so dangerous.
No showering each day.
Using a hose up my ass while they all laughed at my screams.
No McDonald's
Rats every where.
Most importantly my rat.
I am free it's a wonderful feeling.
I do miss him but I am out for revenge more.
How dare he take my self respect my heart my soul my freedom and my loyalty.
Scamming pig.
 

Brasilgirl

Senior Rat Expert
Your post made me think...it's a little funny, now hindsight. Today, my rat agreed to divorce and to never contact me again, which is a gain especially because I was able to spoil his immigration plans, because this site helped me so much to navigate all of this. But, also because of this site, I really pounded my rat with fear of Allah for all sorts of bad behavior. It drove him a little nuts after a while, because I would talk about it A LOT (with emphasis on fire and brimstone and judgment, topics). He did eventually start to pray, but it backfired a lil' bit, because he started judging me more because I was not part of his religion. :/

Now, he wants to be a perfect Muslim, and I really admire his motivation to somewhat change his ways, but he has a lot to learn about responsibility and taking care of a wife. I really hope his second wife is a Muslim and cleans the floor with his bad behavior, because religion is not all about looking good, disco, alcohol, smoking cigarettes, drinking coffee, and judging the woman, it's going to be about his ability to provide home, clothes, food, etc. etc. My rat lacks an education and good career, so he's going to really need to start taking all of those rules, very seriously.

I'm so happy that while I'm hurt, I can wish him the best, because I wasn't blindsided. I can see and feel just by this stuff, that it could absolutely floor a woman and destroy her, if she had no idea of any of the cultural, religious differences, lack of respect shown for victims of a rat (and why), how she's seen in their society, etc. etc. and how different the rat's behavior is towards her without respect. It is so sad... like, oh my gosh, this site helped me and I feel so sorry for the women who didn't have a clue.

These rats need to get to work long and hard in their country to make something of it, instead of standing around and looking good for each other. Then, they need to buy land, get the gold, make a good relationship with the woman's family, and hope to achieve this at least by 35 years old. It's a hard life, but when done honestly, it's respectable. Rats need to get with the program :)
*hugs*
I am so happy you are almost free of that place! Please don’t even talk to him. He can do the divorce in Tunisia without you.
 
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