Wedding money stolen 25 days before wedding

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  1. Irish

    Irish Well-Known Member

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    Just joined this site and boy have I had my eyes opened... I wish I'd have known about this site before now. Well I was over the moon with everything until yesterday
    I had a fiancé who was loving and affectionate his family who adore me and my flight and wedding date all sorted wedding 5th May 2015
    But yesterday he said I give him shit because I ask about a Facebook I have found . So he has finished with me and is keeping the wedding money because he spent time with me and I took his body .... I am shocked beyond belief and physically sick all night.
    I don't know what to do or who to tell about this ... It's in it's thousands and I've to pay this all back with interest.
    If anyone has any ideas I'd be forever grateful
    Thanks
    Irish xx
     
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  2. Heidi

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    Hi, thats horrible. It´s typical, that the male prostitute rats say that they have a right to be paid for sex. Sorry, it was a scam with no love for you. Be glad you found out before you married him and he came to your home country. That would have been pur hell for you.
    Since you where getting married to him, I don´t think you have promissory notes for the money he got from you. He will say it was a present from you. So the money is lost. All you can do is name and shame him here.
    His full name, his nick names, his age, where he is from, where he works, where he worked before, his fb accounts and put his pictures in the gallery.
     
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    If you've got written proofs that this money was ment for your wedding (emails, other texts) and if you've got proof that you sent this amount, any tunisian judge will oblige him to pay you back. At least you can already threaten him with this (even if you just play poker face), say you've got a tunisian lawyer and will use your wedding Holiday coming to Tunisia with a male parent (brother, father, uncle, whatever male family member) to get justice done!!! Keep ALL his answers!
     
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    Horrible! Feel so sorry for you. :(
    ARGHHHH these shitheads have no contience at all!!
    And i would say the same as Heidi, he has to be named and shamed, with all the info you have about him!

    XXXX
     
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    Good advice :):thumbsup:
     
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  6. Irish

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    I have only viber messages and messages from his English speaking sister as proof plus the receipts for the money being put into his bank
    How do I name him as I don't think he has any shame
     
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  7. Irish

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    How do I this?
     
  8. Heidi

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    You go to Gallery, click on Create Own Album, write his names and Hotel etc., upload your pictures
     
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    First page is for text and naming album, go down and click create abum, and 2 page is for downloading pictures.
    A good idea is to put he´s name on the tiltle in THIS thread , so people can se what a creap he is! Put the link to your story in he´s album :)
     
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  10. Irish

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    Did I do it rite !?!
     
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    No he is not in the gallery
     
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    I dont know what cartwheel is :confused: It should have said go down on the page :D

    Hope you figure it out :)
     
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    You did it right :D:thumbsup: Now the bastard is in the gallery
     
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  14. Irish

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    Is he on it now ??
     
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    YUP :)
     
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    He acts such a good muslim man with good family values and I was sucked into it all.... I feel like such a fool
     
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    Don´t feel like a fool :). As you can see in my name here, i did too , when i entered here. :) They are good actors!
     
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    Sorry i do not think so .
    i see same case Happen to my town . Women from Swiss and her boyfriend Scamm her for lot Money .
    she rapport him to police but nothing happen .
    Some other Scammer they told her to help , but they take money from her .
    She was with him in same appartment .
    The argue had with him she find out he talk with young lady from French & Argue start etc....
    She move to other place someone help her not know if he ask her for money or not .
    But i see her she was with 3 or 4 Men's And she ask for help .
    i think she come back to Swiss . more then 2 month not see her again .
     
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  22. Heidi

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    @Irish, So your rat Khaled Chourabi / Masakni worked in the Tej Marhaba Hotel in Sousse last year. Where did he work this year ?
     
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    Sorry to hear your story @Irish but these men are well trained and will never stop untill they have what they want and even their own families play along very good just to get the money to expend ... Unfortunaly you lost your money and I really hope it was not too much .... Tactfull is right the chance to get your money back is likely very little, cause I assume you have given this to him when you were with him or via Western Union - and you have no proof of renting a salon from your wedding ect ... It's unfair he did this to you with fake promises and believe me a lot of women has been conned by these rats.

    Every day we see new pictures popping up in the gallery but all experiences are quite the same ... it's a shame. Good you've exposed him here to warn others, but also that is not a guarantee he will not succeed in fallong another woman, even when women google their names and find them here, even for some it's not enough ... They still believe habibi .... Don't worry dear ... Karma will catch him someday ! Please take care !
     
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    Hi @Irish

    Firstly can I say I am so so sorry this has happened to you - I can understand your devastation.

    Please take your time to read the various threads and you will start to feel not so alone - also please be prepared for him to rear his head again but do NOT get sucked in. You have given him a lot of money so he knows there is possibly more he can extract from you. He will be giving you the silent treatment just now but this will change - it's a very common strategy.

    Also my love please read the following thread, it is direct yes but it is also very honest and true - keep reading it:

    http://www.tunisianloverats.com/threads/possible-coping-stratagy.2521/

    You will find lots of support on here and everyone will do everything they can to help you.

    MH xxxxx
     
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